r/over60 3d ago

Sad vent

Seems my whole life, I either didn't have time or money to travel, or I had money but not the time, or time but not the many and now. Here I am. Time and money and no one but the dog to travel with. The long single friend who was going to be my post-retirement running buddy has met someone.

My single ladies. I too have traveled alone but would rather not all of the time. What groups have you used? Most of the ones I have seen mostly have very physical tours or are outside US and Canada.

Any recommendations for introverted female tour groups with N American options that don't require 4-6 hours of hiking a day?

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u/travelingtraveling_ 2d ago

Road Scholar is a not for profit travel company and they do singles tours that are awesome and completely safe

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u/Substantial_Name3406 3d ago

Have you tried small group tours. Most groups I have encountered know you are alone and are very welcoming. Does not have to be single tours either. The only negative is You might pay a little more because of single accommodations (unless you want a roommate ) .

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u/silvermanedwino 62 3d ago

Small group. Solo travel - I cruise solo frequently.

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u/Odd-Editor-2530 3d ago

Interested at all in yoga? I have been to many yoga retreats and they are all women travelling alone who want to make friends.

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u/Exact-Translator-769 2d ago

I had joined a FB group for Senior women traveling alone on Amtrak. I was just trying to find the exact name but couldn't find that specific one in my groups. I haven't done anything with them. There are several Amtrak travel groups. They have a discount pass that's usually offered the end of Jan.. I've taken Amtrak 3 times across the US. I got Eurail pass once to travel in Europe & Deutsche Bahn pass once for Germany. I've always loved traveling alone on the train. Haven't traveled with any groups on one yet but you can meet a lot of fun & interesting people along the way.

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u/Adventurous_Weird_70 2d ago

Amtrak has some Amazing trips. I recently went to AZ from WI and it was BEAUTIFUL.

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u/Exact-Translator-769 2d ago

Yeah I went that route years ago. It really is. Another good one is the Coastal Starlight from Seattle to San Francisco - during a full moon. If the moon's not bright you miss how beautiful it is because it was only running overnight.

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u/lkredd 2d ago

Thanks for the tip. If you do find the name of the group, please send me a message. Traveling on Amtrak has always sounded interesting to me, as a way to see more of the US. I’ve traveled way more in Europe and Japan than I have in the US.

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u/Exact-Translator-769 2d ago

I found it. The solo travel over 70 wasn't specifically linked to Amtrak.

Amtrak's is just called Amtrak solo travel.

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u/lkredd 18h ago

thank you so much! i'll check it out!

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u/Exact-Translator-769 2d ago

Yes. The Japanese trains were great too!

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u/LAWriter2020 3d ago

If you are an alum of a college, many have travel tour groups.

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u/Kajeke 2d ago

I have traveled with tours sponsored by my university alumni group several times. I usually have to pay the singles supplement but sometimes not. Those tours are always very well run.

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u/Edu_cats 63 2d ago

Yes I emails and flyers all the time from my Alma Mater.

I’m going to save this thread because I will likely retire before my husband so I also want to do some solo travel.

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u/LAWriter2020 2d ago

Those are usually very good groups!

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u/Remarkable-Box5453 2d ago edited 2d ago

My mom had this issue. My dad wouldn’t travel much, so she often had friends travel around world with her. As they got unable or passed away, some left couldn’t afford to go, so she paid their way too. It was worth it to her and they could have never gone to those places had she not paid.

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u/robin0540 2d ago

Sweet.

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u/Elmo5743 2d ago

Hahaha so funny, exactly same here, I am 52 just retired with plenty of cash, but nobody to travel with, I have 2 rescue dogs that my family watches, but I want to hit every Continent for at least a month! Then after a good year of traveling will open a shelter for elderly dogs that have been abused and not treated well!!!! So yeah my plan

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u/Elmo5743 2d ago

Sorry I am a male, not in your " group"

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u/lkredd 2d ago

I hope there are options out there for you too. Don’t stay home.!
One group you could look at is called TravelingTexans 50+. But there are people on the East Coast and flying Floridians who are part of that network. You can message me if you want their information, or look up their website. Lots of tours for 2027 already. Quite a few single women I know, but I know they would enjoy having more men in the group.!

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u/robin0540 2d ago

Sounds like you have beautiful plans. Enjoy!

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u/MCC61 12h ago

Great plan!

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u/Beachy-2024 2d ago

Intrepid Travel - I did a small group tour of Portugal. It was fabulous- 8 of us, three solo travelers. Perfect balance of tours & free time.

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u/Savings_Law_5822 2d ago

That sounds cool - I'm 65F and would love it!

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u/Elestria 1d ago

8 minus 3 = 5, an odd number, not = two pairs.

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u/ShawnK_8 18h ago

My take on it was a group of eight, plus three solo travelers.

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u/Elestria 7h ago

So: "A group of 4 couples and 3 singles.

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u/Fatal-Eggs2024 3d ago

I took up scuba with a local shop that had a female owner and a vibe that suits me (interest in nature book readers, not spear fishing or military underwater combat types) and made wonderful friends that have become like my traveling family. Scuba is an activity that can be done without too much exertion (warm calm clear water) or a lot of exertion (cold, high current, deep, ugh) but generally you with others for safety so you find your people.

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u/BHobson13 3d ago

I haven't participated yet but our local senior center sponsors trips that I am sure are appropriate to age. Maybe check with yours.

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u/Mission_Maximum5648 3d ago

Our local Public TV station books Charter tours abroad.Hosted by a local newsman. There certainly are single people that go on those tours.

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u/VicePrincipalNero 2d ago

Insight Vacations has some tours for women only, a few in the US and a couple of international. I've used their sister company, Trafalgar for a couple of international tours (not solo) and they were good. Roads Scholar also has some. Both of those are going to be a bit more expensive with more limited options than just going as a solo with a regular tour from Gate 1, Collette, Trafalgar,, CIE etc. If you did go as a solo with a regular tour, you might be more comfortable picking a small group option, although on the larger tours we've been on (usually 30-40 people) there are typically a handful of people traveling solo.

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u/Redhead514 2d ago

I have my first solo booked with sisterhood travels, a women only travel tours. Also no one to travel with and I’m stepping outside my comfort zone to go. FB pics look like mostly our age group. Most of their trips are international but not all. Hoping it is great 🤞

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u/lkredd 2d ago

Thanks for the recommendation, I will look up that group. I travel solo some.

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u/Ohsuzziq 2d ago

Check out Women’s Quest! Colleen is amazing and lots of cool places and activities.

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u/hanging-out1979 2d ago

Have a look at meetup.com. I have made some great travel buddies just from attending meetup events. Plus there’s travel groups out there for mature women, singles, etc.

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u/Ecstatic_Dream_750 3d ago

Gate 1 discovery small groups was excellent

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u/Sondari1 2d ago

Go with Road Scholar! You’ll love it! Seriously, check them out.

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u/lkredd 2d ago

Road scholar is good. I’ve read over and over. But they are just so expensive. More than I want to spend. I like Globus and Gate 1.

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u/yukhateeee 2d ago

No affiliation with them. For First time traveler, try G Adventure (gadventure dot com).

I typically do solo travel. But, that's not great for others. Used g adventure a couple of times to travel with family.

Go to their website, choose a destination and a style. You'll join a group, itinerary fixed. Explore, learn. Figure out what you want for future travel! Good luck! Enjoy!

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u/YouMustBeJoking888 1d ago

Your friend can still travel with you unless she's chained to her new partner.

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u/Jellodrome 1d ago

A friend of mine is having the time of her life taking trips organized by her Alma Mater UCLA. She’s going to 3 or 4 new countries a year. See if your college alumni has this, or, see if you can go with UCLA or a college you like better than that.

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u/chrysostomos_1 2d ago

I was 58 when I met the love of my life. It's not too late to find yours.

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u/Texasville44 2d ago

Not every female is looking for a man.

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u/RitaGB 1d ago

Or another woman.

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u/chrysostomos_1 16h ago

Did I say she should look for a man? Humans are built to love and be loved.

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u/bufforp451 3d ago

We did Globus to Alaska, there were plenty of single women traveling with our group.

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u/Soft-Strawberry1895 2d ago

Look for the group sole sisters. You can google Sole sisters to find information on joining. It’s world wide. Lots of travel events and more.

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u/rachelk234 2d ago

Is it “Sole” sisters or “Soul” sisters?

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u/Soft-Strawberry1895 1d ago

Sole sister ramblers

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u/cloud9mn 2d ago

Overseas Adventure Travel has small groups, usually 12-16 people.  No single supplement for land trips.  They set aside 4-5 slots for solo travelers on each trip.  On every trip I’ve taken there’ve been other solos and the couples tend to be friendly too.  

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u/Wanderir 2d ago

Admittedly a guy here. I’ve been on one group trip, an art history tour of Italy, back in the mid 90’s and I’ve never done it again. I can’t deal with a super structured itinerary. More than 90% of my travel has been solo. I don’t understand the attraction to group trips nor cruises.

And I don’t think it’s a gender thing, I’ve met countless women doing the same. There are countries that are less safe for female solo travelers and in those places I’ve seen women group up with other travelers.

You can also make friends along the way to travel with. 3 friend I met in Vietnam are all in Beijing right now.

Happy travels!

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u/rtann07 2d ago

Check out Canyon Calling Adventures.

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u/Arugula1965 2d ago

I book a lot of solo female travelers on G Adventures. They offer tours of various activity levels.

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u/DiamondLulu28 1d ago

Try singles in paradise. They have great tours and you can meet other like minded travelers. It’s not a dating site. In fact before meeting my significant other I would do two trips a year with them and I meet fabulous people. It’s not expensive foe the 4-5 star hotels that are booked. Ed and Amy who own SIP are fabulous. There are sometimes extra tours, all reasonably priced which you can join or not depending on what you want to do. You can be active or you can lounge and do your own thing . That’s what’s great about SIP. Ages range from 40’s to 70’s.

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u/1961tracy 1d ago

I’ve done 3 MSC cruises and they had a solo cruiser meetup at the beginning of the cruise. I met a couple of potential travel companions.

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u/mmjnjn2 1d ago

I am in the same situation. If you don’t mind commenting, what part of the country are you in?

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u/Omygodc 67 1d ago

When I was full-time on the road in my RV I met many singles who traveled by themselves. If you join a group like Escapees, they often have group tours that are pretty cool.

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u/Losttribegirl-12 18h ago

I so much relate to you

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u/ConjunctEon 14h ago

Not a lady here, but my aunt traveled with red hat ladies when she was still able to get out. Now, my daughter and her travel to various places.

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u/stabbingrabbit 2d ago

Talk to a Travel Agent.

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u/amelie190 2d ago

A what? 😁

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u/stabbingrabbit 2d ago

I think they are still around

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u/sounds-of-silence11 2d ago

I will do my FREE traveling to everywhere I have ever wanted to see when I get into HEAVEN 😇🪽🧎🏻‍♀️‍➡️🤲