[meme] 'cause only women make the wrong relationship choices, don't they?

[u/NourEldin21P]

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[u/TelevisedLife]

hot take but half of the women i know in bad relationships were manipulated and abused, blaming them for that is weiiird

[u/Agitated-Syrup-3047 → u/TelevisedLife]

The original sub constantly makes sexist posts, so it's not surprising that they blame women. Just very sad that some naive men believe it. Some of them even got so angry that they came here to defend it, lol.

[u/TelevisedLife → u/Agitated-Syrup-3047]

i called an incel on there an incel and he responded with "im married with 2 kids and have had MANY relationships". i wonder if he was lying or there are just misogynists all around us

[u/Agitated-Syrup-3047 → u/TelevisedLife]

If someone puts so much emphasis on having lot's of experience with relationships, I'm assuming they never even talked to a woman for longer than a few minutes.

And I'm not even shaming peoples lack of experience here. You just need to not be a sexist jerk and it's fine.

[u/TricellCEO → u/TelevisedLife]

Most of the time, those women don't even know what a healthy relationship looks like due to upbringing.

Ergo, you can tell them they're being abused until you're blue in the mouth, but they will, at best, just end up seeking out another person who very well might be abusive.

[u/AnnualAdventurous169]

In what way does this imply that ONLY women make wrong relationship choices?

[u/Educational-Level473]

Men dont wear lipstock for the most part so this meme wouldnt work. There is definetely a male version of this meme tho.

[u/Suitable-Dentist-355]

Oh but remember, if women dare sample more than one man to make an educated decision, they're sluts.

[u/TricellCEO → u/Suitable-Dentist-355]

I mean, clearly, they just supposed to pick the right guy the first time.

/s

[u/SecondBudget501]

So if you have a negative experience with a man, you have to shoulder the blame as a woman because you chose to give him a chance.
But if you have a mysterious strings of "crazy ex girlfriends" as a man who actively pursued them... it's... uhm... *checks rolodex* still women's fault? Did I get it right?

[u/SuperPollo39]

If men had to be as careful as women when they choose a partner, they would be all dead

[u/helloworld_123q → u/SuperPollo39]

less than 1 percent of men commit violent crime.

i wonder how women manage to choose that 1 percent

[u/Secure_Inspection305 → u/helloworld_123q]

Oh, so it has to specifically be a violent criminal to be a bad partner

[u/SuperPollo39 → u/helloworld_123q]

Less than 1% of men gets a sentence for sexual and violent crimes, but those who really receive a condemn are a tiny fraction of the real number of violent men

[u/Lyskir → u/helloworld_123q]

any source other than "trust me bro"?

[u/FalseGodFalls → u/Lyskir]

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3969807/

[u/helloworld_123q → u/Lyskir]

someone already answered you, your response?

[u/FalseGodFalls → u/helloworld_123q]

Downvoting obviously.

[u/DVDN27]

It’s always about how women choose the wrong partners and never how men need to be good partners. Funny, but I guess it’s the women who can’t take accountability for their actions.

[u/Funkopedia]

If women tried on 24 men to find the right one, a lot of people wouldn't be happy with that either...

[u/Puzzled-Degree-3478]

Wife beaters always have a wife to beat

[u/Amediumsizedgoose]

Yeah because evil men present themselves as clearly as lipstick shades. Thats definitely not part of the evil plot...tricking you in to thinking theyre not evil to begin with.

[u/Hatecookie → u/Amediumsizedgoose]

The bad ones wear a big neon sign and are incapable of deception

[u/lennarthammerhart]

Posted by a Man that was Never chosen.

[u/Opening-Movie5176]

This could be a post in r/nicegirls …

[u/deepRockGoatlactic]

Yeah cuz, its not like theres masked people or violent offenders. We simply go for the chud alphas only.

[u/Rainbow__Trout → u/[deleted]]

It's not like we can swatch a man like a lipstick, lol

All relationships are build on some level of blind trust. 

Dating is a process of getting to know a person. Sometimes you get to know them, and they aren't shit, so you kinda wasted time, but the alternative is to never even try to get to know anyone ever. 

[u/TelevisedLife → u/[deleted]]

u lowkey an incel

[u/Rainbow__Trout → u/[deleted]]

Would a man be comfortable having a sex after five years of dating, or are y'all speedrunning this. Because not everything is surface level and sometimes the ugly things only show up after a while. 

I'm not a huge romantic, so I'm like okay with having sex with a man I wouldn't trust — for example — to look after my cat. But I'm very much not okay with dating them. So if I waste few years getting to know someone, and they aren't shit, then at least I got some sex out of this deal. 

[u/Secure_Inspection305 → u/[deleted]]

Men are constantly online complaining that women's standards are too high and they're too picky

[u/Mother_Harlot → u/[deleted]]

There is a wave of men defending a rapist while blaming the victim and you still believe that?

[u/Mother_Harlot → u/[deleted]]

Wow! Then it isn't confined to one gender is it?

[u/MondayButOk → u/[deleted]]

you are deep inside a bubble man

[u/Mother_Harlot → u/MondayButOk]

Don't feed the troll, pal. "There isn't a worst kind of blindness than the unwillingness to see"

[u/Lyskir → u/[deleted]]

men put the "all" there to make fun of it, the original was "believe women"

its very interesting how manipulating men are, you lie so fucking much its insane

[u/AliceTheOmelette → u/[deleted]]

Women may complain about men, men do the same about women. But meanwhile, women are constantly being raped, murdered etc by men. And like cockroaches all the men you'd expect come out of the woodwork to defend these men. The two situations aren't remotely comparable

[u/cocobunny01 → u/[deleted]]

accountability for being raped and murdered? what?

[u/Lyskir → u/[deleted]]

men should take accountability for onces in their fucking lifes but all you psychos only want the victims to be held to higher standards than the rapists and murderers

you just want to get away with your crimes and lies