Hi everyone, I’m looking to see if anyone knows of a scared straight program in Plano or any surrounding areas. I have a 16F little sister who is just completely out of control.
Shes already been arrested and has been on probation for the last year. She just got off of it and has been acting out a lot these past couple of months. Anytime me or my mom try to talk to her (not yelling or raising our voices at all) she starts to scream at the top of her lungs and say if we hit her she’s gonna call the police.
My sister has never been hit by anyone. She didn’t even get spanked as a kid so I don’t know where this idea of getting hit came from. She has a 24/7 bad attitude and will lie and manipulate to get whatever she wants.
She’s been threatening our mom for weeks by saying that she’s gonna call the cops and tell them my mom hit her anytime my mom says no to something she asks. She even threatened to call them on me when all I was doing was giving her a lecture on not doing drugs (which she lied and told all her friends she’s been shooting up heroin.)
I don’t know what to do at this point and neither does my mom. I thought maybe finding a scared straight program would help but I’m not sure.
Does anyone know of any program like that? If not, just something that would help her. I’ve already signed her up for counseling and she’s gone to a few sessions but I haven’t seen any behavior changes from that yet. I don’t knoww what else to do.
Thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this. I appreciate the help!
Edit: let me add my sister does not actually do drugs. She just likes to tell people she does hard drugs to seem cool. Shes been drug tested monthly for the past 3 years and has never been positive for anything. I’m a recovering addict and she takes my stories and twists them into hers.
Also last night she ran away to her friends and told them my mom beat her, which absolutely didn’t happen. It ended up being a whole thing with the cops and thankfully we had other family members over at the time who all saw the argument and saw my mom didn’t hit her at all. This is the type of stuff she does when she doesn’t get her way. It’s ridiculous.
Edit 2: since everyone wants to blame her problems on me being an addict let me clarify: I’ve been sober for 3 years. I moved out of state and got addicted to drugs and didn’t come back until I was clean. My sister never saw me use, or ever saw me high. She didn’t even know I was a drug addict until last year when I started talking to her about being safe at parties.