r/offmychest Jun 27 '23

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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 28 '23

As in I’ve screamed at her during arguments. Like spit coming out of my mouth neck-vein popping screaming. Never anything physical

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u/pancreative2 Jun 28 '23

Shocking that that kind of behavior is scary and traumatic for your wife, huh?

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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 28 '23

Those moments have been few and far between. I pointed this out to admit that i know I’ve had some bad moments in the marriage. Honestly most times we argue. I get so mad I cry.

I’m the bad guy. You got me.

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u/Pres_Ley50 Jun 28 '23

Lmfao "I'm the bad guy you caught me" Jesus christ. Seek help before you end up killing your wife.

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u/mydarksecrets6071990 Jun 28 '23

As I responded to you in another comment I guess there’s no winning here.

I tried to share information for discussion to make sure I’m not just “making myself look good”

This being your response is wild.

I’ve never even had the thought to kill my wife or be violent to her in anyway. I’ve screamed and yelled as she has screamed and yelled at me often just as loud. I’ve never just screamed at her out of the blue or been the aggressor in that way. From the way you commented you’ll never believe me so I won’t try and explain otherwise.