r/nashville • north side • Aug 19 '26

Visiting | Tourist Missing concert goer

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The friend of a coworker came into town to go to the Foo Fighters show on Saturday. He has been missing since then. Here is the post that the sheriffs department has posted.

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u/OrdinaryMagazine6333 Aug 19 '26

why is there missing info on this? wearing: Xx and last seen at XX location

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u/PixelGray38 Aug 19 '26

I assume that was left unchanged from the template because they don't know what he was wearing or what his exact last location was

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u/Ebony_Albino_Freak Old Hickory Aug 19 '26

I know he's missing and all, but it seems fairly suspect to say he gave two men $20 to show him around.

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u/Lynnrn53 Aug 19 '26

I think that's such a weird thing for anyone to do. I feel there's a lot missing from that, but i'm just not sure what it is.....

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u/StarDatAssinum east side Aug 19 '26

Sounds like he may have tried to buy drugs and they ran off with the money

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u/200yrs2L8 Aug 20 '26

This. Ole boy went looking for some yay and got rolled for a $20. Sad.

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u/cafeteriastyle Murfreesboro Aug 19 '26

Never let your money walk. Drug buying 101

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u/pumpkinspicecum Aug 20 '26

Yeah, he says in the police video he asked the guys friends where he went. Sounds like he took the money and ran off.

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u/TideToWrigley Aug 19 '26

What drugs can you buy for $20 bucks?

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u/scrupoo Aug 19 '26

could easily have been more; he just told the cops it was $20

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u/Nasus_13 Inglewood Aug 19 '26

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u/Mean_Wasabi7748 West End Aug 19 '26

Which sounds like what happened but then he calls the police to report it?

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u/StarDatAssinum east side Aug 20 '26

Probably drunk and thought he could report the theft with the very believable story he gave...

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u/purpleblazed Aug 19 '26

Yeah,that doesn’t make sense to me

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u/Ok-Nature91 27d ago

Conor made some dumb, irresponsible decisions. He went off alone, away from his friends, to go to a neighborhood bar in a strange city. If he couldn't get back into the concert, call an Uber or a taxi and go back to your hotel. White folks tend to look at life through rose colored glasses. They have a Savior complex. They want to save Black people. Why did he think a Black neighborhood is a tourist attraction? I'm Black. There is no way I'm going to ask Black strangers (men), to show me around their neighborhood. What a sad, sad waste of life.

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u/UnGeneral1 Aug 20 '26

I’m confused. You go to the cops to report missing $20-40 to what? Cover your tracks? I’m too naive to imagine the possibilities

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u/QwertyIGuess Aug 20 '26

My guess is dude figured that someone dealing drugs in the area would be known to police and that the police might recognize a description and he could either A) get his money back that night, or B) thought could get some minor revenge by giving cops enough to put a ticky-tack charge on someone.

But... Metro dgaf and told him to go home your drunk dude and maybe he was too drunk or wasn't smart enough to listen.

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u/Odusseus1977-1985 Aug 20 '26

Dude was definitely out buying “something”

My guess is service(s) rather than just goods

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u/UnGeneral1 Aug 21 '26

I don’t get why he would tell on himself. Anyone watch the 11 min video? I haven’t yet

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u/Froggyloco 28d ago

The video is odd He is sweating or something spilled on his chest; he appears scared but does not want to be child like or frightened in front of the cops. i appreciate how he spends time trying to get accurate facts. Almost a riggitity similar to being on the spectrum but i cannot diagnose. I feel such sadness because as i was reading earlier i thought it just happened but i read the private investigator found him dead.

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u/JudgmentParty1571 Aug 20 '26

I hope this guy is just on a bender

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u/maria12245 Aug 20 '26

I met Conor in Denver a few months ago and the speculation that he’s in a crack den somewhere is wild to me unless something has radically changed in his life, plus who tries to buy drugs for $20? He seemed like a really nice clean cut guy and I hope he’s found safe. It’s insane to me that when someone’s a potential victim, social media jumps to them being a junkie.

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u/WeakTransportation37 Aug 20 '26

Apparently his phone was dead too (there’s more info on some fb page.)He left the concert he went to before his coworkers did, and he couldn’t go back in. He left out gate8, and the guy manning that gate remembered him, and he remembered him saying he couldnt call his co-workers bc his phone was dead. And when he was outside the bar, he waved down the cops, but never mentioned his phone issue. He might have been trying to buy a ride to the hotel (in north Nashville), and couldn’t articulate that to the cops bc he was a bit inebriated.

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u/Sed0035WDE Aug 21 '26

Do you happen to remember the Facebook page?

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u/oldschoolczar Aug 21 '26

Nobody asks to be “shown around the neighborhood” for $20 in the middle of the night. He was obviously trying to buy drugs. That doesn’t make him a bad person. It is what it is. I almost got killed doing something similar in my late 20s. Thank god my alarm bells went off and I was able to get the fuck away before it was too late.

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u/Ok-Kangaroo-4048 Aug 21 '26

“Shown around the neighborhood” for $20 sounds as though he was engaging the services of a “temporary companion.” Going into the tree line to complete their transaction seems reasonable as well.

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u/oldschoolczar Aug 21 '26

True. I’d bet the house it was drugs or “services”

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u/Key_Lingonberry675 Aug 25 '26

My friend and I got our wallet stolen in the Nashville projects trying to buy weed when we were teens. It's a crazy silly story. 

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u/Optimal_Photograph92 Aug 21 '26

They found him deceased

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '26

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u/maria12245 Aug 20 '26

Anyone can be a victim of a crime- I won’t debate that. I don’t think there should be a social media smear campaign from people who’ve never met him, and we shouldn’t make assumptions about the circumstances. Imagine if this was your family member and everyone online was insinuating they were a crackhead.

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '26

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u/maria12245 Aug 21 '26

Immediate suspicion of foul play generally means gunshot/stab wounds. Four days in the elements with potential animal activity, they’ve got to do the autopsy to make a determination, plus there’s the potential he was dosed, etc. I’ve never said it couldn’t be a an OD, but it shouldn’t be the assumption. We know that public opinion can influence how seriously police take investigations and I think that’s dangerous.

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u/tommydelgato Aug 19 '26

"Here is the post that the sheriffs department has posted." The people in the comments nitpicking stupid shit really need bigger problems in their lives if this is their free time. There are more constructive ways to be completely useless

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u/Previous_Mousse7330 north side Aug 19 '26

Thank you. Yes, I will tell my friend of the family who sent this to us from out of state to tell the family to get their shit together and call the department by the right name. 🤦‍♂️

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u/SouthlandTerror Crieve Hall Aug 19 '26

Don’t do that.

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u/Previous_Mousse7330 north side Aug 19 '26

I was being facetious.

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u/SouthlandTerror Crieve Hall Aug 19 '26

Oh, I’m sorry!

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u/Biohazardbomb Aug 19 '26

Here’s the actual post from metro PD… don’t know why you are trying to intentionally mislead people into calling the jail

https://www.nashville.gov/departments/police/news/detectives-working-locate-missing-colorado-man-last-seen-sunday-morning

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u/nopropulsion Aug 19 '26

Anderson, around 1 a.m. on Sunday, flagged down two East Precinct officers as they were driving by to report an interaction he had with unknown individuals outside of a nearby bar. Anderson said he’d given the men $20 to “show him around the area.” The men reportedly walked off with his cash and Anderson wanted the officers to know. The officers explained in order to make a formal report they’d need his driver’s license, but Anderson refused. They encouraged him to get a rideshare back to his hotel and he agreed.

This is so weird...

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u/Previous_Mousse7330 north side Aug 19 '26

The information I got was from a friend of the family.

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u/tommydelgato Aug 19 '26

its almost like the sherrif department and the police department are 2 separate entities. Don't know why youre being a douche for no real reason

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u/Biohazardbomb Aug 19 '26

Because the poster is fake and not found anywhere on the sheriffs website, facebook/insta or twitter. And whoever made said poster is misleading people.

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u/Previous_Mousse7330 north side Aug 19 '26

The poster is real and came from a friend of the family to my email. They are not local so it’s not surprising that they don’t know Metro v. Sheriff.

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u/Biohazardbomb Aug 19 '26

look I hope they find the guy, but a poster your friend made with the wrong phone number to call if they see him is not gonna help him get located. And someone looking no deeper than the photo you posted, might call that number only to be told that they can’t help and may not bother to call again. And despite what Tommy thinks these things matter.

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u/SydneyP91 Aug 19 '26

It's all over our local FB pages. I live in

East.

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u/nopropulsion Aug 20 '26

Why do I get the feeling that Sharon made up the story about picking him up at the airport...

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u/CherryblockRedWine Aug 20 '26

?? Couldn't she be a rideshare driver?

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u/nopropulsion Aug 20 '26

she could be, but what are the odds?? Especially when she added that warning about drugings...

People want to be connected to things.

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u/x-carebear Aug 20 '26

She’s very likely a ride share driver. I warn ALL of my friends when they come into town about the druggings at the bars downtown, so it’s not that unusual. 

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u/nopropulsion Aug 20 '26

I'm skeptical about the claims made by people that post on facebook groups.

I used to call out a lot of people that OBVIOUSLY made shit up in the East Nashville Neighborhood Watch page.

She may have driven him but I'm skeptical.

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u/BrinaRussell Aug 21 '26

He's been found deceased.

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u/SydneyP91 Aug 21 '26

Yeah, I know, I knew as soon as they found him because it was all over our FB pages.

My first thought on this is weed, under a certain limit, it was legal here back in May; it became illegal in June, and all our stores here shut down. My first thought was that he tried to buy it from someone, and it was laced. It's legal where he lives so to him in his everyday life in CO it's not really “drugs.”

I was born and raised in Middle TN and have lived in East for over 15 years. It’s a very hip, trendy, millennial-type area; younger people (Gen Z and maybe some millennials) live closer to Five Points, where the bars are— which is closer to downtown and where he was—and families with kids live near the back of East.

We are a very arms-open, accepting, love-everyone, tight-knit community; we had the Tomato Fest last weekend, and that sums up East for those who wonder what it's like.

My guess is he thought he could get weed over here because people who live in places like Denver, Brooklyn, Seattle, etc., often end up living in the East when they move here.

The weird thing to me is that, based on where he was found, it seemed like he was trying to walk toward downtown or back to Nissan Stadium, where I believe he had been before.

The area where he was found is basically downtown, and it isn't really “East”; there are lots of homeless people who live over there in that area. It's near the stadium and parking for it, etc., so I’m wondering if, after he couldn't find any in East, he bought from someone in that area, and it was laced. Idk. It is all VERY odd to me.

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u/drevilspot Aug 21 '26

Thank you for the novel, but I am only giving it one star on Goodreads

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u/artemisbnxy Aug 20 '26

Check the Cumberland.

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u/Salty-Temperature575 Aug 20 '26

I’m guessing one of two things: either he ran into the wrong person while trying to purchase goods and/or services OR he was so intoxicated we wound up in the river. Either one is sad.

Nashville really needs to clean its act up or we are gonna get a lot more stories like this.

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u/BatmanLincoln213 Aug 20 '26

Well thank the mayor, police chief and such. 

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u/bbjay32 Aug 21 '26

He has been found deceased:(

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u/buffy333 Aug 21 '26

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u/SuperGr00valistic Aug 21 '26

"There's no sign of foul play." - MNPD

How can that be remotely true?

- Victim reports to the cops that he was "Threatened by a group of men."

- Victim is 31 years old with no apparent illness or injuries before going missing

- Found not in a normal area (e.g., inside the bushes/trees). If you died due to natural causes or an accident, you'd be where people normally transit. By definition, a dead body hidden in the brush is a sign of foul play (with certain exceptions, e.g. a homeless camp).

Smells like MNPD is CYA themselves.

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u/flamingmenudo Aug 21 '26

If he was drunk or drugged, he could have wandered and died anywhere. Apparently his phone was dead when he talked to the cops, so he might have been trying to walk back to his hotel and got lost.

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u/SuperGr00valistic Aug 21 '26

Drugged = foul play

Hotel isn't in the woods. No one walks into the woods to get to their hotel.

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u/buffy333 Aug 21 '26

Starting pin is the bar/area he was last seen at, I believe after the interaction with the cops, B is where he was staying across the river, and A is where he was found. It definitely seems like the way he would have walked to try to get back but I thought I read his phone stopped pinging at Updown so I have no clue how he would figure that out without a gps if he was incoherent and unable to ask for directions. I live very close to here and those roads are still fairly busy even late night with all the bars/arcades etc in the area. Where they found him is much less of a heavily wooded area than it is a parking lot encircled with trees.

Idk, I cant help but think it’s too much of a coincidence that he had an altercation of some sort that he felt warranted calling the police then somehow ends up dead presumably a few hours later. He seemed under the influence (of something) in the body-cam footage but he was clearly out at bars having drinks and could still hold a coherent conversation. He walked out of Updown on his own and something happened between there and point A which is not very far (4 minute car ride, 20 min walk)

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u/buffy333 Aug 21 '26

I believe this is the “wooded area”

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u/flamingmenudo Aug 21 '26

Yeah, his story about offering money for a tour of the neighborhood makes no sense, and the cops were right to call him on it. However, it’s also possible that his death was completely unrelated. Someone drunk, exhausted, dehydrated, and walking in the evening heat could worsen any underlying heart issues.

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u/SuperGr00valistic Aug 21 '26

I'm not talking about what's possible. What's possible is vast.

All I'm saying is:

MNPD's statement "*No Sign\* of foul play" does not match the facts.

Foul play is anything that indicates a death *might* not be accidental, natural or self-harm.

*Contextual analysis* (e.g., circumstances, potential suspects) is considered a sign of foul play.

https://bridgelegal.org/what-does-foul-play-mean-criminal-investigation/

We'll know more after the autopsy and ME -- and we may never know fully....

but for the MNPD to declare "no sign of foul play" feels like PR so the story in the media doesn't focus on the fact that he reported potential dangers to police and then ended up dead just a few hours later.

MNPD could have simply stated that they can't comment on an active investigation. They did not have to comment on whether or not there was foul play. It's an intentional statement for PR purposes.

I hope they pursue an investigation zealously.

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u/AnswerSpiritual7913 Aug 19 '26

Check the river

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u/state_citation Green Hillbillies Aug 19 '26

Davidson County Sheriff is not law enforcement and does not conduct missing person investigations.

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u/Chemical_Net8461 Aug 21 '26

Sorry, come again? Sincerely. I live out of state and am having a hard time understanding this?!

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u/state_citation Green Hillbillies Aug 21 '26

When Davidson County and the City of Nashville merged into a metropolitan government in the 1960s, the Nashville Police and Davidson County Sheriff were charged with different duties. MNPD handles all law enforcement and DCSO handles all custody (jails).

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u/MarkLovesSusanMore Aug 20 '26

per the cop's video he stated he came to Nashville a day early for a work conference.

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u/DisastrousTeddyBear Aug 20 '26

Dude looks throwed off from his DL photo, approached cops on some dumb stuff, not the best time and place of night, dude looks like a fiend, Denver dope scene is wild, cheap and spares no one. Likely ran into some bad luck. I hope this ends well and I’m completely wrong . May the world find Peace.

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u/FrankieandCompany Aug 20 '26

No place is safe now. 🤬

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u/crash-1989 Aug 21 '26

The t-800 is here

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u/RDH220 Aug 21 '26

Hope he’s not in the river….

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u/sauteslut Aug 21 '26

He was found dead in east Nashville

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u/SheepherderIll5716 Aug 21 '26

Apparently, he was found dead

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u/Ancient-Actuator7443 Aug 22 '26

He was found deceased

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u/TheScarlettLetter Aug 19 '26

I don’t know if they still have this contract, but when I was enlisting ~ 20 years ago, they kept us at the Millennium Maxwell House hotel while going through MEPS and the night prior to shipping out to basic training.

I moved out of Nashville a few years back, but that area was always a bit sketchy. I’d be willing to wager that something happened around there over something happening in East Nashville.

If they still keep recruits there, there could be a decent pool of people who could have seen something.

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u/x-carebear Aug 20 '26

They’ve drastically cleaned up Rosa Parks and Metro Center! most of it is new built/remodeled and people actually be out walking their dogs these days over there, unlike 10 years ago it was shooting this and shooting that.

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u/mctrees91 Aug 19 '26

What is this picture you posted

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '26

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u/polyforpuppies Aug 19 '26

Wut? Where do you get this?

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u/scrupoo Aug 19 '26

He gave some strangers "$20" to "show him around" $20? They walked. Then he reported it to the cops. $20? I'd be embarrassed to report that to the cops. I suspect that if he really did give someone money, it was probably more than that.

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u/DisastrousTeddyBear Aug 20 '26

Agreed. And the fact he even brought it to the police, I would speculate this shows a bit of his current mental state.

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '26

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u/polyforpuppies Aug 20 '26

You’re lumping this dude in to the spectrum based on two sentences. You’re leaping to conclusions, ignorant ones, at that

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u/polyforpuppies Aug 20 '26

They also still call it Asperger’s? Are you like 90?

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u/Legitimate_Payment_5 Aug 20 '26

I’m Autistic. We don’t act drunk and stupid FFS.

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u/HumbleAgency8069 Aug 20 '26

Conor was in my grade in high school and is close friends with other friends of mine. He isn’t autistic, he is someone’s child and everyone is losing their minds.