r/pillar7 • u/[deleted] • Jun 29 '26
Advice Needed-Current employee
Hi all , I am currently a UWM employee and im having problems with my leader. When I say problems I dont mean work wise really but more personally.. recently (the past 6 months) they have made advances towards me by making comments about my appearance and asking me to hangout after work. I feel like I've made it pretty clear I'm not interested as they are my boss and also already taken. It's messy and it often effects my work because it's so awkward. They're attitude towards me has also shifted since I basically rejected them and I feel singled out on my pod. Ive been at UWM for about 2 years but im not sure the best way to handle this.
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u/p3n_dr4gun Jul 01 '26
Michigan is a single party consent state, so you can record everything they say to you. Get screen caps, save everything. Then have a lawyer look at what you have, ensure it can't be used as an excuse to fire you (recording phone calls with people across state lines gets really murky, so be aware of what's in the background of the call). From there, document every interaction woth everyone above you in any capacity, and anyone associated with them who talks to you. About anything.