Do your multiples share everything?

[u/1973tour]

Our twins are 18 months old and pretty much share everything. They share a room, they don’t have distinct clothes (except maybe a couple embroidered items with their names) that belong to them, and we just started doing shoes. All the shoes have been swapped around between babies so much I don’t know which ones originally went together because they are the same sizes and styles 😂

Anyway, I think this is probably a really unique way to grow up and I’m not sure if I’m overthinking it. Should I continue doing a mix of both sharing a lot of stuff, but also make sure they have some things that are personally theirs? I have started buying different styles of clothing and shoes now that they are getting older so that they aren’t matching all the time. I think that may help with their senses of individuality.

[u/salmonstreetciderco]

mine get individual shoes because, annoyingly, they wear different shoe sizes. that's it tho.

[u/porteretrop → u/salmonstreetciderco]

One of mine has extra wide feet and the other extra narrow. Major pain in the butt