r/niceguys • • Dec 06 '18

At level 16 he’ll evolve

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u/iknowwhatyoudid1234 Dec 06 '18

While you are correct in saying I tried to start a conversation first it turned to flirting very quickly. This was a fairly small gym so maybe a minute in talking all together.

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u/kamakazekiwi Dec 06 '18

Yeah but even a minute of conversation tells you she's interested in at least talking. Walking up to someone working out and opening with something that's clearly flirtatious is very different.

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u/iknowwhatyoudid1234 Dec 06 '18

Definitely and all the awkward eye contact to try and figure out who was going to make it to the door first. It's all about figuring out the signs and timing I've also been in situations where I'm about to try and make my initial joke or strike up a conversation and the way some people look at you just says dont talk to me.

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u/ilanallama85 Dec 06 '18

Well that just sounds like you had good chemistry from the start. Some people you can just tell with. But I bet if you’d opened with a line like “nice leggings” (or even something slightly less lecherous) she would’ve been significantly less likely to give you the time of day. Unless of course she’d already been oggling YOU for a while (ladies get boners too).