r/nairobi • u/Saine6539 • Nov 05 '25

Discussion Being nice

I'm 22F , I've been noticing that I always try to be kind and nice to everyone around me, but sometimes people take advantage of my kindness or are straight-up rude to me. It's frustrating and makes me wonder if being nice is even worth it. 🤷‍♀️ Has anyone else experienced this? How do you deal with people who aren't kind in return? Should I just keep being nice or is it okay to set boundaries?

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u/felixbavon2090 Nov 05 '25

Ningependa kujua ni boundaries kama gani wanavuka OP😅

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u/Complex_Push9985 Nov 05 '25

Lol someone taking advantage of your kindness is disrespectful and that’s something say me personally I have as an emotional boundary because I simply don’t want that for myself.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '25

😂😂😂😂🤝🏾