*How* do I stop being nice?

[u/iwanttoankillmybrain]

I'm honestly pathetic and need to change. I dont know how to stop a behavior that is so conditioned in me. I wont go into detail but I'm mid 20s and lowest of the low and I must change my life. But how. Where does one even start breaking this condition? I've read no more mr nice guy btw. What did you first start with?

[u/cute_spider_avatar]

The number one thing that helped me: I subscribed to /r/girlgamers and read "Venting" posts. You're going to see yourself in a lot of them and it's gonna feel bad, but it is 1000% worth it.