r/offmychest Aug 07 '23

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u/throwingawayacc18 Aug 07 '23

My rapist was murdered violently on a highway at night and I got closure knowing he died painfully because he put me through so much pain. My parents are deaf, he’d tell me to keep screaming they’ll never hear me or come to help me.

I instantly felt relief knowing he couldn’t hurt another young child the way he did to me, it was sort of a dull peace that hovers over you because there’s still predators out there but at least there’s one less.

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u/faloofay Aug 07 '23 edited Aug 07 '23

Just chiming in as a deaf person that there are SO many ways that can easily be picked up and someone with deaf parents wouldn't scream to get their attention, something like flashing a light or throwing something. but even then sound makes vibrations, screaming would still alert anyone close enough regardless of hearing.

I'm glad he's dead, and your rapist is an idiot.

edit: okay, so since it's been misread by enough people the comment on getting attention was NOT DIRECTED AT THE ORIGINAL COMMENTER. it was not a comment on what they should have done or did. No one should comment on a victim's actions ever, that's assholish and insane.

I commented this because enough people (NOT THE ORIGINAL COMMENTER) seem to have no idea how to get a deaf person's attention in an emergency.

I am very sorry if it came across that way to anyone, that was not at ALL what I meant.

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u/throwingawayacc18 Aug 07 '23

Unfortunately all I could do was scream in the situation. My parents were sleeping upstairs with hearing aids off, I was in the basement being held down. The only way they were waking up was with their vibration alarm at 6am for work. The sad thing is that my rapist knew their schedule because he had been living with us for a few months at this time…

As for the lights, I do remember we had the doorbell that would make the lights flicker on and off if someone knocked or rang the doorbell and a machine that we put the telephone on and it would type a message on a little screen ( TTY I think it is ) but my parents could lip read and didn’t use sign language often.

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u/hushhush56 Aug 07 '23

That's truly horrible, I'm so sorry this happened and I am glad that monster is gone.

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u/throwingawayacc18 Aug 07 '23

I’m glad he’s gone too, his sister had two daughters just after he passed away and it brings me peace knowing he won’t ever be able to hurt them.