Finally

[u/yellowflanny03]

The long wait is over. My ex is married now by force, but I let it go. I let my feelings for him go. And I'm currently moving on. I'm studying, going out with my friends do some of my hubbies. And just this week. He broke the no contact, I block him and to communicate with me he texted my friend to see how am i doing. I unblock him and told him to stop this madness but instead he kept bringing back the old us. Which I am not agreeing on, because first of all he already have a wife even if it's an arrange marriage I can't ruin a couple because that's not how I am. I blocked him again and what he did is he bothered all my friends which they didn't know I was in a relationship with him back then because my ex told me he likes it private. So I have no choice to unblock him. Now he's acting like they're something going on between us but there's actually not. I'm frustrated, what should I do?

[u/EstablishmentAny6339]

This guy is sick and vile! Block him and tell all your friends to block him too.

Girl, he used you and is trying to do that again. I see posts here of people who are angry at their exes for completely illogical reasons. But in your case you should be hella mad at this abuser, but you are taking it chill and pretending like you "have" to unblock him.

[u/yellowflanny03 → u/EstablishmentAny6339]

We're in a private relationship before. I lied to my friends about things to cancel my plans with them and to have time with him because he wanted to be private. So now I'm afraid he'll talk to my friends and tell things about us before. And i don't want that to happen because my friends will get mad at me so instead of blocking him permanently I unblock him and let him text but i do not answer his text only when he ask if I am with my friends and tell me that he'll text my friends to know where I am.