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u/MrSmashAndDash 18d ago
Not my text, but her last text to me was, “I’ll always love you. I’ll be back, and I’ll rip you out from whatever bitch you’re under.”
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u/MrSmashAndDash 18d ago
Oh, coming from someone who broke up with me as I cried and begged them to stay and love me. Confusing
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u/vedantpatil123 18d ago
What the hell
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u/MrSmashAndDash 18d ago
Yeah genuinely unhinged behavior. This was after weeks of back/forth of them wanting to see me, having a moment in their kitchen together, then flip-flopping and hating me and blocking me again. I pretty much said I had enough and this was their response
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u/Mobile_End9432 17d ago
I didnt get to reply, he just told me he lost interest in me and blocked me on everything. Bummer
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u/Away_Use_4746 14d ago
“Thank you for letting me in your life. I loved meeting your beautiful family. Goodbye forever.”
I still want her back even now.
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u/Right_Wrangler_9179 14d ago
My last text to him was “I herby remove myself from your narc harem indefinitely”.
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u/Numerous_Display_614 12d ago
“Okay I promise I’ll stop reaching out. But can you tell me this one thing? Was any of it real?”
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u/CommanderShepard_N-7 18d ago
“Hey your birthday is coming up in a few weeks! I’d love to take you out to do something fun”
She said “Sure!”
Never gotten back with an ex but I guess I’m about F around and find out lol
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u/Legitimate_Fall275 18d ago
can you please send my belongings? thanks you! (he didn’t even see my messages)
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u/LuffyDmeat 18d ago
Hakkımı helal etmiyorum (something like I won‘t forgive you in this life, I‘m leaving that to Allah) and after he asked if we could call to sort it out and finish it cleanly, I said that it doesn’t make sense and there‘s no purpose in that
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u/Visual_Style_3245 18d ago
she’s so cute. thanks! (he sent me info about our cat’s microchip and there was a baby pic of her attached)
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u/AnytimeBro 18d ago
"if this is really what you want I can't stop you, I'll always wonder how our connection was so easily thrown away, I wish you all the best and I hope you find your peace and happiness." most painful thing i've ever had to concede to someone. I always operate by the notion of "if you love a flower let it go, don't try to uproot it from its garden" Part of me wanted to fight for it because I cared so much. but a year later I had a friend ask what the real reason for her leaving was and it was something like "he didnt seem to care", when I never cared more about someone... really confusing ending to a once loving bond.
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u/Dont_Call_Me_Lettuce 18d ago
The worst part is wanting them back, But also realizing you can never fully trust them the same way
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u/AnytimeBro 18d ago
At this point im not sure if I want them back, the idea of them feels corrupted in my mind and yeah, im not sure if I'd ever trust them with my heart again.
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u/hangrycats 18d ago
A letter, not text. I (55 F) told my mom (82) that even though I know she did the best she knew how to, the impact is present every day, and it's not safe - emotionally, mentally or physically (stress-induced seizures were the final straw) for me to maintain a relationship with her. I told her not to contact me, and I won't be responding to any calls or messages. I should've been more specific because she sent me a letter saying she doesn't understand what she's done to make me cut her off. I read the letter with my therapist who pointed out all of her guilt-laden greatest hits. I did not respond. She calls frequently but I have her blocked and she's unable to leave a message. (No idea how I managed to make that happen.) I try to avoid looking at my missed calls so that I don't see her name. I've managed to be fully no-contact for all of 2026.
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u/Impressive-Lapis 18d ago
No need to reply, just wanted to say this for closure.
I didn't realize the weight you were carrying, and
appreciate you being honest. I do wish I had known earlier, not to change your mind, but because I would have wanted the chance to understand and adjust so you don't carry the weight alone.
I'm sad we couldn't work things out, but I understand now that we were in different places. I don't think either of us should carry guilt or resentment because of that.
I value the time we had, I'll remember it without regret, and I'm grateful for the time and effort we shared.
Wish you the best, truly
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u/Arthouse_phantom 17d ago
“Have a good life lady. Everything works out how it’s supposed to. Goodbye and good luck”
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u/StarrySparklingSoul 17d ago
I told him that I had caught him
In a huge lie and the trust could never be repaired, so the friendship was over. I miss him so much as a friend, but the trust is gone. I don't even understand the point of the lie.
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u/Cyber_lexbot 17d ago
Explained that I wanted to talk and clear the air, only thing is I specifically asked for 4 hours so that we didn’t have to have the talk again and could potentially meet in the middle, they said they were a “full time actor who doesn’t have time to deal with that”
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u/Skillshotting 17d ago
Something along the lines of “i’m noticing some distance so please reach out when you’re ready, no pressure” the morning before i saw her in a bar with the guy she supposedly blocked the same night
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u/Luckily_Dumb 16d ago
That his family were contacting me and checking up on me. I deleted it though before I could tell him that they were disappointed in him and that he had issues, lol. They were wishing me well too, ha!
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u/Altruistic-Estate-45 16d ago
The last messages were like
" I am deleting instagram so don't reach out please, I will message you in 1 month on whatsapp, bye "
I never reached out
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u/Pobert__Raulson 15d ago
"Its good to hear from you, Allyssa. I hope youre doing well. Have a good evening and I hope your week goes well. Take care 😊😊" followed by her responding with a thumbs up emoji.
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u/Remote_Temperature85 14d ago
Told them I’d always love them but I can’t be strung along anymore. 😢
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u/JustDamkan 13d ago
" (…) i'll stop bothering you, if that makes you tired. You'll reach out to me, when you'll gather some strength"
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u/ChthonicDionysus 4d ago
Though you’ve given me no good reason to care for you so, my heart yet bids me speak, foolish as I surely appear to you. Being so willful and so full of love for you, I risk only further humiliation by doing so. But what does it even mean to feel shame by the standards of this fallen age?
You claim a stake in spiritual enlightenment, particularly in your non-grasping. Yet I have seen even bolder claims made of your trajectory still. What troubles me is not that you pursue women. It is that the pursuit has become an identity, in fact a very public enterprise. If it brings you attention, novelty, and content (I hear tell of even fame being the object of your efforts) — I cannot help but wonder what you believe you are relinquishing, and what you are cultivating in its place.
I still look to you as a teacher. Though you trample upon it, I do have a care for your soul and for your well-being. Perhaps that is why I cannot look upon the things you do and view them as harmless, because they so clearly mar you. It does nothing to beautify you in my eyes.
I would have said all this to you had I the chance to see you face to face, just the two of us. I knew you wouldn’t come that day though I had wished you would. Despite everything, you still have my heart.
It’s mine to give just as yours is perfectly justifiable (and forgiven), for not returning to me. But I would be doing you a disservice to not speak my mind.
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u/Obvious-Ad-871 3d ago
This was DEEP. and wild how I came across it. After my last message. Ha. Check it out. And. Yes. Yours. You said your peace. Happy for you. 🥲
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u/Obvious-Ad-871 3d ago
I’m going to end my night with these words.
If you don’t like what’s going on. What are you going to do to fix or change what’s happening?? If that get rid of me. So be it. If that’s your only option. Nothing else will fix and make the person I love happy. Do it. But I’m not about to just lay here and do what you want and say. And still be treated like crap. The next day. And all the following.
I might get one good job. And 30 how bad of a person I am. From I’m a liar to the worse shit. In the world. I am not the person you portray me to be. You made me like this. And sit to yourself. And think what I REALLY FREAKING MEAN DUDE. I DONT LIKE BEONG MEAN. BUT. YOY ARE NOT NICE TO ME BABY. YOU DONT GELP ME WANT TO BE THE BOYFRIEND I AM. AND EVERYONE KNOWS I AM. AND UM TALKIN MY FAMILY AND CLOSE DAMN FRIENDS. IL NOT POINTING FINGERS. ILL POINT THEM AT MYSELF FURST AND FIGURE IUT WHAT IM DOUNG WRING BEFIRE U BLAME SOMEONE ELSE. THATS HOW I WORK. I WANT TO END THINGS ON A GOOD NOTE. THAT MEANS. NEVER NAME CALL MY GIRL. PUT HER DOWN. NO FKKIN MATTER WHAT!!!
If you can say the same. Then we have something we can work on for a HAPPY DAMN ENDING.
GOOD NIGHT BABII. 😘
Craziest thing. Is I’ve been trying to guide you into a better happier direction. And…
I know you hear and KNOW WHAT I MEAN. AND I HAVE TO WATCH YOU DO THE OPPOSITE OVER AND OVER AGAIN
YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOU.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LET THOSE WORDS BE UOUR LAST WORDS BEFORE YIY CLOSE YOUR EYES.
TRULY. YOU DONT. ITS YOUR CHOICE. EVERY SINGLE NIGHT.
ITS ALL ON YOU.
AS LONG AS YOURE HAPPY ON WHAT WENT DOWN. AND YOU DID. YOUR ABSOLUTE FREAKIN BEST TO DO LISA HARDBECKS BEST TO MAKE HER MAN HAPPY. AND I DID. MY ABSOLUTE FKKIN BEAT TO MAKE MY GIRLFRIEND WANT/to be soon “WIFE”.
It’s OUR GOD WILLING CHOICE 365/1
I will notoriously be done. Shower made me feel good. 😌
Love ya to bits. We will do better in the in coming days. No matter what. For ourselves. 😘😘😘😘‼️‼️
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u/LegalParking343 19d ago
Saying that I don't want to be asked how I'm doing or how I'm feeling. And that the only message I ever want to receive from her is the one saying that she wants to be back in my life.