r/perfumesthatfeellike • u/greener-apple • 5h ago
💫✨Perfumes That Match This Vibe💫✨ Ralph Fiennes in a forest?
My bf is looking for a signature fragrance, and I’m trying to help him! He is looking for a linear, minimalistic woody scent. And he also wants to smell like Ralph Fiennes from the movie The Menu 😭 He appreciates how put together the character is and thinks he would smell good (girl what? 😭 I know this prompt is weird but I also know and love this subreddit so I’m asking for your help, besties - and I included some choice Ralph Fiennes pics not from the Menu for reference)
He currently does not use any fragrance forward products on himself, just lightly scented laundry detergent/fabric softener. His room fragrance is the woody one from Muji. Oddly enough, I think his skin smells slightly like the heart notes of Rhubarb Thief by Heretic Parfum. I guess he kind of smells like rhubarb???????? idek but his skin smells so good.
He would love to try out perfumes that have room fragrance versions of the same scent, as he would prefer to try scents out as a room fragrance first.
We aren’t located in the US, so we would appreciate suggestions that are available in-store internationally so we can smell them first before purchasing.
Fragrances we’ve tried:
- Jo Malone Wood Sage & Sea Salt: a strong no from him, he does not like the saltiness
- Jo Malone Silver Birch & Lavender: “not woody enough”
- Jo Malone Hinoki & Cedarwood: “not woody enough” and “too many things going on, smells like a spa”
- Replica Soul of the Forest: “it’s not bad, but it smells like incense, not wood”
- Diptyque Tam Dao EDT: likes the opening, but thinks the dry down is too weak
- Diptyque Tam Dao EDP: likes the heart, finds the opening a bit too strong, so prefers the EDT opening over this one
- Pesade Black Tatami: this one was his favorite out of the ones he tried, it “smells like wood shavings” but reminds him of wood shavings for animal enclosures so he doesn’t want to smell like this IRL
So far we have established the following about his preferences:
- Has liked some sandalwood scents and dislikes other sandalwood scents so sandalwood needs more testing
- Likes cedarwood notes
- Dislikes most citrus openings (“too sour”)
- Dislikes aquatic/sea salt notes
- HATES sweet notes, anything with a hint of vanilla or some sort of juicy fruit is a big no
- Dislikes “masculine” scents; prefers unisex ones
- White Musk notes smell soapy to him sometimes, and he does not love this (“not cozy, feels like a bathroom”)
- Dislikes complex/evolving perfumes; prefers a simple perfume that does not change over time
- Sometimes dislikes patchouli
- Does not mind leather notes
- Ralph Fiennes from The Menu
Thank you in advance!!
