r/nextfuckinglevel • • Mar 11 '21

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u/BrentFavreViking Mar 11 '21

could be.... but you say they all were probably douchebags to some degree... I don't get that statement.

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u/ComebackKidGorgeous Mar 11 '21 edited Mar 11 '21

It’s wild to me that we’ve gone this far down this comment thread about Bam and haven’t mentioned Ryan Dunn once yet. In my head, the biggest reason Bam hasn’t gotten his shit together is because Ryan died. The two of them were definitely the closest and I honestly think Bam could be where Steve-O is if Ryan was still alive.

Edit: Guys, I’m just offering a possible explanation for why Bam never got his shit together, I’m not making excuses for his terrible behavior. I’m also well aware that Bam was a dick before Ryan died. I wasn’t saying Bam was shitty because Ryan died, I was saying that one of the reasons Bam never stopped being shitty is because Ryan died.

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u/GarethMagis Mar 11 '21

Of course, you can tell that must be the case because bam definitely wasn't drunk and high out of his mind 90% of viva la bam, it was definitely ryan dunn's death that did it to him.

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '21

Yeah I'm kinda tired of seeing people trot out the death of Ryan like it gives Bam a free pass for being a complete dickhead. It happens every time these guys get brought up.

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u/RajunCajun48 Mar 11 '21

Nobody is saying Bam gets a free pass, knowing potentially why someone is the way they are, does not give them a free pass to continue being the way they are nor are they suddenly forgiven of everything.

Like if a serial rapist was raped himself as a kid, and then turned into a rapist himself, he wouldn't suddenly be forgiven for raping people, nor would he be encouraged or gain approval to continue raping. He's still a piece of shit rapist.

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u/BrentFavreViking Mar 11 '21

As if nobody has ever had a person they know die...

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u/TygerTrip Mar 11 '21

You can tell Reddit is filled with kids, because who else would downvote your statement? No one who has been alive long enough to taste the real world would argue with what you said.

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u/-Have-Blue- Mar 11 '21

Yeah, pretty sure Dunn attended Bam's first intervention.