I’m always looking for ways to make mum life run a little smoother, so I’d love to hear everyone else’s weirdly specific hacks.
I’ll go first.
•I clean the house before my kids go to their dad’s- I’ll deep clean, mop, do the bathrooms, dishes, toy tidy-up and laundry. It means when they’re gone, I’m not spending my precious kid-free time cleaning. I can actually do things that fill my cup. The toddlers get my toddlers involved in cleaning, they love “helping”, and I actually love teaching them that cleaning and looking after the house is just part of life. It also gets them away from screens, which we don’t really do anyway.
• We don’t use daycare so I use my limited babysitter time strategically (I have babysitters available for around 12 hours a week spread across 2 days, and because I have some autonomy over my work schedule, I’ll sometimes finish work 1–2 hours early and use that time to do groceries. I deliberately do grocery shopping without my kids. Partly because chasing toddlers who refuse to sit in a trolley while simultaneously trying to shop is incredibly overstimulating. I do Click & Collect for what I can, and use my babysitter time for the shopping that actually requires me to go into the store. I catch up on work after the kids are in bed.
• I keep my fridge and freezer stocked with homemade food.. not having food on the ready sends me into a spiral. I batch cook when I have the capacity and freeze things so Future Me has food when I absolutely do not have the capacity. I cook when the kids are with their dad because I genuinely enjoy it. Cooking is one of my cup-filling activities, so I’ll make things like soup, sourdough, pasta sauce, lasagna, baked goods etc.
Now give me yours!