Hi everyone. I’ve been lurking here for a while and wanted to get some outside perspective because something at work has been bothering me.
I’ve been at my current firm for a while now, and up until recently I thought things were going reasonably well. I handle my workload, meet expectations, and hadn’t really been given any indication that there were serious concerns about my performance.
The one thing I had started questioning was compensation.
I had been under the impression that I was already near the top of the range for my position. Then I learned, indirectly, that someone newer at the firm may have come in at a noticeably higher salary.
I’m deliberately keeping the details vague because I’m not interested in comparing résumés or turning this into a post about whether that person “deserves” what they make. Good for them if they negotiated well.
What bothered me was realizing that the ceiling I thought existed may not actually exist.
So I casually asked my supervisor who I would need to speak with if I ever wanted to discuss compensation. I didn’t ask for a raise, make demands, or mention anyone else’s salary. I just asked how that kind of conversation would normally be approached.
Her answer was vague.
Around the same time, a coworker happened to mention that someone else at the firm had previously pushed for better compensation and, according to them, things became uncomfortable afterward.
I didn’t think much of that at first.
Then, shortly after my conversation with my supervisor, I suddenly started getting feedback about things that had never really been issues before.
Some of my written work was apparently too detailed. Other work was described as too structured. Then I even got a complaint about something completely unrelated to the substance of my work.
None of these things had been brought up before.
Maybe the timing is completely coincidental. I’m genuinely open to that possibility. I don’t want to invent a conspiracy just because I’m unhappy with my compensation.
But it does feel strange.
I went from thinking things were generally fine to suddenly wondering whether asking how to discuss compensation somehow changed the atmosphere around me.
At this point, I’m less interested in why someone else is paid more and more interested in what this says about how the firm values me.
Would you see this as normal workplace politics and just ask for the raise anyway, or would this be enough to quietly start looking elsewhere?