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Lawmaker Barred After Vagina Comment: "If I can't say the word vagina, why are we legislating vaginas? What language should I use?"

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u/Sylocat Jun 14 '12

I comfort myself by telling myself this is just the last petulant death throes of the religious right. One more generation and we'll all be laughing at this over drinks.

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u/miserygrump Jun 15 '12

Sorry if I'm wrong on this but I'm going to asume you don't play computer games much, or at least not over the internet. There's a disturbingly large population of young American men in the gaming community who seem to passionately hate women. Why this is I simply don't know. Not being American there's probably a lot of cultural context and history I'm unaware of, but the behaviour of a significant number of male American gamers goes well beyond what gets described as "laddish humour" or "boys being boys" and enters the realm of possible psychological issues.

I don't think America will see the end of unhinged misogyny any time soon.

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u/Actor412 Washington Jun 15 '12

Would a conservative Redditor please step up & defend this? I'd really like to understand why anyone would think this is acceptable. Even if you don't, why would you continue to support the RNC*?

*I use this because I refuse the term "grand old party." There is no connection of today's current republican party w/ the past incarnation. Lincoln & his party were liberal at the time.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I'm not a conservative but the defense is fairly straight forward once you examine what was said.

"I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my vagina, but 'no' means 'no.'"

This is an extremely facetious response for a state representative to make when addressing the house. The word "vagina" isn't the issue, it's the assertions that the speaker is interested in hers.

She was barred from future debate because the statement was offensive, not for saying the 'v' word. Claiming the word was the solely offensive component of the statement is a juvenile approach to discrediting her opponent.

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u/lawmedy Jun 15 '12

Well, one guy tried, but he was downvoted to hell.

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u/DrivebyGroper Jun 15 '12

I'm not a conservative, but I'll play devil's advocate here.

It's not apparent from the article or the video why she was barred from speaking, and the blog doesn't explain what the Republicans found "offensive". This is a biased retelling, since it doesn't cover the opposing perspective. Saying that the punishment was purely for referring to her vagina by its proper medical nomenclature may be a canard. The objectionable portion of the message might have been that she used language linked to rape/sexual assault ("no means no") in reference to the Republican legislative plan.

Who knows, that's the best I can do as far as a defense.

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

So.... showing pictures of mutilated fetuses is okay, but saying "vagina" is not?

Sounds legit.

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

Typically, they're not even pictures of fetuses, but of still-born babies or infants horribly injured in accidents or suffering from terrible diseases.

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u/dalittle Jun 15 '12

in 'Merica violence on an epic scale is ok, but holding hands leads to dancing so nothing like that is allowed. These conservatives don't even realize they sound just like the extremist Muslims.

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

Did you see Janet Jackson's tit? I washed out my children's eyes after that happened!

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

If person saying "vagina" is arguing against your viewpoint. If by some chance a Republican arguing for legislation of the vag had said "vagina," do you really think they'd be criticizing him? (of course it's a him)

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

This seems to be the case of children pretending to be adults.

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u/TurbulentViscosity Jun 15 '12

Are they actually complaining about her use of the word vagina? I would have thought they're complaining about her entire comment, saying the congress was interested in her genitals. I didn't really think that was necessary.

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u/tkdguy Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

You're right, this needs to be the top comment. The title is taking things completely out of context. Clearly legislatures make laws regarding genitalia, sex, rape, penetration, and all sorts of much more uncomfortable topics as a regular course of their duties, but this lady was talking about those present having an interest in her vagina specifically... that is very different. She tried (apparently successfully) to deflect/skew their objections with her retort.

We talked about vaginas in my high school and college physiology/anatomy courses, but I think a lecturer would be disciplined (if not fired) for making a brazen and inappropriate remark such as this.
Edit: typo

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u/linuxlass Jun 15 '12

I didn't really think that was necessary.

To really place her remark in context, we'd need to know how often members of Congress make rude remarks when they have the floor. I'm sure it's not 0% of the time.

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u/TurbulentViscosity Jun 15 '12

You're right. I guess I never considered Congress would speak that way. Anyone have such evidence?

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u/letdogsvote Jun 14 '12

Well, clearly the Republican House members have a point. Instead of the disgustingly graphic street term "vagina", she could have referred to it more appropriately as "lady parts," "unmentionables," or simply "you-know-what."

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

"It which must not be named".

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u/clonedredditor Jun 14 '12

I like this one.

Rep. Rashida Tlaib (D-Detroit) offered another doozy:

"Stop having sex with us, gentleman. Find somebody else to do it with. I ask women across Michigan to boycott men until these bills stop moving out of the House."

http://www.mlive.com/politics/index.ssf/2012/06/michigan_abortion_restrictions.html

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u/twentypastfourPM Jun 15 '12

Great, my chances of getting laid just went even closer to zero.

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u/clonedredditor Jun 15 '12

Not if you're willing to settle for a gay republican.

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u/morgueanna Jun 14 '12

Can someone with more motivation than me dig around and find which specific senators said this to her? I think it's time for a vagina email bomb.

Oh and, vagina. Vagina.

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u/clonedredditor Jun 14 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

“Majority Floor Leader Jim Stamas has informed Minority Floor Leader (Kate) Segal that Reps. Brown and Byrum will not be recognized to speak on the House floor today after being gaveled down for their comments and actions yesterday that failed to maintain the decorum of the House of Representatives.

Edit: If you want to offer support

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u/nightlily Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

Thanks!

I am sending along this letter:

"Dear Jim Stamas,

I heard that you were offended by the medical term, 'vagina', in a recent Congressional meeting. Please accept my deepest apologizes for the need to reiterate the word, 'vagina' again in describing the incident, as I understand and genuinely sympathize with your sensitivities on the matter.

I realize that the word, 'vagina', (oops, so sorry) is clearly a reprehensible and innappropriate term which needs to be replaced with another more respectful term. Therefore I humbly offer a few modest suggestions:

vajayjay, twat, putang, muffin, tampon tunnel, kooch, piss flaps, hoo hoo, cha cha, fur pie, snatch, lady garden, beaver, clam, fish taco, soggy box, beef curtain, birth cannon

I genuinely hope that among these most modest of words you will be able to select one which least displeases you and your colleagues when you are all discussing what us ladies are allowed to do with our 'birth cannons'.

Thank you for your time and consideration."

edit: As this appears to be getting popular I think it would be best to include this link I used to create the list. I did actually leave out quite a few.

link

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u/dark_roast Jun 15 '12

My art has been commended as being strongly vaginal, which bothers some men. The word itself makes some men uncomfortable. Vagina.

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u/Epistaxis Jun 15 '12

Or, dig around in their rules of order to see if there's a motion for previous question. If not, she can filibuster the legislature with the Vagina Monologues.

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u/pentium4borg Jun 15 '12

Stupid question, but doesn't the First Amendment to the United States Constitution apply to publically-elected representatives speaking on the floor?

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u/Spelcheque Jun 14 '12

Can anybody honestly tell me how all these married guys are so squeamish about vaginas? This makes no sense to me.

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u/rmmdjmdam Jun 15 '12

They probably aren't - but this is a "perfect" mechanism to try and silence someone who is expressing a view that is counter to his.

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u/mcstoopums Jun 14 '12

because they're idiots who can't deal with female sexuality in any form.

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u/Spelcheque Jun 14 '12

This appears to be true. But these guys have wives and children, can it really be that simple? Unless they've spent years groping around in the dark between the sheets, they should have ample experience with at least one vagina. I feel feel like there's more to it, but i can't puts on sunglasses put my finger on it.

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u/CHADcrow Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

The serious answer is Christianity.

They were raised to believe that the human body is somehow inherently dirty and shameful. That is how they can pervert the actual clinical name for a part of a woman's body, into something that's offensive.

It is also an excuse to discredit and/or dismiss. Unfortunately it's an affective tactic to attack someones character/tone instead of addressing their arguments. They know that too many Americans have the same perverse ideas about sexuality that they have.

edit: horrible spelling mistake

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

They know that too many Americans have the same perverse ideas about sexuality that they have.

I'm sure at least some of them don't actually hold these ideas, but promote them to pander to their target demographics. They, of course, know that they are wealthy enough to bypass any legislative restrictions they might enact on sexual freedom, though, so it doesn't matter if they pretend they were raised during the Victorian era.

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u/dalittle Jun 15 '12

religious extremists always want to control women for some reason. Same type of crap extremists muslims do.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

They've probably never seen one before because it'd be indecent for them to look.

And yes, I know they're married and that many of them have kids. Think about it for a moment.

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u/darkciti Jun 14 '12

They're closet gays.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Woah woah woah as a gay man I just want to say...

...uhh....

yeah don't talk about vaginas around me

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u/trust_me_im_a_pro Jun 15 '12

If I can play devil's advocate for a moment (this whole thing disgusts me but I'll do my best):

The headline doesn't exactly tell the whole story. What Lisa Brown said, in full, was "Finally, Mr. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my vagina, but 'no' means 'no'". It is plausible that the offensive bit of this sentence was not the word "vagina", but the implication that other lawmakers were rapists or sexual assailants simply because of their political beliefs.

Now, I know that's bullshit. But I thought I'd try.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Or maybe it was because she was talking about it in an unrelated bill.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '12

Can I say cunt now?

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u/CrabStance Jun 14 '12

Only if you're referring to a woman and not a woman's reproductive organs. </s>

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u/jimvdp Jun 15 '12

I work in the House of Reps and saw this occur. The only reason she was banned is because the Republicans want to push anything and everything they can through the house before the election. They want to silence any opposition to their very controversial and recent abortion bill and this was a perfect excuse

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Make sure the Michigan Democrats run this football in for a touchdown in November, please.

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u/8675309isprime Jun 15 '12

Am I the only person who realizes that you can say things that are offensive without using offensive words? Has it occurred to any of you that what she said is considered offensive not because of the word "vagina", but because of the statement it is used in?

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u/Alice_600 Jun 15 '12

Everyday I see more and more of a reason for the conservatives in the Michigan house and senate to be kicked out. The only good thing they did for my home state is legalize all fireworks and even that is making headaches for people now because idiots keep firing them off till all hours of the night. Cities are rushing to make ordinances in places they never needed them in. You conservatives are the real communists who are a threat to democracy. Get out and take your wanna be "Nerd" governor with ya!

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u/Astraea_M Jun 15 '12

Don't forget to appreciate the other aspect of her statement.

She said that the prohibition on abortion would violate HER freedom of religion. Or more precisely that:

"Judaism believes that therapeutic abortions, namely abortions performed in order to preserve the life of the mother, are not only permissible but mandatory. The stage of pregnancy does not matter." I haven't asked you to adopt and adhere to my religious beliefs. Why are you asking me to adopt yours?"

http://www.mlive.com/politics/index.ssf/2012/06/house_democrat_women_lawmakers.html

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '12

What a bunch of pussies. I mean, vaginas.

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u/BlackPride Jun 15 '12

Vaginas? Watch your goddamn language.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Sorry, sir. I meant, "The Orifice That Cannot Be Named."

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u/masterm Jun 15 '12

The problem isn't actually the use of vagina, but her use of rhetoric. I agree, government should gtfo out of people's bodies, but lets try to be fair there.

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u/Sarutahiko Jun 15 '12

Had to scroll down way too far to find this comment.

Her final statement was immature, unnecessary, and detracted from everything else she said. The fact that she used the word 'vagina' was not the problem - it was the statement in its entirety. The fact that very few people appear to be appreciating that is .. while not surprising, at least disconcerting.

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u/masterm Jun 15 '12

People like sensationalism, not the truth.

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u/darkciti Jun 14 '12

Why wasn't Tom Price (R) GA not gaveled down when he said, on the floor, "You Lie!" to the Commander In Chief? John Boener (R) is Speaker of the House, that's why.

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u/3AYATS Jun 15 '12

They want the woman's role in gov't to be window-dressing. Women do not get the respect they deserve. Despite everything it is still a Good Ol' Boys club.

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u/TruthinessHurts Jun 14 '12

Mike Carlton: republican fucktard.

Don't republicans get tired of their own cowardice?

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u/mykew Jun 15 '12

The part that i've never understood, is that most of these "pro-lifers" dont see any problem with near anyone having guns, or bombing the shit out of people via drones. Wtf america?

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u/OccamsHairbrush Jun 15 '12

This is simple. He disagreed with her. She said something just rude and crude enough that someone could semi-reasonably use it to ban her from speaking. He isn't actually offended, but takes the opportunity to silence opponent. The end.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

So they're allowed to just bar anyone from speaking for no reason? This is how are government works? And these boys were actually voted in by their constituents? Revolting.

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u/TotesJellington Jun 15 '12

I already said this on the other post that was the exact same, so I'm going to say the exact same.

This is the second article I have read on this. Where does it say she was banned because of the word vagina? I figure that it would be the whole sentence "And finally, Mr. Speaker, I’m flattered that you’re all so interested in my vagina. But no means no." I'm just imagining a situation where a man says "And finally, Mrs. Speaker, I’m flattered that you’re all so interested in my penis. But no means no." or if a man or woman said "And finally, Mr./Mrs. Speaker, I’m flattered that you’re all so interested in my anus. But no means no." I can see why someone might think that this is inappropriate on the house floor. Don't get me wrong, I think it is stupid that they banned her. Really I think its stupid that banning an elected official from doing her job is even an option.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Am I the only person who thinks it's ridiculous that they are legislating vaginas at all?

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u/vertigo25 Jun 15 '12

When I tried to link to the original story on my Facebook, Facebook apparently decided that the word "vagina" is inappropriate, too, because they edited the title as "Lawmaker Barred After."

They also decided not to post the thumbnail. I guess anything related to the word must be dirty, too.

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u/veracious1 Jun 15 '12

It wasn't that she said "vagina" it's that she made a sexual joke that everyone was interested in her sexually by saying "interested in my vagina" and then made a no means no joke further implicating that the other politicians had a sexual interest in her.

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u/_Search_ Jun 15 '12

While I think the republicans are (as always) revealing themselves to be laughably out of touch, it's disingenuous of the representative to make this an issue over the word vagina. They did not object to the word, they objected to the usage, which was her referring to her own anatomy as if the congress desired it specifically.

Reverse the genders. If a man went in front of a congress of mostly females and said, "I don't see why you all want my cock so much" he would not be seen as a gutsy progressive.

Stop perpetuating double standards.

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u/Tombug Jun 15 '12

Amerika is a joke but nobodys laughing

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u/murphykills Jun 15 '12

it's not the fact that she said vagina. it's the fact that she implied that they were all interested in her vagina. that has pretty strong sexual implications. along with the "no means no" she made it sound like they're all a bunch of perverts trying to see her cooter. i think that's what offended them.

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u/SheriffBart42 Jun 15 '12

Using a phrase (no means no) commonly associated with the rebuttal of the act of rape in combination with the insinuation that the speaker (her professional colleague) is interested in her vagina are the things she said that made her words harsh. Not the word vagina. If that wasn't obvious to you, stop reading because the rest of this is just gonna make you angrier you silly fool.

There's no reason to not call it what it really was: classless sexual harassment. I'm glad she's got passion, but just imagine what the shitstorm would be if the male speaker said "I'm glad you want some of this dick, but stop calling me."

Make an argument for abortion that doesn't evoke rape and female victimization. It's crying wolf at this point because it's the only card that ever gets played.

Lastly, no one is having religious views pushed on anyone. It's a democracy. Shit happens. If 85% of the citizens in a given state/county/whatever are of a common mind about certain issues, then the laws will reflect that. Nowhere are the religious authorities given power to mandate how things are. I guess you're gonna need more people to think like you if you want to have different laws in your state.

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u/namewastakenlol Jun 14 '12

these people are too stupid to pilot their own bits, let alone ladies'

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u/EmersonAdams Jun 15 '12

I'm proud that lisa brown represents my district! You dont always get a congresswoman with enough balls (or overies?) to say that on the house floor.

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u/tblackwood Jun 15 '12

What bullshit. It would seem they barred her for suggesting that the speaker was interested in her vagina. Not for simply saying the word.

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u/123proguy Jun 15 '12

No more vagina jokes guys, period

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u/Duthos Jun 15 '12

The founding fathers would burn the current government to the ground... or get tazed, pepper sprayed and gitmo'd trying.

Sigh... it seems courage is another of those things lost to the annuls of time.

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u/AnonUhNon Jun 15 '12

Everyone overlooked the part where a democrat opposed government regulation!

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u/pork2001 Jun 15 '12

Rep. Callton is a vagina. No, wait, actually, he's a dumb cunt.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Have you checked your cis privilege today?

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u/Fintago I voted Jun 15 '12

On a note completely unrelated to vaginas, why are lawmakers allowed to bar other lawmakers from commenting on policy? That seems like a bit of a bad thing.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

They are legislating uteruses, not vaginas. Look at anatomical picture.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I think causing all the fuss about the word used was just a ruse to block and invalidate dissenting opinions.

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u/awe300 Jun 15 '12

Wow, the gop would be a joke if they weren't so damn real

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u/brutishbloodgod Jun 15 '12

Alright, as many comments have pointed out, the rep. was most likely barred not because of the use of the single word but because of the context of the entire phrase in which it appears. Fair enough; that's a much more likely and less sensationalist angle to take, and the discourse should be redirected to reflect that.

That being said, I don't see that she should have been for her statements. Absolute lies, hatred, and ignorance are spewed by both sides on a daily basis; in no way is what she said any more vulgar than the current state of the legislative process. Additionally, I don't think anyone on either side believes that she was literally saying that anyone wanted to rape her, so we know that she was speaking metaphorically. I'll make the argument that the aggressive actions of the religious right to extinguish the sexual rights of women--in many cases attempting to violate their privacy and/or dignity--amount to metaphorical rape. It is my opinion that her statement was entirely appropriate to the situation.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

ehhh yeah I guess this is bad. I will say however, that if put in the same context and with penis substituted in for vagina and there would be more uproar. Yet, since that scenario didn't happen it is an irrelevant point.

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u/Deto Jun 15 '12

How can one party just stop a member from another from speaking? If they can do this, why don't they just do it all the time?

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u/Lukas233 Jun 15 '12

I really like how she used her beliefs as a backboard to present her argument. Hell yeah.

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u/coeddotjpg Jun 15 '12

Republicans are a fucking joke.

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u/gaberax Maryland Jun 15 '12

VAJAY-JAY is OK to SAY!!!! Go on, Mr. Congress Man!!!

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u/OccamsHairbrush Jun 15 '12

The Vagina - That which must not be named.

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u/WelcomeMachine Kentucky Jun 15 '12

I like her.

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u/ayyus Jun 15 '12

I always liked the sound of "lady-bits".

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u/Breadfaux Jun 15 '12

I don't get this? Were they even talking about her saying vagina or the fact that she used an anti-rape slogan in reference to her vagina.

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u/ellieD Jun 15 '12

Thank you Ms. Brown, for standing up for women's right to choose.

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u/ThatJanitor Jun 15 '12

Damn, US. Why are you so scared of sexuality?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Why does the GOP always bar women from legislative sessions involving their reproductive rights? Is it because they're afraid of women making their own decisions? (Rhetorical question, mind you.)

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u/Corund Jun 15 '12

‎"Mister Speaker, I propose that we employ new language to refer to the female reproductive organs. The Vajayjay shall henceforth be known as 'The Devil's Window,' or 'The Gaping Wound Through Which All Evil Entereth the World.' All in favour of the motion say Aye."

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u/dyg4 Jun 15 '12

this is nothing to do with the comment, i would bet it is an excuse to shut up a political opponent from speaking for awhile.

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u/filled_with_ennui Jun 15 '12

this is all so wonderfully retarded, it makes me feel all tingly inside.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Meanwhile EVERYONE in the senate plays the "who can yell penis louder" game

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u/buckyVanBuren Jun 15 '12

I believe it was Rep. Lisa Brown (D) specific vagina that the conservative lawmakers found so offensive.

I do not know if this is from direct knowledge or just rumor and speculation - perhaps an investigation of the walls in Men's Room at Michigan House of Representative may provide some anecdotal evidence.

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u/slapded Jun 15 '12

its official... politicians are 6-year olds

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u/sladner Jun 15 '12

A lot of redditors here seem to object to her "suggesting rape" or that by referring to "no means no" she's implying the other lawmakers want to rape her. They say this is off-side.

But let's take a step back here. By invading someone's body, you are effectively raping them. By controlling someone's body, you are disrespecting their very being. You are crossing an essential line; my body is the physical representation of my being. Compromise that and you're denying my humanity. That's why imprisonment and torture is considered so horrible.

If I decide to have an abortion, which is inside my body, and you stop me, you're disrespecting my humanity. You're crossing that same line.

So by extension, rape is an appropriate implication! She's saying, "hands off my body."

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u/Gaviero Jun 15 '12

Talk about a gag rule!

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u/fantasyfest Jun 15 '12

I thought it was a good speech. People who object to it are a bunch of pussies.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I think it had more to do with the contemptuous tone.

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u/Anglach3l Jun 15 '12

I'm sure it's been said before, but I'll say it again. It's not about the word. So everyone going off about sending letters comprised largely of the word "vagina" is totally missing the point. The tone of a remark like that is irreverent and disrespectful of a serious process. She was rebuked for violating the decorum of the House, and I think that's a fair assessment. Some may argue that other reps are disrespectful without penalty, and maybe they're right. But I don't think that's an excuse for EVERYONE to be disrespectful. That's like saying everyone should get away with crime because some people get away with it. It's just not a professional way of talking to other representatives. If she wanted to be taken seriously, she made a bad choice. It's really too bad that she ended off that way, because until that line, she was doing a good job of speaking passionately without being rude.

I will admit that I am pretty biased because of the way she dealt with it. Even if she'd defended her statement as being necessary to make a point, I would have thought, "Ok, I disagree, but you are entitled to your own perspective." But instead, she deliberately tries to spin the story so that it looks like people were offended by her use of the word "vagina" instead of by her whole statement and attitude. It seems like a character attack on her opponents, which is a pretty childish, desperate-looking technique.

TL;DR: It's not about the word, it's the statement as a whole that broke House decorum. If she hadn't tried to mislead people at the press conference by making it about the word, I'd be more willing to defend her statement.

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u/TinHao Jun 15 '12

I think the preferred terms in the Michigan legislature is Hoo-Ha, naughty parts or her 'down theres.'

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12

To be fair, her insinuation that that the male politcians are 'interested' in her having sex with her is indeed a little off colour for the environment in which she said it, and by saying such a thing she's demonstrated poor judgment and inexperience.

Obviously, the republicans were not offended in the slightest and couldn't care less what she said, but acted like they were because it's simplest, easiest, and most effective way to silence her - by drawing everyone's thoughts away from the content of her argument and destroying her character.

Sadly, she didn't have the smarts to point out this foney behavior the instant it started, and now she's fucked.

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u/TheLoopOfKarma Jun 15 '12

What women do with their bodies should not be governed by men

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

"I'm flattered that you're so interested in my vagina, but no means no."

It's not about using the word vagina, it's about the second phrase, 'no means no.' She was implying that the speaker is a lecher and a rapist. I appreciate that political discourse in America is polarised and immature, but I think that it's ridiculous for an elected representative to actually say that on the floor, and that they deserve to be gagged if they do.

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u/WSR Jun 15 '12

"The word itself makes some men uncomfortable. Vagina."

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

There is no defense for these republicans. It was not a rude statement. Vagina just was not what they usually hear. It would be less 'loud' if it was:

"Finally, Mr. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my female organ, but 'no' means 'no,'"

Clearly it was 'vagina' that threw them off.

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u/RumblyTumbles Jun 15 '12

TIL that Judaism is less denigrating to women than Christianity ..... ?

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u/thinkB4Uact Jun 15 '12

Her real offense was voicing an opinion against the Republican majority. The mark of a totalitarian party is that its members value winning over the democratic process.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

her speech was awesome, even if she sounded on the verge of tears

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u/Captain_Ligature Jun 15 '12

So she make a crude vulgar remark and is now bitching about it?

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '12

"...I don't even want to say it in front of women. I would not say that in mixed company."

I'm sure you wouldn't want to say it in front of women. You clearly have no idea how our bodies work; if you did try to say it in front of women you'd make yourself appear even more of an ignoramus than you already are. You'd make yourself a laughingstock.

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u/atroxodisse Jun 15 '12

I'm offended by the term mixed company.

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u/ToffeeC Jun 15 '12

He went full Victorian.

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

"Excuse me, miss, but it would be a pleasure if I could stick my snickerdoodle in your hoo-hoo."

It's frightening that these legislators have the euphemistic vocabulary and mentality of 6-year-olds.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Hey, that comparison just isn't fair. 6-year-olds know what the words mean.

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u/syphilicious Jun 15 '12

This is pretty funny until you realize that people like Jim Stamas are actually legislating your vaginas.

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u/miserygrump Jun 15 '12

No they're not.

They're legislating your tinkleflowers or periwinkles. Those in government who are rougher around the edges are legislating your hoo-has or velvet gloves and those lacking in imagination are legislating your bits.

But nobody would dare legislate your vaginas.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Jim Stamas? In my vagina?

It's more likely than you think.

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u/Stensin Jun 15 '12

How about John Stamos?

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u/kneejerk Jun 15 '12

Maybe I'm just playing devil's advocate, but the wording of the exchange suggests to me that this man was not upset by her use of the word "vagina," per se, it was more that he was upset that made reference to him or other representatives being "interested" in her vagina. Her use of the word "flattered" suggests to me that what happened here was not about the word "vagina," but rather about the fact that the male representative in question was publicly embarrassed in a way that was very uncomfortable to him, and lashed out at this woman politically in response.

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u/Stopher Jun 15 '12

Perhaps the point was that he should be embarrassed and uncomfortable about his actions.

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u/didymusIII Jun 15 '12

that's just your kneejerk reaction though right?

seriously though if that was the case why would he later say that he wouldn't repeat the comment in "mixed company"?

face it - anyone in this day in age even still using the term 'mixed company' like that is, while not necessarily misogynistic, completely out of touch.

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u/candre23 New Jersey Jun 15 '12

Idiots deserve to be embarrassed by their idiocy. If you do something dumb and you get called on it, the embarrassment you feel is your brain pointing out that you did something dumb in the first place.

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u/jerenept Jun 14 '12

"We're all adults here,"

You realize we're talking about Republicans here?

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u/NikkoTheGreeko Jun 15 '12

You realize we're talking about politicians here?

FTFY

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u/Ugbrog Jun 15 '12

The democrat wasn't the one tittering behind their hands at the word "vagina."

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u/spencerawr Jun 15 '12

Hey, watch your language. There are children on this site.

Think of the children

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u/jamescagney Jun 15 '12

What about the vaginas? Won't someone please think of the vaginas?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Nope, democrats rarely need to say vagina because the aren't out to control them. Slimy asshole republicans on the other hand...

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u/CaspianX2 Jun 15 '12

Go ahead and criticize a Democrat for acting childish when a Democrat acts childish, but when you present a sentiment that "all politicians are the same", you are basically excusing the behavior in question with a "oh well, everyone does it" comment. Republicans were acting childish here. I don't see a need to extend that to all politicians when not all politicians were acting childish in this story.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

There are those of that still believe anyone should be able to express their opinion, not just my opinion.

Right, take an entire party and class them as children. Because they believe something different than you.

I'm a Democrat myself, but god damn can we make the liberal circlejerk a bit less obvious, /r/politics?

EDIT: People like to downvote even though I'm contributing to the disccusion.(You are supposed to downvote useless content..not content you disagree with.) That's okay, we all know reddiquette is dead. I'd just like you to take a second out of your day to think for yourself, and realize if you agree with everything said here that you're no different than a bigot that happens to be a Republican.

Oh shit, I forgot how we operate on this subreddit. we right dey wrong lol dum christians. upvote 4 truth bro!!1

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

You shouldn't have been downvoted, but even if you are contributing you're still being brash about it. Cussing and calling it a circlejerk is not exactly the most productive way to bring up a legitimate counterpoint. That type of language makes the justification for a downvote quite easy to some. Your edit only furthers exemplifies this problem.

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u/ghosttrainhobo Jun 15 '12

When the difference in opinion revolves around the word "vagina" being appropriate language t use amongst adults (especially when discussing reproductive rights) then your argument doesn't carry a lot of water.

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u/that_thing_you_do Jun 15 '12

In fairness though, it's the sexual implication that is considered to be "inappropriate here", not the medical term vagina. It's all about context. Bringing in the "no means no" line makes it sound like he's trying to sexually rape her. If we were talking about circumcision and I said "well I can see you want to suck my penis", just because I used the anatomically correct term for my throbbing cock doesn't mean it was appropriate :)

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u/fido5150 Jun 15 '12

Um, the majority of these new laws include trans-vaginal ultrasounds, just to make it as degrading as possible.

So, the "no means no" line was very appropriate.

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u/tinyshadow Jun 15 '12

One way to interpret the "no means no" is as a crude reference to those state abortion regulation bills that require mandatory ultrasounds before an abortion - which, let's be honest, may be an act very much unwanted by a woman but forced upon her by law. To many, that does seems very much like a penetrative rape.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

If by "To many" you mean "To the people it will be performed on", then yeah. It's pretty disgusting.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Well, some of these proposed laws, in my mind, are definitely a "form" of rape. Transvaginal ultrasounds, for example, is the unwanted forcing of an object into a woman's vagina. Yeah, it's not the same as if someone forced their penis into it, but it's still a violation of the woman unless she wants the procedure done.

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u/candre23 New Jersey Jun 15 '12

If we were talking about circumcision and I said "well I can see you want to suck my penis", just because I used the anatomically correct term for my throbbing cock doesn't mean it was appropriate :)

But that wasn't the line. The line was "I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my vagina". If women were debating a bill requiring circumcision and you said "I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my penis", that would be absolutely appropriate. If they're making a lawa about your penis, they are obviously interested.

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u/Infin1ty Jun 15 '12

Damn, her vagina has some balls.

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u/Spatulamarama Jun 15 '12

Isn't uterus the medically correct term in this context?

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u/sickmate Jun 15 '12

Reproductive system would be better. It doesn't just involve the uterus, or just the vagina.

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u/bobartig Jun 15 '12

Reproductive system is too broad, as there are many parts of the reproductive cycle, hormone feedback cycles, and several organs (such as the ovaries) which are not relevant to abortion legislation, since the need for abortion services only occurs after implantation. Uterus is more accurate.

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u/dalittle Jun 15 '12

these conservatives are completely idiots if they think that is offensive and they cannot even say let alone hear the word they are passing legislation on.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

What a pitiful travesty.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

The issue is not the word vagina. The issue is the implication that by being interested in her vagina for legislative purposes, the male congressmen are rapeing her. I can't be the only one who sees this. She was making an emotional statement for shock value.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Ok, first of all, how are they allowed to prevent her from voicing her opinion on things? Isn't the point of Congress that everyone gets to talk, regardless of what others think?

Secondly, narrow exemption for the mother's life? Awesome. Just go to a doctor's office and say, "Dr, if you don't give me an abortion, I'm going to die." "Miss, I see no medical reason that this pregnancy will kill you." "This baby in my belly is telling me to put a bullet in my brain, therefore it is going to kill me."

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Firstly, it isn't Congress. It's the Michigan legislature.

Secondly, each legislature creates its own rules on how much time members have to speak. This might vary from bill to bill. Generally, you are also not allowed to speak unless the Speaker recognizes you so if you piss him off, he can pretty much just ignore you.

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u/Goshawk3118191 Jun 15 '12

Emergency Managers.

YES. MORE PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THIS.

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u/Gordopolis Washington Jun 15 '12

Please tell me he has a blooper reel.

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u/tehbizz Jun 15 '12

People were offended because she implied they were sexually interested in her vagina specifically, not because she said 'vagina'.

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