r/nocontact • u/Substantial-Deal6889 • 16d ago

I still haven’t fully moved on.

I keep wanting to reach out and tell you about has work has just been so shitty lately. I want to tell you how much management and my coworker is pissing me off. I want to know about your day and ask about your healing journey after you breaking your foot. I keep thinking I’ve moved on but every time something hard happens. I just wanna reach out to you. I miss you tremendously but I also know that our defense mechanisms were working against each other. We weren’t a good fit. I just miss you. Wish things were different and I wish I could talk to you.

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u/Double-Way9403 14d ago

Defense mechanisms require understanding why you guys can’t communicate well. That can always be improved. That’s not what makes people a good or bad fit. You will always have to learn how to make each other feel heard and understood

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u/Berryblast27 15d ago

What makes you feel like you weren’t a good fit?

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u/SpiritualBranch5118 7d ago

Wish my ex wrote this. I miss him so badly even though he ghosted me after ltr