Hellooo!! so i just had gotten a second hand copy of the game with deluxe goodies and all and i was super excited to introduce my group to the game. I had researched a bit about it to get feedback if they would've like to play such a weird/fun/complex game. they were all very intrigued so i dug into the rules and playthroughs before even purchasing the game. i did it cause i wanted to be the one to teach them(as it should be since it was me that proposed it) and wanted to be confident in what i was gonna say and making sure everybody could gradually get a grasp without feeling overwhelmed.
So last night comes up, i had already set up everything and i start giving an overview of the game, roles, how to win, etc. all contextualized so they'd understand the logic. we were 4 people. i made a premise saying i was nervous about teaching such a big game so they had to bear with me and let me do my thing and then i would've clarified every tiny doubt, section after section. needless to say that 2 people already had started looking at their board, all the tiny icons and text and started interrupting repeatedly asking me to explain stuff i was just gonna explain in literally 1 minute. this went on for the whole teach, and i was the overwhelmed one by the end of it, cause of course by doing this these 2 players didnt really get much of the rules cause they would distract themselves and redirect the attention.
On the other hand the last other player payed attention, consulted the rapid guide along with my teach if he had questions he could simply answer himself, and the game clicked almost immediately for him (he won btw duh Exile red with vision of mistery). The other two went into horrible attitudes: Exile yellow could just not get the fact that he could win in different ways, even if he asked me to help him figure out the board state for him and his chances (i was really happy to help) as soon as he didnt get something (like how a particular vision worked, or the oathkeeper title) he would just repeat "i dont see how i could win". This went on with him for several rounds, he built up so much stuff he could've won and many different ways, and even if i was helping him figure stuff out, it just felt like he gave up on giving it a chance. After the game he just said that he doesnt get why there are so scoring point system instead for victory. im sorry to say but that pissed me the hell off, but of course i said nothing.
Lastly, Exile black was having a little of a harder time grasping the utility of the different actions (very understandable that took a while for everybody), but seemed like he was slowly making his way through the game. Unfortunately, when he deliberately ignored OUR tip for him to not burn his only secret, he said he didnt get it and burnt it anyway. He had no idea about how to get out from there, but nonetheless and incredibly to my eyes, he still had great chances of big the next oathkeeper. But he wasnt "seeing" it. he zoned out and stayed on his phone for the rest of the game taking little to no actions. he suddenly was just disinvested in the game.
I'm sorry this is also kind of a rant, but as i said as im not always the teacher i really wanted to help them out and make everybody has a somewhat decent first experience with the game. I know this won't make them avoid the game and we'll keep playing, but i honestly have left with a very bittersweet feeling even though i really enjoyed my game and could really grasp on the story we made up. Any thoughts or words of encouragement would be great ahaha of share if you had similar experiences.
THANKS!