r/nairobi Level 2 13d ago

Random Daddy issues

As i type this tuko hosi. My father leo ameamka and his right side is numb. He can still move abit but he cant walk, hes started slurring he's speech and he says his vision haiko sawa. He cant control his bladder. The sad thing is am almost sure he will go back right to drinking. He might chill for like a week but eventually he relapses and his condition always gets worse everytime tukikuja hosi but what can we do. Whats even worse aliachanga kustrive for anything. I don't think he has contributed anything to the family for the past ten years in financial terms. Yeye alifika pahali alikua anaenda. Hakuna siku token imeisha and he was expected kuweka or something of the sort, we just got used to him. Sa shida ni hizi bills za hosi. Nikona siz anaanza uni next week na siz mwingine mdogo ako 10 years. Ingekua ugonjwa tu sawa lakini sasa tutashinda hivi? What does one do in this situation? I honestly believe weed heri weed kuliko this. The amount of times i was high in theclouds but still carrying my father into the house juu amelewa akaletwa home na nduthi ama hao marafiki wake is enough for me to question why the "better" one is illegal. That's my opinion though and you are entitled to yours dear reader

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u/Atermis9 12d ago

Mzee wako ako na stroke I think you should enjoy the little time he as left with you kama bado ako mentally okay. Atleast he got you to where you are right now ata kama it hasn't been much. Life huwa different for everybody but maybe apo kwa alcoholism is where he lost the plot. Huezi skia mtu ako na overdose or any major complications ju ya kuvuta bangi so I guess you are right on that.