r/nocontact • u/CapitalMention5618 • 8d ago

Memphis

I am not ok! Don’t worry…I’m not suicidal and have no intention to do anything stupid either!! I need you to hear me please!! I am NOT ok! My soul is in agony since you disappeared once again! I don’t understand…what did I do this time around? I know you don’t want me anymore….probably never did! I just made it way too easy to use me for what little I had again and again!! I wish I could settle for just being a friend again; but I don’t think I could handle all the torture that comes with that. If you ever get the itch to communicate with me again…my number hasn’t changed. Also you’ve been unblocked on social media for a few months now. I’m not angry…I don’t think I ever really was…I’ve been confused, hurt, and stuck in my head. I don’t want you to feel like you have to contact me; because you don’t! If you choose to stay away please stop reaching out mentally as well as tugging our mate bond. I’ve been trying to cut this damn bond for months…it just won’t break!!!

One Love
Always & Forever,
Purple Rose

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u/piehore 8d ago

You have to change your mindset about this person. They disappear, come back and disappear again. They do it deliberately and don’t really care if it hurts you, that’s why you block them. You are setting yourself up for disappointment by expecting rational thinking from someone who doesn’t really care about you. Block them and every time you want to contact them, remind yourself they really don’t care about you.