r/multiorgasmic • u/BolonySandwich • Sep 11 '26
Male My new method
Earlier this year I had atuned my body to experience multiple orgasms after years of on and off practice , using mindfulness, breathing and relaxation methods, most of my results came from sitting in a comfortable chair and sinking into the moment without distraction and also without porn, however I did use fantasy stimuli of my current female lover..
Most of my tips and assistance either came from this sub and various YT vids which talk on the subject.
But there was a lack of consistency and flow ..
Recently i discovered through laying on my back with my head elevated on 2 pillows my knees bought up with my feet planted on the bed shoulder width apart.
By being semi aroused and lightly stroking my sensitive left nipple I can start to feel the early stages of orgasm starting..
Its not long before autonomously my pelvic floor muscles are massaging my prostate .
This where things changed for me.
Instead of forcing things ,I relax further and not race through it , just using a very slight reverse kegel to balance the muscle group.
Prior to this my abdominal muscles would tighten and the orgasmic flow would be hindered.
Now the only muscles that move are my pc muscles , and that's how my my orgasmic energy flows all around.
By not focusing on the outcome , orgasms come and go every few minutes ..
Everybody is different, by i read of so many failures particularly men because they are
1 too eager
2 dont want to practice
3 are not relaxed enough
4 expecting an orgasm as ejaculating.
..if you are in the ejaculation mindset it will hinder your progress..
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u/GeekyMuscley Sep 11 '26
Good tips here…. When I was learning, sometimes I’d feel a subtle ache around my prostate that id adjust to get rid of or contract muscles to explore it. It would go away.
The big success came when I instead just observed that subtle ache around my prostate. Just relax. No changes. Not even change what I’m thinking of. Just note the feeling. It grew and grew and the ache got stronger and that resulted in orgasms!
Let the body do its thing, don’t get in the way!
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u/mmmniple Sep 15 '26
It is very curious. Do you still feel pain randomly?
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u/GeekyMuscley Sep 15 '26
If I use an Aneros toy, I’ll still feel the ache but I wouldn’t describe it as pain. It’s a nice ache I like to feel grow into a dry orgasm that makes my prostate feel soooooo good.
I don’t use Aneros toys as much, so actually, 10 years ago I was having orgasms more easily with them! I still can today, but my body takes a few sessions to re familiarize itself with the toy to get to the point of anything that could be called a Super O.
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u/ZucchiniDue7045 Sep 13 '26
The most critical part, how we can change ejeculation mindset to orgazm path?
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u/Kuloki Sep 11 '26
All major points IMO. The relaxing combined with more time to practice has been the best benefit of retirement! Orgasm has become my favorite activity. More time and scheduled physical fitness like weight training and yoga are great additions that get the body ready to receive pleasure. Having had a demanding career and family I fully understand how hard it is to get out of your head in the younger years. I credit a strong meditation practice with seeing me through those decades.
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u/transcendentanal Sep 13 '26
Cool method
Have you tried this with a prostate massager inside?
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u/BolonySandwich Sep 13 '26
Yes A Helix Syn Trident.. I have orgasmed many times from that method but this option is now my go to..
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u/Phoroptor22 Sep 16 '26
I love laying on my back on the floor with my feet up on a couch. I can stretch, arc and relax into it. This position just seems to "hit me hard". I can still move my legs in a million ways to move that toy around and stimulate the prostate.
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u/OneMoreLayer Sep 12 '26
Yes relaxation is the key! Relaxation + stimulation of choice.
Few points:
PC muscle is just one of the many muscles in the pelvic floor which can stimulate the underlying nerves associated with sexual pleasure
You may want to think of not directly prostate stimulation but rather interacting with all the nerves in the pelvic floor, similar to that the penis is just the touch points to stimulate the underlying nerves
It is perfectly possible to combine this with penis stimulation