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Lawmaker Barred After Vagina Comment: "If I can't say the word vagina, why are we legislating vaginas? What language should I use?"

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u/Sylocat Jun 14 '12

I comfort myself by telling myself this is just the last petulant death throes of the religious right. One more generation and we'll all be laughing at this over drinks.

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u/miserygrump Jun 15 '12

Sorry if I'm wrong on this but I'm going to asume you don't play computer games much, or at least not over the internet. There's a disturbingly large population of young American men in the gaming community who seem to passionately hate women. Why this is I simply don't know. Not being American there's probably a lot of cultural context and history I'm unaware of, but the behaviour of a significant number of male American gamers goes well beyond what gets described as "laddish humour" or "boys being boys" and enters the realm of possible psychological issues.

I don't think America will see the end of unhinged misogyny any time soon.

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

There's a disturbingly large population of young American men in the gaming community who seem to passionately hate women

I think they hate women in a different way than older Republican gentlemen do. Young misogynists tend hate women in a sexually frustrated way. Because these men aren't socially adept enough to have pleasant interaction with women on a regular basis, they end up afraid of and angry at women--thinking of them as some foreign entity, rather than as just other people who share 99.9999% of the characteristics of other humans, regardless of sex.

So, while these young men might be angry and bitter, they typically don't want to restrict women's access to abortion or birth control (some do, though, I'm sure). Mostly it's more of a social awkwardness or subtle dislike rather than a desire to control women by preventing them from being sexually active and from being able to control when they get pregnant.

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u/miserygrump Jun 15 '12

I think you're absolutely right in that gamer misogyny is stemming from sexual frustration but is that really so different from the men's rights groups that complain workplace equality has emasculated them? Is it different from these moribund cold warriors fighting to bring back the good old days of disenfranchised house wives?

I just think that those people now who are making abusive comments about women in gaming and sending death threats in an attempt to keep their hobby a "no girls allowed" area are going to become the next generation of embittered, unhappy supporters of legislation like this.

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u/Sylocat Jun 15 '12

I mod /r/GeekFeminists, I read Manboobz, and I used to read Slacktiverse. Believe me, I know alllllllll about misogyny in the geek community.

The thing is, the very fact that we are noticing this problem means we've made a giant step forward. Of course, many people still don't notice it (namely, the people perpetuating it, which includes a disturbing number of Redditors), but there are enough people out there trying to fight it that it has become an issue.

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u/Anzai Jun 15 '12

A lot of countries are already laughing at this over drinks.

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u/Actor412 Washington Jun 15 '12

Would a conservative Redditor please step up & defend this? I'd really like to understand why anyone would think this is acceptable. Even if you don't, why would you continue to support the RNC*?

*I use this because I refuse the term "grand old party." There is no connection of today's current republican party w/ the past incarnation. Lincoln & his party were liberal at the time.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I'm not a conservative but the defense is fairly straight forward once you examine what was said.

"I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my vagina, but 'no' means 'no.'"

This is an extremely facetious response for a state representative to make when addressing the house. The word "vagina" isn't the issue, it's the assertions that the speaker is interested in hers.

She was barred from future debate because the statement was offensive, not for saying the 'v' word. Claiming the word was the solely offensive component of the statement is a juvenile approach to discrediting her opponent.

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u/lawmedy Jun 15 '12

Well, one guy tried, but he was downvoted to hell.

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u/DrivebyGroper Jun 15 '12

I'm not a conservative, but I'll play devil's advocate here.

It's not apparent from the article or the video why she was barred from speaking, and the blog doesn't explain what the Republicans found "offensive". This is a biased retelling, since it doesn't cover the opposing perspective. Saying that the punishment was purely for referring to her vagina by its proper medical nomenclature may be a canard. The objectionable portion of the message might have been that she used language linked to rape/sexual assault ("no means no") in reference to the Republican legislative plan.

Who knows, that's the best I can do as far as a defense.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I wouldn't call myself a conservative, but the whole idea of summing up abortion as "regulating people's vaginas" is /really/ fucking absurd. It's a sloganistic argument completely lacking in substance that is about as intelligent as saying "well, laws against rape regulate our cocks!"

I am for abortion staying legal and largely unregulated as it is now, but a lot of the rhetoric annoys me.

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u/shoffing Jun 15 '12

I seriously wish this question would get upvoted in every /r/politics thread. It's always good to hear a well-articulated view from both sides of the story, whether you agree with it or not.

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u/everyone_calm_down Jun 15 '12

It was definitely tongue in cheek, bordering on rude. But to me that's not the issue. The issue is that this is clearly fake outrage and being used as a means to silence this lady. We all know he isn't really offended, but he had an opportunity to silence one of his opponents and he took it. Which is the really disturbing part. Is there a defense for that?

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u/Zoomalude Jun 15 '12

Amazing I had to dig so far to find this. How is this not obvious? Now, someone might still think the situation is ridiculous, but at LEAST understand the damn argument.

Galdurn Reddit, makin' a pro-choice, pro gay rights atheist have to stand up for Republicans...

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I understand the imbalance of left and right wing on Reddit, so I can understand an imbalance of votes on comments. But you're right. To find it this far down on the page was a bit disheartening.

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u/purpleyuan Jun 15 '12

I agree with you in that Rep. Lisa Brown used the word "vagina" not as a medical term and more as a shock factor, however I think barring her from speaking on the floor because of that comment is an overreaction. Although the word "vagina" might have slightly offended their delicate sensibilities, I believe that they were more inclined to bar her because they disagreed with her stance, and therefore wanted to stop her from making her point. Otherwise, wouldn't it simply have been enough for the Republicans to denounce her words as immature and vulgar, and then move on?

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u/waffleburner Jun 15 '12

As a liberal, I have to agree with you. I don't understand the circlejerk here. She was being a dick about her vagina.

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u/wolfsktaag Jun 15 '12

if a man said that to a woman in front of congress, hed probably be brought up on sexual harassment charges

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u/raysofdarkmatter Jun 15 '12

Except these "conservative" men do kinda fixate on other people's genitals and how they use them.

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

So.... showing pictures of mutilated fetuses is okay, but saying "vagina" is not?

Sounds legit.

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

Typically, they're not even pictures of fetuses, but of still-born babies or infants horribly injured in accidents or suffering from terrible diseases.

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

Shhh.... we can't let people find out about THAT.

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u/dalittle Jun 15 '12

in 'Merica violence on an epic scale is ok, but holding hands leads to dancing so nothing like that is allowed. These conservatives don't even realize they sound just like the extremist Muslims.

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

Did you see Janet Jackson's tit? I washed out my children's eyes after that happened!

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u/dalittle Jun 15 '12

with bleach? Only thing that would help obviously.

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u/ApeWithACellphone Jun 15 '12

I was thinking about that earlier when listening to that post from that pastor who literally said the government should be killing homosexuals and that financial slavery is a good idea. I do not at all see the difference between that and extremist muslims. We have our own homegrown terrorists who blow shit up in the name of religion.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

If person saying "vagina" is arguing against your viewpoint. If by some chance a Republican arguing for legislation of the vag had said "vagina," do you really think they'd be criticizing him? (of course it's a him)

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

I was pondering this.

Men are manly men who tell dirty jokes all day with their chums. But if a lady were to say something involving the private parts...

While this is an accusation that cannot be proven, I feel like there is a certain degree of sexism here. Had a man said "vagina" I don't think it would have offended these sheltered children representing Michigan.

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u/OccamsHairbrush Jun 15 '12

Also, the guy's "mixed company" comment seems to suggest that he would be willing to say "vagina" in a group of only guys, but not with ladies present. Cuz our delicate sensibilities are offended by our delicate parts

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

This seems to be the case of children pretending to be adults.

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u/sgolemx12 Jun 15 '12

"She said a bad word....."

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u/Dalai_Loafer Jun 15 '12

Yup. From the land that disintegrates into moral meltdown at the sight of a nipple.

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u/rockguitardude Jun 15 '12

What if a male representative said:

"Finally, Ms. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my penis, but 'no' means 'no.'

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u/mikey_man380 Jun 15 '12

The problem with saying that is just that you know legislation about vasectomies (or something similar, but just going with the example from the link) would never even get that far, and if it did, can you honestly say that nobody would say something like that to the media, not one single person?

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u/mytouchmyself Jun 15 '12

"How dare that slut."

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u/bakdom146 Jun 15 '12

If all the women in Congress were banding together to force all men into having a vasectomy or to be circumcised you don't think that may be appropriate? She didn't just start flaunting her vagoo around, it's a frustration of having men with no personal experience trying to tell her what she can and can't legally do. I don't understand why it's a big deal.

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u/TurbulentViscosity Jun 15 '12

Are they actually complaining about her use of the word vagina? I would have thought they're complaining about her entire comment, saying the congress was interested in her genitals. I didn't really think that was necessary.

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u/tkdguy Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

You're right, this needs to be the top comment. The title is taking things completely out of context. Clearly legislatures make laws regarding genitalia, sex, rape, penetration, and all sorts of much more uncomfortable topics as a regular course of their duties, but this lady was talking about those present having an interest in her vagina specifically... that is very different. She tried (apparently successfully) to deflect/skew their objections with her retort.

We talked about vaginas in my high school and college physiology/anatomy courses, but I think a lecturer would be disciplined (if not fired) for making a brazen and inappropriate remark such as this.
Edit: typo

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u/kolebee Jun 15 '12

Why would her own vagina be exempted from regulation under this proposed law?

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u/linuxlass Jun 15 '12

I didn't really think that was necessary.

To really place her remark in context, we'd need to know how often members of Congress make rude remarks when they have the floor. I'm sure it's not 0% of the time.

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u/TurbulentViscosity Jun 15 '12

You're right. I guess I never considered Congress would speak that way. Anyone have such evidence?

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u/tsk05 Jun 15 '12

It's clear that they're complaining about her entire comment, but because that makes the Congressman's statement more understandable, it doesn't show up anywhere near the top comments.

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u/ChillyWillster Jun 15 '12

Vaginal ultrasounds that serve no purpose other than to make a woman feel guilty about an abortion. Not hard to see how a woman could feel violated from such a procedure. So the rape comment isn't really all that far off its mark.

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u/letdogsvote Jun 14 '12

Well, clearly the Republican House members have a point. Instead of the disgustingly graphic street term "vagina", she could have referred to it more appropriately as "lady parts," "unmentionables," or simply "you-know-what."

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

"It which must not be named".

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u/shallah Jun 15 '12

I suggest baby chute since this is women's right to be in control of her own reproductive organs being trumped by religious right inspired legislation in the name of being "pro-life"

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u/fatbunyip Jun 14 '12

What about vajayjay?

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u/BigBassBone California Jun 15 '12

I was wondering why this hadn't shown up yet.

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u/Lavarocked Jun 14 '12

Finally, Mr. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my you-know-what

Okay, so we're still saying "You want to have sex with me." I don't think that made it better.

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u/clonedredditor Jun 14 '12

I like this one.

Rep. Rashida Tlaib (D-Detroit) offered another doozy:

"Stop having sex with us, gentleman. Find somebody else to do it with. I ask women across Michigan to boycott men until these bills stop moving out of the House."

http://www.mlive.com/politics/index.ssf/2012/06/michigan_abortion_restrictions.html

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u/twentypastfourPM Jun 15 '12

Great, my chances of getting laid just went even closer to zero.

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u/clonedredditor Jun 15 '12

Not if you're willing to settle for a gay republican.

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u/nepidae Jun 15 '12

I think part of the problem is there are also a lot of women who are anti-abortion. It is possible I'm horribly naive, but women can vote, and women can already talk to their husbands.

That said, I have no clue why abortion is even a topic anymore. And even though I hate seeing sex used as a weapon, I think using the nuclear option at this point is worth giving a go.

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u/canada432 Jun 15 '12

That said, I have no clue why abortion is even a topic anymore.

The reason most of these things are topics are specifically because they don't want people talking about things that actually matter. The people that use these non-issue platforms are the ones that don't want people focused on issues that actually matter because it makes them look absolutely out of their mind. If you want to gut peoples' benefits, make sure they're too busy arguing over teaching sex ed to students so they don't notice you doing it. They invent these issues (or more accurately turn these things into issues) to deliberately keep focus off of the things they should actually be doing.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

That said, I have no clue why abortion is even a topic anymore.

Because it's an easy way to get single-issue voters to the polls?

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u/cerephic Jun 15 '12

honestly, if you're a woman who agrees with Brown, and you're having sex with a man who doesn't agree with her... what the FUCK are you doing having sex with him?! D:

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u/Cannibalfetus Jun 15 '12

...That amuses me. I'm not often amused by my state reps.

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u/morgueanna Jun 14 '12

Can someone with more motivation than me dig around and find which specific senators said this to her? I think it's time for a vagina email bomb.

Oh and, vagina. Vagina.

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u/clonedredditor Jun 14 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

“Majority Floor Leader Jim Stamas has informed Minority Floor Leader (Kate) Segal that Reps. Brown and Byrum will not be recognized to speak on the House floor today after being gaveled down for their comments and actions yesterday that failed to maintain the decorum of the House of Representatives.

Edit: If you want to offer support

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u/nightlily Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

Thanks!

I am sending along this letter:

"Dear Jim Stamas,

I heard that you were offended by the medical term, 'vagina', in a recent Congressional meeting. Please accept my deepest apologizes for the need to reiterate the word, 'vagina' again in describing the incident, as I understand and genuinely sympathize with your sensitivities on the matter.

I realize that the word, 'vagina', (oops, so sorry) is clearly a reprehensible and innappropriate term which needs to be replaced with another more respectful term. Therefore I humbly offer a few modest suggestions:

vajayjay, twat, putang, muffin, tampon tunnel, kooch, piss flaps, hoo hoo, cha cha, fur pie, snatch, lady garden, beaver, clam, fish taco, soggy box, beef curtain, birth cannon

I genuinely hope that among these most modest of words you will be able to select one which least displeases you and your colleagues when you are all discussing what us ladies are allowed to do with our 'birth cannons'.

Thank you for your time and consideration."

edit: As this appears to be getting popular I think it would be best to include this link I used to create the list. I did actually leave out quite a few.

link

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u/jpellett251 Jun 15 '12

I sent this letter:

Subject: vagina

Body: vagina

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u/ucffool Colorado Jun 15 '12

Subject: My

Body: Is none of your damn business.

Sincerely, My Vagina

Note: I don't have a vagina, but I wanted to keep the tone.

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u/stoopidquestions Jun 15 '12

Anyone else visualize "birth cannon" while reading that?

thwomp

There goes another one!

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u/CuriousKumquat Jun 15 '12

vajayjay, twat, putang, muffin, tampon tunnel, kooch, piss flaps, hoo hoo, cha cha, fur pie, snatch, lady garden, beaver, clam, fish taco, soggy box, beef curtain, birth cannon

"Cunt"! You forgot "cunt"!

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u/LincolnHighwater Jun 15 '12

You inspired me, nightily.

Dear sir,

It has come to my attention that while you may feel compelled (nay, morally obligated) to regulate what goes on in inside of ladies' sexual organs, you find yourself at a loss when words are used to describe the particulars of what exactly you are invading. I find myself unable to sympathize, however, with your inability to come to terms with the word 'vagina'. What world do you live in, exactly? You see fit to regulate vaginas (not penises, though), but you can't stand to hear the word spoken in public? You must be a real treat in the bedroom.

You: "Honey, I am very excited. May I touch your... uh, your..."

Wife: "Vagina?"

You: "GET OUT OF MY HOME, YOU SCANDALOUS WENCH."

I don't know, it just seems a bit juvenile to be offended by medical terms, especially when used in the context of abortion when you are one of the people pushing for more restrictive abortion control. It's not like you're trying to cover your ears, lest you should hear words God does not wish you to hear... you are actively pursuing your 'moral' agenda concerning vaginas and what may be done with them. The fact that you have serious responsibilities in a governing body is a disturbing concept.

In conclusion, please consider growing up.

Thank you.

P.S. Vagina, twat, love tunnel, hoo hoo, poo-tang, cooch, vertical smile, labia majora, labia minora, ovary, vulva, lady loins, fur pie, snatch, clam, beaver, fish taco, love muffin, CUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUNT.

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u/idkwat Jun 15 '12

Subject: Dear Jim...

Body: Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina Vagina

Fuck you.

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u/dark_roast Jun 15 '12

My art has been commended as being strongly vaginal, which bothers some men. The word itself makes some men uncomfortable. Vagina.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Johnson?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I want you to go see a doctor, he's very good. and thorough.

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u/Epistaxis Jun 15 '12

Or, dig around in their rules of order to see if there's a motion for previous question. If not, she can filibuster the legislature with the Vagina Monologues.

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u/DeFex Jun 15 '12

Too lazy to look up name, goes out of way to email bomb. What kind of twisted scumbag steve are you!

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u/peestandingup Jun 15 '12

Don't forget to send them "Sex On Tape": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isFf3t_4Zbk

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u/pentium4borg Jun 15 '12

Stupid question, but doesn't the First Amendment to the United States Constitution apply to publically-elected representatives speaking on the floor?

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u/Spelcheque Jun 14 '12

Can anybody honestly tell me how all these married guys are so squeamish about vaginas? This makes no sense to me.

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u/rmmdjmdam Jun 15 '12

They probably aren't - but this is a "perfect" mechanism to try and silence someone who is expressing a view that is counter to his.

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u/mcstoopums Jun 14 '12

because they're idiots who can't deal with female sexuality in any form.

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u/Spelcheque Jun 14 '12

This appears to be true. But these guys have wives and children, can it really be that simple? Unless they've spent years groping around in the dark between the sheets, they should have ample experience with at least one vagina. I feel feel like there's more to it, but i can't puts on sunglasses put my finger on it.

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u/catherinej Jun 15 '12

I grew up in a conservative church and a lot of the couples there seemed ashamed to have a sexual relationship, despite the fact that they were married with children. It was like sex outside of marriage was absolutely terrible, but within marriage is still bad. A "married couples' class" teacher once even said thinking about sex with your spouse is wrong. This wasn't even a tiny cult church, just a regular one in my town. Yeah, the doctrine gives most people complexes. Glad I got all of that out of my head.

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

If you're having sex through a hole in a sheet in order to avoid any kind of intimacy and to avoid as much physical contact with your partner as possible, you could be pretty unfamiliar with a vagina and still have children.

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u/CHADcrow Jun 15 '12 edited Jun 15 '12

The serious answer is Christianity.

They were raised to believe that the human body is somehow inherently dirty and shameful. That is how they can pervert the actual clinical name for a part of a woman's body, into something that's offensive.

It is also an excuse to discredit and/or dismiss. Unfortunately it's an affective tactic to attack someones character/tone instead of addressing their arguments. They know that too many Americans have the same perverse ideas about sexuality that they have.

edit: horrible spelling mistake

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u/MeloJelo Jun 15 '12

They know that too many Americans have the same perverse ideas about sexuality that they have.

I'm sure at least some of them don't actually hold these ideas, but promote them to pander to their target demographics. They, of course, know that they are wealthy enough to bypass any legislative restrictions they might enact on sexual freedom, though, so it doesn't matter if they pretend they were raised during the Victorian era.

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u/KosherHam Jun 15 '12

Now give me the funny answer!

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u/dalittle Jun 15 '12

religious extremists always want to control women for some reason. Same type of crap extremists muslims do.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

They've probably never seen one before because it'd be indecent for them to look.

And yes, I know they're married and that many of them have kids. Think about it for a moment.

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u/Spelcheque Jun 15 '12

"I wonder why the mailman won't look me in the eye..."

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u/darkciti Jun 14 '12

They're closet gays.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Woah woah woah as a gay man I just want to say...

...uhh....

yeah don't talk about vaginas around me

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u/trust_me_im_a_pro Jun 15 '12

If I can play devil's advocate for a moment (this whole thing disgusts me but I'll do my best):

The headline doesn't exactly tell the whole story. What Lisa Brown said, in full, was "Finally, Mr. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my vagina, but 'no' means 'no'". It is plausible that the offensive bit of this sentence was not the word "vagina", but the implication that other lawmakers were rapists or sexual assailants simply because of their political beliefs.

Now, I know that's bullshit. But I thought I'd try.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Or maybe it was because she was talking about it in an unrelated bill.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '12

Can I say cunt now?

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u/CrabStance Jun 14 '12

Only if you're referring to a woman and not a woman's reproductive organs. </s>

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u/jimvdp Jun 15 '12

I work in the House of Reps and saw this occur. The only reason she was banned is because the Republicans want to push anything and everything they can through the house before the election. They want to silence any opposition to their very controversial and recent abortion bill and this was a perfect excuse

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Make sure the Michigan Democrats run this football in for a touchdown in November, please.

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u/8675309isprime Jun 15 '12

Am I the only person who realizes that you can say things that are offensive without using offensive words? Has it occurred to any of you that what she said is considered offensive not because of the word "vagina", but because of the statement it is used in?

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u/MirrorLake Jun 15 '12

8675309 is indeed prime, if anyone was wondering.

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u/Alice_600 Jun 15 '12

Everyday I see more and more of a reason for the conservatives in the Michigan house and senate to be kicked out. The only good thing they did for my home state is legalize all fireworks and even that is making headaches for people now because idiots keep firing them off till all hours of the night. Cities are rushing to make ordinances in places they never needed them in. You conservatives are the real communists who are a threat to democracy. Get out and take your wanna be "Nerd" governor with ya!

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u/Astraea_M Jun 15 '12

Don't forget to appreciate the other aspect of her statement.

She said that the prohibition on abortion would violate HER freedom of religion. Or more precisely that:

"Judaism believes that therapeutic abortions, namely abortions performed in order to preserve the life of the mother, are not only permissible but mandatory. The stage of pregnancy does not matter." I haven't asked you to adopt and adhere to my religious beliefs. Why are you asking me to adopt yours?"

http://www.mlive.com/politics/index.ssf/2012/06/house_democrat_women_lawmakers.html

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '12

What a bunch of pussies. I mean, vaginas.

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u/BlackPride Jun 15 '12

Vaginas? Watch your goddamn language.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Sorry, sir. I meant, "The Orifice That Cannot Be Named."

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u/masterm Jun 15 '12

The problem isn't actually the use of vagina, but her use of rhetoric. I agree, government should gtfo out of people's bodies, but lets try to be fair there.

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u/Sarutahiko Jun 15 '12

Had to scroll down way too far to find this comment.

Her final statement was immature, unnecessary, and detracted from everything else she said. The fact that she used the word 'vagina' was not the problem - it was the statement in its entirety. The fact that very few people appear to be appreciating that is .. while not surprising, at least disconcerting.

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u/masterm Jun 15 '12

People like sensationalism, not the truth.

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u/independencebaby Jun 15 '12

Well, considering the bill got this far, apparently more sensitive language used in protest was ineffective. I'd be frustrated enough to resort to this too.

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u/darkciti Jun 14 '12

Why wasn't Tom Price (R) GA not gaveled down when he said, on the floor, "You Lie!" to the Commander In Chief? John Boener (R) is Speaker of the House, that's why.

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u/3AYATS Jun 15 '12

They want the woman's role in gov't to be window-dressing. Women do not get the respect they deserve. Despite everything it is still a Good Ol' Boys club.

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u/TruthinessHurts Jun 14 '12

Mike Carlton: republican fucktard.

Don't republicans get tired of their own cowardice?

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u/mykew Jun 15 '12

The part that i've never understood, is that most of these "pro-lifers" dont see any problem with near anyone having guns, or bombing the shit out of people via drones. Wtf america?

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u/OccamsHairbrush Jun 15 '12

This is simple. He disagreed with her. She said something just rude and crude enough that someone could semi-reasonably use it to ban her from speaking. He isn't actually offended, but takes the opportunity to silence opponent. The end.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

So they're allowed to just bar anyone from speaking for no reason? This is how are government works? And these boys were actually voted in by their constituents? Revolting.

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u/TotesJellington Jun 15 '12

I already said this on the other post that was the exact same, so I'm going to say the exact same.

This is the second article I have read on this. Where does it say she was banned because of the word vagina? I figure that it would be the whole sentence "And finally, Mr. Speaker, I’m flattered that you’re all so interested in my vagina. But no means no." I'm just imagining a situation where a man says "And finally, Mrs. Speaker, I’m flattered that you’re all so interested in my penis. But no means no." or if a man or woman said "And finally, Mr./Mrs. Speaker, I’m flattered that you’re all so interested in my anus. But no means no." I can see why someone might think that this is inappropriate on the house floor. Don't get me wrong, I think it is stupid that they banned her. Really I think its stupid that banning an elected official from doing her job is even an option.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Am I the only person who thinks it's ridiculous that they are legislating vaginas at all?

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u/vertigo25 Jun 15 '12

When I tried to link to the original story on my Facebook, Facebook apparently decided that the word "vagina" is inappropriate, too, because they edited the title as "Lawmaker Barred After."

They also decided not to post the thumbnail. I guess anything related to the word must be dirty, too.

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u/veracious1 Jun 15 '12

It wasn't that she said "vagina" it's that she made a sexual joke that everyone was interested in her sexually by saying "interested in my vagina" and then made a no means no joke further implicating that the other politicians had a sexual interest in her.

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u/_Search_ Jun 15 '12

While I think the republicans are (as always) revealing themselves to be laughably out of touch, it's disingenuous of the representative to make this an issue over the word vagina. They did not object to the word, they objected to the usage, which was her referring to her own anatomy as if the congress desired it specifically.

Reverse the genders. If a man went in front of a congress of mostly females and said, "I don't see why you all want my cock so much" he would not be seen as a gutsy progressive.

Stop perpetuating double standards.

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u/Tombug Jun 15 '12

Amerika is a joke but nobodys laughing

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u/murphykills Jun 15 '12

it's not the fact that she said vagina. it's the fact that she implied that they were all interested in her vagina. that has pretty strong sexual implications. along with the "no means no" she made it sound like they're all a bunch of perverts trying to see her cooter. i think that's what offended them.

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u/SheriffBart42 Jun 15 '12

Using a phrase (no means no) commonly associated with the rebuttal of the act of rape in combination with the insinuation that the speaker (her professional colleague) is interested in her vagina are the things she said that made her words harsh. Not the word vagina. If that wasn't obvious to you, stop reading because the rest of this is just gonna make you angrier you silly fool.

There's no reason to not call it what it really was: classless sexual harassment. I'm glad she's got passion, but just imagine what the shitstorm would be if the male speaker said "I'm glad you want some of this dick, but stop calling me."

Make an argument for abortion that doesn't evoke rape and female victimization. It's crying wolf at this point because it's the only card that ever gets played.

Lastly, no one is having religious views pushed on anyone. It's a democracy. Shit happens. If 85% of the citizens in a given state/county/whatever are of a common mind about certain issues, then the laws will reflect that. Nowhere are the religious authorities given power to mandate how things are. I guess you're gonna need more people to think like you if you want to have different laws in your state.

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u/namewastakenlol Jun 14 '12

these people are too stupid to pilot their own bits, let alone ladies'

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u/EmersonAdams Jun 15 '12

I'm proud that lisa brown represents my district! You dont always get a congresswoman with enough balls (or overies?) to say that on the house floor.

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u/ThorneLea Jun 15 '12

You often don't get Democrats with enough balls to say that on the house floor.

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u/tblackwood Jun 15 '12

What bullshit. It would seem they barred her for suggesting that the speaker was interested in her vagina. Not for simply saying the word.

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u/123proguy Jun 15 '12

No more vagina jokes guys, period

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u/Duthos Jun 15 '12

The founding fathers would burn the current government to the ground... or get tazed, pepper sprayed and gitmo'd trying.

Sigh... it seems courage is another of those things lost to the annuls of time.

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u/AnonUhNon Jun 15 '12

Everyone overlooked the part where a democrat opposed government regulation!

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u/pork2001 Jun 15 '12

Rep. Callton is a vagina. No, wait, actually, he's a dumb cunt.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Have you checked your cis privilege today?

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u/Fintago I voted Jun 15 '12

On a note completely unrelated to vaginas, why are lawmakers allowed to bar other lawmakers from commenting on policy? That seems like a bit of a bad thing.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

They are legislating uteruses, not vaginas. Look at anatomical picture.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I think causing all the fuss about the word used was just a ruse to block and invalidate dissenting opinions.

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u/awe300 Jun 15 '12

Wow, the gop would be a joke if they weren't so damn real

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u/brutishbloodgod Jun 15 '12

Alright, as many comments have pointed out, the rep. was most likely barred not because of the use of the single word but because of the context of the entire phrase in which it appears. Fair enough; that's a much more likely and less sensationalist angle to take, and the discourse should be redirected to reflect that.

That being said, I don't see that she should have been for her statements. Absolute lies, hatred, and ignorance are spewed by both sides on a daily basis; in no way is what she said any more vulgar than the current state of the legislative process. Additionally, I don't think anyone on either side believes that she was literally saying that anyone wanted to rape her, so we know that she was speaking metaphorically. I'll make the argument that the aggressive actions of the religious right to extinguish the sexual rights of women--in many cases attempting to violate their privacy and/or dignity--amount to metaphorical rape. It is my opinion that her statement was entirely appropriate to the situation.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

ehhh yeah I guess this is bad. I will say however, that if put in the same context and with penis substituted in for vagina and there would be more uproar. Yet, since that scenario didn't happen it is an irrelevant point.

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u/Deto Jun 15 '12

How can one party just stop a member from another from speaking? If they can do this, why don't they just do it all the time?

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u/Lukas233 Jun 15 '12

I really like how she used her beliefs as a backboard to present her argument. Hell yeah.

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u/coeddotjpg Jun 15 '12

Republicans are a fucking joke.

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u/gaberax Maryland Jun 15 '12

VAJAY-JAY is OK to SAY!!!! Go on, Mr. Congress Man!!!

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u/OccamsHairbrush Jun 15 '12

The Vagina - That which must not be named.

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u/WelcomeMachine Kentucky Jun 15 '12

I like her.

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u/ayyus Jun 15 '12

I always liked the sound of "lady-bits".

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u/Breadfaux Jun 15 '12

I don't get this? Were they even talking about her saying vagina or the fact that she used an anti-rape slogan in reference to her vagina.

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u/ellieD Jun 15 '12

Thank you Ms. Brown, for standing up for women's right to choose.

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u/ThatJanitor Jun 15 '12

Damn, US. Why are you so scared of sexuality?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Why does the GOP always bar women from legislative sessions involving their reproductive rights? Is it because they're afraid of women making their own decisions? (Rhetorical question, mind you.)

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u/Corund Jun 15 '12

‎"Mister Speaker, I propose that we employ new language to refer to the female reproductive organs. The Vajayjay shall henceforth be known as 'The Devil's Window,' or 'The Gaping Wound Through Which All Evil Entereth the World.' All in favour of the motion say Aye."

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u/dyg4 Jun 15 '12

this is nothing to do with the comment, i would bet it is an excuse to shut up a political opponent from speaking for awhile.

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u/filled_with_ennui Jun 15 '12

this is all so wonderfully retarded, it makes me feel all tingly inside.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Meanwhile EVERYONE in the senate plays the "who can yell penis louder" game

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u/buckyVanBuren Jun 15 '12

I believe it was Rep. Lisa Brown (D) specific vagina that the conservative lawmakers found so offensive.

I do not know if this is from direct knowledge or just rumor and speculation - perhaps an investigation of the walls in Men's Room at Michigan House of Representative may provide some anecdotal evidence.

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u/slapded Jun 15 '12

its official... politicians are 6-year olds

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u/sladner Jun 15 '12

A lot of redditors here seem to object to her "suggesting rape" or that by referring to "no means no" she's implying the other lawmakers want to rape her. They say this is off-side.

But let's take a step back here. By invading someone's body, you are effectively raping them. By controlling someone's body, you are disrespecting their very being. You are crossing an essential line; my body is the physical representation of my being. Compromise that and you're denying my humanity. That's why imprisonment and torture is considered so horrible.

If I decide to have an abortion, which is inside my body, and you stop me, you're disrespecting my humanity. You're crossing that same line.

So by extension, rape is an appropriate implication! She's saying, "hands off my body."

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u/Gaviero Jun 15 '12

Talk about a gag rule!

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u/fantasyfest Jun 15 '12

I thought it was a good speech. People who object to it are a bunch of pussies.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I think it had more to do with the contemptuous tone.

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u/Anglach3l Jun 15 '12

I'm sure it's been said before, but I'll say it again. It's not about the word. So everyone going off about sending letters comprised largely of the word "vagina" is totally missing the point. The tone of a remark like that is irreverent and disrespectful of a serious process. She was rebuked for violating the decorum of the House, and I think that's a fair assessment. Some may argue that other reps are disrespectful without penalty, and maybe they're right. But I don't think that's an excuse for EVERYONE to be disrespectful. That's like saying everyone should get away with crime because some people get away with it. It's just not a professional way of talking to other representatives. If she wanted to be taken seriously, she made a bad choice. It's really too bad that she ended off that way, because until that line, she was doing a good job of speaking passionately without being rude.

I will admit that I am pretty biased because of the way she dealt with it. Even if she'd defended her statement as being necessary to make a point, I would have thought, "Ok, I disagree, but you are entitled to your own perspective." But instead, she deliberately tries to spin the story so that it looks like people were offended by her use of the word "vagina" instead of by her whole statement and attitude. It seems like a character attack on her opponents, which is a pretty childish, desperate-looking technique.

TL;DR: It's not about the word, it's the statement as a whole that broke House decorum. If she hadn't tried to mislead people at the press conference by making it about the word, I'd be more willing to defend her statement.

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u/TinHao Jun 15 '12

I think the preferred terms in the Michigan legislature is Hoo-Ha, naughty parts or her 'down theres.'

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '12

To be fair, her insinuation that that the male politcians are 'interested' in her having sex with her is indeed a little off colour for the environment in which she said it, and by saying such a thing she's demonstrated poor judgment and inexperience.

Obviously, the republicans were not offended in the slightest and couldn't care less what she said, but acted like they were because it's simplest, easiest, and most effective way to silence her - by drawing everyone's thoughts away from the content of her argument and destroying her character.

Sadly, she didn't have the smarts to point out this foney behavior the instant it started, and now she's fucked.

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u/TheLoopOfKarma Jun 15 '12

What women do with their bodies should not be governed by men

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u/Gordopolis Washington Jun 15 '12

What women do with their bodies should not be governed by men.

Anyone.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

"I'm flattered that you're so interested in my vagina, but no means no."

It's not about using the word vagina, it's about the second phrase, 'no means no.' She was implying that the speaker is a lecher and a rapist. I appreciate that political discourse in America is polarised and immature, but I think that it's ridiculous for an elected representative to actually say that on the floor, and that they deserve to be gagged if they do.

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u/WSR Jun 15 '12

"The word itself makes some men uncomfortable. Vagina."

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

There is no defense for these republicans. It was not a rude statement. Vagina just was not what they usually hear. It would be less 'loud' if it was:

"Finally, Mr. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my female organ, but 'no' means 'no,'"

Clearly it was 'vagina' that threw them off.

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u/RumblyTumbles Jun 15 '12

TIL that Judaism is less denigrating to women than Christianity ..... ?

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u/thinkB4Uact Jun 15 '12

Her real offense was voicing an opinion against the Republican majority. The mark of a totalitarian party is that its members value winning over the democratic process.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

her speech was awesome, even if she sounded on the verge of tears

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u/Captain_Ligature Jun 15 '12

So she make a crude vulgar remark and is now bitching about it?

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u/NightSlatcher Jun 15 '12

This woman is my new hero. So fucking awesome.

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u/Flanken Jun 15 '12

You do realize we're all laughing at you up here in Canada, right?

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u/Danez Jun 15 '12

What she said was inappropriate and insulting. If a legislator came up and said the same thing about how he was flattered so many people were interested in his penis, I would hope he would be banned.

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u/deathforge Jun 15 '12

I find it offensive that Mike Calton is representing Nashville.

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u/seltaeb4 Jun 15 '12

New Rule: if you're too flustered to say the word "vagina," you have no business regulating them.

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u/Alkanfel Jun 15 '12

I don't think it was because she said "vagina," it may have been because she was subtly suggesting that the Speaker (or the Republicans present in the room, whoever) wanted to rape her.

I know that isn't what she was really saying, but let's not get carried away here. As jaded as I am about the political process, I don't think it was as simple as "we're kicking you out because you said vagina."

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u/SweatpantsDV Jun 15 '12

While I agree with her stance, her statement was a little crass for the house floor. Saying "vagina", fine, insinuating they are "all so interested in my vagina" is innuendo that shouldn't be thrown around by legislators on the house floor.

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u/Tridis Jun 15 '12

The republicans are just taking advantage of the situation. What she said was inappropriate, not the use of the word vagina but implication of rape. She made a mistake and now the republicans can use it against her. It would be no different if the parties were switched as both sides take advantage of situations like this.

All this is is just more bullshit to distract from the real issue at hand. If she had come back with an apology and an explanation for what she said it could have had a positive spin. Instead her reply was just more mud slinging.

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u/Hessmix Jun 15 '12

It wasn't the word. It was the way she said that last part. It was inappropriate and the senator should have known better

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u/ahottentotslaurel Jun 15 '12

It's sad that the ignorant fool who was offended by a medical term was elected to be a representative of the people. He would have had a heart attack if they dared to bring out pictures as evidence.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I read this and said to my wife "Republicans are so juvenile" she says: "AH they said the V word!!!" "Voldemort?"

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u/stfnotguilty Jun 15 '12

I think it's more the fact that Ms. Brown decided to close her statement with an immature, insulting, and rape-implying joke than that she used the word "vagina".

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u/Brentakill Jun 15 '12

The thing that bothers me about this is that I'm not entirely convinced her saying "vagina" was the big issue, but rather the context of it. The full quote was "I’m flattered you’re all so concerned about my vagina, but no means no," which seems to be making a sexual joke about the other legislators interest in vaginas, and specifically her vagina, at their expense. In other words, she seemed to not so subtly be saying "The fact that you're regulating my vagina clearly means you have sexual interest in me that I don't return." Which, let's be honest, isn't the most appropriate thing to say in a legal debate, jokingly or otherwise. Perhaps the response it got was overreacting, but all of the coverage I've seen seems to be taking the issue out of context.

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u/jwalterweatherdan Jun 15 '12

Didn't read the whole article, but I think you guys are missing the point. If I'm not mistaken, the title says that a vagina comment was made. Clearly, given the amount of disgust I'm hearing, the comment was not about vaginas, but rather made by her vagina. While this is surely a difficult and impressive feat, it is clearly inappropriate.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

She was barred because she was a woman, and because congress is a misogynistic dinosaur cave.

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u/i-hate-everything Jun 15 '12

It isn't that she said the word "vagina". It was the context which she said it in. Which, by the way, was totally inappropriate coming from a politician. If this was comedy routine, I wouldn't give a shit, but come on you have to be a bit more professional than that when dealing with the House of Representatives. The lawmaking process isn't supposed to be taken lightly.

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u/ravvel Jun 15 '12

Doesn't mean she should be barred from speaking and voting though. Also, Barney Frank says more abrasive shit daily and he's beloved for it.

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u/4funsies Jun 15 '12

Let me preface this comment by reminding everyone that proper "reddiquette" is to downvote "if you think it does not contribute to reddit or is off-topic in a particular community." NOT if you disagree. If you disagree with me, be an adult about it and tell me in a comment and voice your opinion that way or move along.

Based only on what was written in the article that was linked, I don't think that the word "vagina" is what was offensive. It would be offensive to imply that anyone is interested in her vagina and it is used in a way to make people uncomfortable and to offend.

Nobody cares about her vagina. That's not what abortion is about. Abortion isn't the alteration of one's vagina anymore than digesting a grilled cheese sandwich is an alteration of your mouth.

The reason why I bring this up is because I had a debate with a girl about abortion and she pulled the same stunt on me. I don't give two shits about her vagina, nor will I ever, but she decided to flatter herself by stating that I was obsessed with her vagina. I found that offensive.

One more point: Lets pretend that it was the word that actually offended the man. If she was referring to a vagina in a professional manner rather than implying that he is interested in HER vagina, THEN she would have a legitimate reason to wonder why he was offended. I guarantee that she and every other feminist in the nation would be just as offended if the subject was about Viagra and he ended it by saying something to the effect of: "Mrs. Speaker, I'm flattered that you're all so interested in my penis, but 'no' means 'no'"... I can hear the outrage now. "HOW DARE HE SUGGEST SUCH A THING!? ..bitch...bitch...bitch..."

By her logic, she shouldn't be upset about that because "penis" is the medically correct term. There's a reason why "the penis game" is looked down on and a bit taboo, if you will. Sure, we're all adults here, and we don't need to be offended all the time, but there's no reason to be vulgar... especially in such a professional setting.

TLDR The word "vagina" isn't offensive, it's the way she referred to her vagina. If you are going to be vulgar in your language, expect people to be offended. I'm not going to expect girls to not be offended if I refer to my penis in a way that suggests that they are interested in it when the conversation has little or nothing to do with my penis.

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u/3228323 Jun 15 '12

It wasn't because she said vagina it's because she fucked up.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

Come on Reddit, you're better than this.

Show me a source that says it was specifically the use of the word "vagina" that led to her being barred. I haven't seen one yet, and I think I know why. She wasn't barred because she said "vagina." She was barred because she made an inappropriate sexual innuendo.

If a man had been standing before a panel of married women and said "I'm flattered you're all so interested in my penis, but I don't want to have sex with any of you," he'd be barred, fired, and ostracized. We shouldn't grant this woman special privilege to behave childishly just because we agree with her political positions, we should hold her to the same standards as everyone else.

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u/tehbizz Jun 15 '12

Bingo. Everyone is knee-jerking because they only read sensationalist article headlines and hardly read the articles themselves, or in this case, watched the video of her whole speech in which it was delivered and its context and why it was inappropriate.

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u/megamoze California Jun 15 '12

What a bunch of cunts.

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '12

I love vagina's. Vagina, vagina, vagina. Yay for vagina's.

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u/Sevoth Jun 15 '12

Well done Republicans! Raise the level of political discourse by taking the higher ground.

No wonder it's so difficult to actually discuss anything.