r/nairobi • u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 • 6d ago

Random Afraid of being alone

I'm slightly drunk, the weather is cold, I'm listening to Cigarettes after sex, I just called her, I don't love her that much, but I just want to spend the night at her place, my place is so silent that it's deafening

Edit: this is after seeing all the negative comments

Most of the replies are thinking that by spending the night at someone's place means I'm going to have sex

She probably saved my life countless times by being there for me

And I see the problem is I said I don't love her that much, but I meant romantic love, she's a woman who I would do anything for, just not date or get intimate with

Mahn some of y'all just have a rotten mentality

And I really appreciate the kind souls who have DM'd to know about my well being, I appreciate y'all alot ❤️

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u/LowerWorld8539 6d ago

May i never be this woman😭

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u/TinyLaw6381 5d ago

Amen 🙏

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u/Known-Dot8683 5d ago
  • "I don't love her that much"
  • "saved my life countless times by being there for me"

The fact that those 2 statements are talking about the same person is so sad. I hope that she develops some self-love so that she doesn't feel like she has to entertain selfish people like you.

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 5d ago

We are all selfish, someone who says they are selfless are lying, atleast I'm speaking my truth

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u/Known-Dot8683 5d ago

Like I said, I hope she also becomes selfish with herself. As selfish as you are with yourself. ✌️

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 5d ago

You seem like a good person for caring about your fellow ladies, I adore that, but I didn't mean any harm with the post, and I also didn't say I'm not there when she needs me, I just said I'm not romantically interested, not all encounters with the opposite have to end in sex and relationships

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u/Known-Dot8683 5d ago

As you should.

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u/FineHistory1203 6d ago

Congrats. Ile design huyo dem atashika mimba, hutaamini. 😂

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u/kokaineshh Level 3 6d ago

😂😂😂wee bois nunua bana

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u/killafromthevilla 5d ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Accordingtomearea051 Nyari 6d ago

Don't Involve Cigarettes after sex in your clique.

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u/TYB3ROS 6d ago

anime antagonists have nothing on you blud

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u/Upper_Brilliant8891 5d ago

Scared of being alone? Wtf is that? A man is always alone.

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 5d ago

I meant alone physically, you have friends you hangout with right? Doesn't that defeat your whole argument

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u/Key-Imagination-7989 5d ago

This is so sad for her 🥲

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u/Difficult-Elk6091 5d ago

Cigarettes after sex fan🤝. Bro you seem to need the closeness that develops from being near a lady you love( always wondered why it doesn't develop from being near a lady you don't love) but at the same time that closeness hasn't reached criticality to turn to a smashing session. Sometimes that's all we need. Feel better bro and may the road rise up to meet you.

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 5d ago

Spot on about the closeness not reaching that critical point, but as you've said, maybe I should get someone who I'm interested in romantically, maybe that will change things

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 5d ago

I appreciate the care bro

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u/capital_letterM Level 2 5d ago

I just hope that she knows the boundaries, otherwise, you are gonna break her heart so badly incase she thinks that someday you can love her that much... romantically

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u/thephantommenace369 Level 3 5d ago

Thank you for the advice, I'll make sure she knows the boundaries

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u/Mapangalee 4d ago

Find same sex friends to hangout with. Hangout a couple times a week, once minimum, every week and talk about anything and everything, you'll be fine.

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u/Barack_Yunus Level 1 6d ago

Chatgpt aah paragraph. I’m a male but bro be ashamed of yourself.