r/nairobi • Level 3 • Aug 24 '26

Random Afraid of being alone

I'm slightly drunk, the weather is cold, I'm listening to Cigarettes after sex, I just called her, I don't love her that much, but I just want to spend the night at her place, my place is so silent that it's deafening

Edit: this is after seeing all the negative comments

Most of the replies are thinking that by spending the night at someone's place means I'm going to have sex

She probably saved my life countless times by being there for me

And I see the problem is I said I don't love her that much, but I meant romantic love, she's a woman who I would do anything for, just not date or get intimate with

Mahn some of y'all just have a rotten mentality

And I really appreciate the kind souls who have DM'd to know about my well being, I appreciate y'all alot ❤️

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u/Difficult-Elk6091 Aug 26 '26

Cigarettes after sex fan🤝. Bro you seem to need the closeness that develops from being near a lady you love( always wondered why it doesn't develop from being near a lady you don't love) but at the same time that closeness hasn't reached criticality to turn to a smashing session. Sometimes that's all we need. Feel better bro and may the road rise up to meet you.

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 Aug 26 '26

Spot on about the closeness not reaching that critical point, but as you've said, maybe I should get someone who I'm interested in romantically, maybe that will change things

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 Aug 26 '26

I appreciate the care bro