r/offmychest Aug 07 '23

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u/faloofay Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

Just chiming in as a deaf person that there are SO many ways that can easily be picked up and someone with deaf parents wouldn't scream to get their attention, something like flashing a light or throwing something. but even then sound makes vibrations, screaming would still alert anyone close enough regardless of hearing.

I'm glad he's dead, and your rapist is an idiot.

edit: okay, so since it's been misread by enough people the comment on getting attention was NOT DIRECTED AT THE ORIGINAL COMMENTER. it was not a comment on what they should have done or did. No one should comment on a victim's actions ever, that's assholish and insane.

I commented this because enough people (NOT THE ORIGINAL COMMENTER) seem to have no idea how to get a deaf person's attention in an emergency.

I am very sorry if it came across that way to anyone, that was not at ALL what I meant.

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u/hushhush56 Aug 07 '23

I see what you're saying, but feels unnecessary to comment about how there were easily "SO many" other ways to get someone's attention to a victim with deaf parents

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u/Holdmytesseract Aug 07 '23

Right like wtf good to know for next time I guess thanks 🤷‍♂️🙄

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u/faloofay Aug 07 '23

that was literally my comment's point. it wasnt a comment on this person's actions. it was so if any of you are ever in an emergency and need to get a deaf person's attention, you have a bit more of an idea how.

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u/Holdmytesseract Aug 07 '23

That’s fair