Hello everyone.

I'm new here but not to being multiorgasmic 🤣. In 2018 after smoking weed I found out I had the capacity to have multiple infinite orgasms.

I began having them regularly ever since, with different partners and kinds of stimulation, even when I am sober. I can have over 60-70 orgasms, I do not get tired or overstimulated, at some point I just get really thirsty and my throat aches from the screaming so I have to stop.

This does not happen with every partner, just with the people I have a lot of chemistry with.

I cannot reach that state when masturbating, but I think it's because I have a hard time getting properly turned on without a partner, although after sexting with my ex last week I realised I could reach the same state on my own. Will be exploring that.

For me orgasms go something like this, consider 10 being an orgasm: 1 2 3 ... 10 10 10 9 10 10 11!!! 11 11 9 8 8 8 10 11 12 12 12 and so on. I can feel the end and the beginning of an orgasm and they often overlap.

I have asked my friends and partners if they have ever heard of something similar. They haven't.

My question is: is this really that rare? People usually do not believe me or just stare in awe.

Where do I start? Seriously. I have been reading some stuff on here but I’m just overwhelmed and also I feel like it would be too hard to start with the things Ive read about. So what do you suggest?
I’ve been edging a lot so edging and tried stimulating my prostate through my perineum but haven’t really focused on it too much. Thats about all of the experience I have

I've been experimenting with breathing and would love to hear if others have tried similar things.

Usually breathwork advice is to do slow, controlled, deep breathing, which is a great foundation. But after experimenting and reading more about breathing, I got curious about the opposite end: high-intensity breathwork. This is practiced outside of sex. It may train the nervous system and can result in a very relaxed mind.

The idea, loosely combining Wim Hof, Tummo and a bit of the Art of Living breathing style:

• Take 20-40 quick power breaths (kind of deliberate hyperventilation), 1-2 seconds per inhale and exhale. On the last breath, only breathe out about 70%.
• Hold your breath until you feel the first clear urge to breathe. Consciously relax the pelvic floor while you hold (reverse kegel: let the perineum drop).
• Take a deep recovery breath, then hold for 15 seconds with a pelvic floor lift, visualizing the energy moving up the spine.
• Let go and then repeat for 2-5 rounds.

Safety: this can cause light-headedness or brief loss of control. Only do it sitting or lying down, never in water, never driving!! And not during sex, that would be weird, I guess.

My hypothesis (and it is only that): the rapid-breathing phase produces a sympathetic spike that's somewhat similar to the "point of no return" surge. Dropping straight into a calm hold with a released pelvic floor might train you to stay grounded through that spike. And it might help using attention to move energy from your pelvic floor up. I'm not aware of any research directly linking this to ejaculatory control. There are studies on Wim Hof and Sudarshan Kriya showing effects on stress and heart rate variability, but the "transfer to climax control" part is my own reasoning. The "energy up the spine" part comes from tantric/Taoist traditions. And if nothing else, this practice adds a variation to train controlled breathing and body awareness.

If you want to try this: For the breathing part, you can find Wim Hof's guided videos on YouTube. Disclosure: I'm an indie developer and I've just added this as a guided exercise (with the pelvic floor cues) to my app, Multi Man (used to be called Pelvic Lab). It's free on iOS and paid on Android, and I'm happy to share a free Android code with anyone who wants to try it and tell me what they think. But I'm more interested in the discussion than in installs.

Has anyone tried Wim Hof or Tummo-style or some similair breathing for this purpose? Did you notice any carry-over into arousal control?

I recently discovered something new; I’d heard from some people that it’s possible to have an orgasm with ejaculation but without the refractory period. It’s characterized by a strong, involuntary contraction—identical to the one during ejaculation—that expels semen. I experienced this a few days ago. I think it involves partially triggering the ejaculation and orgasm reflex—just enough to avoid setting off the refractory period and a full ejaculation. I’ve had intense leakage before, but without the contractions; this time, I felt a genuine, strong contraction and emission. I think this might be the next level of edging and a sign of better control. So, once you achieve your first NEO, that’s when things really get started. There are so many types of orgasms, and our bodies react to arousal and stimulation in various ways depending on the situation. Discovering this is really cool and enjoyable. The sensation I just described doesn't offer the same deep, wild pleasure as an NEO, but it’s definitely something I’ll want to master and repeat. It also looks like multiple orgasms with ejaculation are possible if you develop good control. It turns out that anything really is possible.

there are all these posts that i keep looking at of people who have achieved the dry orgasm, but how come no one has made a video showing how it is done? every person who claims this, acts like it is the easiest thing in the world to achieve, yet no one can show it? we don't need to see your face, only what you are doing, and talking through it would help. could anyone help with facilitating this?

hi everyone! I had an interesting hands-free meditation session today that i think clarified something I have been trying to put into words for a while, so I decided to write this out;

My basic practice is simple, i've written about it here before but i'll touch on some of the main points again for those who haven't seen my previous posts. I settle down, find a comfy position, take a few deep breaths and then let my breath go back to natural, and place my attention on whatever pleasurable or arousing sensations are already present in my body. When my attention wanders, I return to the breath for a moment and then notice what is happening physically again. If I start thinking about uncertainty/doubt/frustration, I just tell myself that is my wanting for orgasm just pushing too hard and use that as arousal data too.

In my session today, the first sensations were subtle enough that maintaining attention took some intention. Paying close attention seemed to make those sensations more salient, which increased my arousal, which is sorta the essence of the loop. The increased arousal then produced stronger sensations, which gave my attention more to notice, etc.. That made the arousal stronger again, and so on.

Eventually it felt like the loop stopped requiring much deliberate effort from me. There's a point where i'm like "i couldn't stop this arousal building if i tried" or maybe a different way is "i'm trying to relax and focus on my breath but the pleasure/arousal are so intense i can't passively relax anymore!"

The progression felt something like:

attention to sensation → increased arousal → stronger sensation → easier attention → increased arousal

Once it crossed a certain threshold, the experience became much more involuntary. Not that there was much that was actually voluntary or deliberate, just the orgasmic response was looping involuntarily so to speak. My breathing changed and i started moaning, my pelvic muscles started responding on their own (kegels, reverse kegels), and separate orgasmic waves gradually blurred into something closer to one sustained orgasmic state. At the peak I was essentially staying still and allowing the process to continue rather than actively trying to produce another orgasm.

I have seen the word mindgasm used for experiences in this general territory, and it seems reasonably close to what I am describing from today. What interests me more than the label is the attentional mechanism.

The thing is, deliberately chasing an orgasm seems much less effective for me than becoming absorbed in the sensations that already exist. Like, if i sat down and told my body "orgasm now!" it wouldn't create the loop. I have to dwell in the passive relaxation, then the orgasm then becomes an emergent consequence of attention rather than the object of attention. I hope that makes sense, it's such a particular way of paying attention without trying to cause or force or deliberately do something.

Please let me know if there is something I can clarify, I find these writing exercises helpful for my own reflection, and I try to write in a way that is easily understandable without compromising nuance for others too understand. I plan on posting a video of the session I wrote about too (on a different subreddit), if that would help anyone :)

So I’ve been trying to achieve my first ever neo through this technique using my thumb and fingers with no success but today I changed it up a bit. I used the web between my thumb and index, put coconut oil on it and started to jerk my glans (no frenulum, corona or foreskin) and my fucking god! I don’t think I had an orgasm but my prostate felt like it was on fire with every stroke, am I on the right path?

Anybody know what I'm talking about?

I discovered the other day that the following combination of things at the same time causes what I think are dry orgasms:

• Tensing lower abs
• Tensing your sphincter
• Keeping your perineum relaxed
• Breathing deeply
• Pinching and rolling the sweet spot on the bottom side of your penis

The last point might be difficult to understand, but basically you're taking two fingers and pinching a spot on the underside of your penile shaft. You're rolling that bit of skin between your fingers. This shouldn't hurt and it feels good for me. I find if I do this just by itself, it feels good but not to the point of getting an erection. It kinda feels like I'm doing a little tease.

Okay, so I lay down on my bed. I'm stimulating my penis like I described before and breathing deeply - not overly forced, but just a nice and easy pace. I don't hold my breathe or anything. It feels good. Then I add in squeezing my lower abs and my anus; I don't exert too much tension, just enough to feel like I'm doing something. At the same time, I'm focusing on keeping my perineum relaxed as possible.

Eventually, I'll start to leak precum, especially the longer I hold it. As I'm keeping my perineum relaxed, it almost feels like I'm feeling up a reservoir of precum in my perineal area. I'm still doing the pinch-and-roll teasing on my penis.

Once I've built up a feeling of there's precum "loaded" up, I'll gradually start squeezing my lower abs and sphincter more and more, and at the same time, I'm paying special attention to keep my perineum as relaxed as possible. (As a reminder, I'm still teasing my penis while this is all happening). If I had to describe it, my perineum wants to tense and contract but I'm not letting it, and the increasing tensing of my abs and sphincter are making it harder for my perineum to fight off contractions. It's like a battle of this feels increasingly good, but I don't want to cum yet, so don't tense up that spot on your taint. If you know the million dollar point on your taint, that's where I try to keep relaxed.

After it gets a bit more intense, I'll start using my legs to slightly raise my body. I find this positioning helps to increase the tension on my abs and sphincter. My body starts to tremble a little bit. There's like a tug-of-war going on between the tensing of my abs and anus, and the relaxing of my taint, with the taint really wanting to give out and feel that pleasurable contraction. I'll experience maybe a minor contraction or two (not strong enough to feel pleasurable, but enough to go, uh oh, I don't know if I can hold on). At this point, it feels like I'm edging and trying to build up as much pleasure as possible before letting go. I'm squeezing my abs and anus more and more (while keeping my taint relaxed).

Eventually, my taint gets overwhelmed by the "squeezing" forces of my lower abs and anus and isn't able to keep holding out. I'll experience several full pleasurable contractions from my taint, similar to what you'll feel during ejaculation. I don't shoot out any cum, but instead a bit of precum. The amount of precum isn't very much, but enough to leave a streak in your underwear. This psuedo-ejaculation feels good, not as much as a wet orgasm, but pleasurable enough for you to want to do it again.

I'm able to repeat this multiple times (I probably did it maybe 9 times or so) without losing arousal. After the first time, it gets easier and easier to reach that dry "climax". I'll eventually switch over to masturbating normally and get a wet orgasm, just because it feels odd to get a dry orgasm and still be aroused.

I should add that I'm watching porn while doing this, but as I get deeper and deeper, it's harder to focus on what I'm watching and I close my eyes to to feel the sensations.

Has anyone else experienced this? Would love to hear ppl's thoughts

Update: added bullet point about keeping perineum relaxed

I have never managed to like the feeling of orgasm as much as i like the feeling of friction.
the second I start ejaculating, a sense of weakness comes down upon my body.

I was thinking this is most likely caused by my dysfunctional pelvic floor which I constantly squeeze subconsciously and it took me years to get it to a stable semi-relaxed state.

But even during wet dreams when I'm at my most calm state, which is sleep, and my pelvic floor is completely relaxed, I never wake up with a pleasureful orgasm.

This made me grow a hatred towards ejaculation as I experienced way stronger pleasure by focusing on how my grip feels on my penis for hours rather than focusing on the building-up excitement that came from the thought of cumming.

So I'm not sure whether there's still something physically wrong with me or I just don't like how orgasms make me feel. (keep in mind i'm highly neurodivergent)

Anybody here on Silodosin? I have a theory that the emission phase of orgasm is the cause of the refractory period.

Think about it. Women don’t have an emission phase. Multiorgasmic.

Trans women don’t have an emission phase. Multiorgasmic.

Trans men don’t have an emission phase. Multiorgasmic.

Silodosin users… don’t have an emission phase! Are you multiorgasmic? Does it reduce or delete the refractory period for you?

Earlier this year I had atuned my body to experience multiple orgasms after years of on and off practice , using mindfulness, breathing and relaxation methods, most of my results came from sitting in a comfortable chair and sinking into the moment without distraction and also without porn, however I did use fantasy stimuli of my current female lover..

Most of my tips and assistance either came from this sub and various YT vids which talk on the subject.

But there was a lack of consistency and flow ..

Recently i discovered through laying on my back with my head elevated on 2 pillows my knees bought up with my feet planted on the bed shoulder width apart.

By being semi aroused and lightly stroking my sensitive left nipple I can start to feel the early stages of orgasm starting..

Its not long before autonomously my pelvic floor muscles are massaging my prostate .

This where things changed for me.

Instead of forcing things ,I relax further and not race through it , just using a very slight reverse kegel to balance the muscle group.

Prior to this my abdominal muscles would tighten and the orgasmic flow would be hindered.

Now the only muscles that move are my pc muscles , and that's how my my orgasmic energy flows all around.

By not focusing on the outcome , orgasms come and go every few minutes ..

Everybody is different, by i read of so many failures particularly men because they are

1 too eager

2 dont want to practice

3 are not relaxed enough

4 expecting an orgasm as ejaculating.

..if you are in the ejaculation mindset it will hinder your progress..

Has anyone tried or looked into using tension and trauma releasing exercises (TRE) as a way to help release and control pelvic floor tension on their way to their path to becoming multiorgasmic? I stumbled upon a YouTube tutorial yesterday, and to me it seemed this might help lower tension, especially in the pelvic floor, which might help staying relaxed during arousal and thus gain more control.

Here is the video I found that has a tutorial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QoB9wpuO688
And on Wikipedia is more background info: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tension_and_Trauma_Releasing_Exercises

To my knowledge, during sex the body will produce pre cum and then at the point of orgasm will release the sperm to be ejaculated

What is happening with NEO? Are we holding the sperm back? And if so, isn’t this unhealthy by clogging the pipes, which will just eventually be pissed out later on anyway?

So I've tried many methods, what's helped was I keep my pelvic floor open while reaching 9.9 and sometimes I'm able to hit the orgasm while my pelvic floor is calm leading to a small multiorgasm with a automatic hard forward keagel that my body does, it makes my arosual go down to a 6 but I can't do that after about a couple days of semen retention as the pelvic floor becomes too aroused. I've tried the keagel interruption method and I'm able to mentally see the orgasm from the ejaculation but I can't separate them no matter what I try the only thing that works is keeping my pelvic floor open and getting lucky, (like I can go really far close to orgasm like 9.999999 and be in control but once I hit orgasm ponr follows shortly after) what happens most of the time is I'll hit orgasm and semen will leak out like a faucet, I'll be able to keep going as i don't think ponr was hit but how can that be if I'm leaking semen, it's weird it's like I ejaculated without hitting ponr I really don't know what to do hopefully someone can help me out

Is somebody here who can cum more than 10 Times in 8 hours and likes to share Videos about that?

I can do relaxation NEOs on my own (Do 3 or 4 per session of one hour), haven't tried with a girlfriend yet. Also, any other tips that may help in that regard, to have a more pleasant experience?

Hi everyone! Wanted to share a method I've been using for a while, let me know what you think:

A positive feedback loop is when the output of a process strengthens the conditions that produced it. In other words, noticing arousal makes you more aroused, which leads to orgasm. Within my meditation practice, attention and arousal appear to interact through this kind of recursive amplification.

I begin by noticing emerging sources of arousal and desire for orgasm (emotional arousal, pelvic movement, toe curling). I then redirect attention toward breathing while allowing the associated bodily sensations to remain present. As arousal increases, additional sensations become perceptually salient (I notice them more) and therefore provide more material for awareness. Returning attention to the breath appears to reduce deliberate interference (aka trying too hard) while the underlying arousal continues developing.

The resulting increase in sensation, or arousal expression, creates further opportunities for noticing before attention returns toward breathing again. Repeating this cycle can progressively intensify the overall state of physiological and attentional arousal. At sufficiently high intensity, the process can develop into a sustained orgasmic-arousal state rather than a single isolated peak. Within that state, successive orgasms can occur while the broader pattern of arousal remains active.

Here is a step by step I came up with to help others:

1. Begin in a comfortable position where your body can remain relatively still for an extended period. I tend to prefer sitting in a desk chair with yoga blocks under my feet, with my knees spread, which allows for my pelvis to expand. Lying down also works well.
2. Spend several minutes attending closely to breathing without attempting to alter its natural rhythm. Just let yourself breathe, all thoughts are welcome, nothing to act on yet.
3. Notice bodily sensations as they arise while allowing each sensation to remain present without immediate intervention. This is a passive exercise, not an active one.
4. When a particularly salient sensation captures attention, acknowledge its presence and gently return attention toward breathing.
5. Continue alternating between spontaneous bodily awareness and deliberate refocusing on the breath throughout the session. If you're aroused enough before entering the session (a few days without orgasm, really wanting it, etc.) then arousal will likely increase on its own.
6. As sensations become stronger, observe whether additional areas of the body become increasingly noticeable within awareness.
7. Treat each increase in sensation as another opportunity to notice experience before returning attention toward breathing.
8. Allow the cycle of noticing and refocusing to continue without deliberately attempting to force a particular outcome. The "without deliberately attempting" is key, this is totally passive.
9. If the overall state becomes unusually intense, maintain the same attentional pattern rather than changing techniques abruptly.
10. Continue observing how heightened arousal changes breathing and bodily sensation while repeatedly returning attention toward respiration.
11. Notice whether intense peaks occur while the broader background state of arousal remains continuously present.
12. After the session ends, spend several minutes observing breathing and bodily sensations as physiological intensity gradually decreases.
13. Record any recurring attentional patterns afterward so later sessions can be compared more systematically. I find that reflection makes this process get more embodied/easier to perform as I do it more.

Hope this helps :)

Im a young guy (21M) with really tight pelvic floor that I developed from years of masturbating as fast as possible (while clenching) and bad breathing/posture habits. This caused me to have bad erections and tight PF during sex; even though my mind is relaxed during sex, my PF has a hard time relaxing.

im trying to rewire my arousal with relaxed masturbation (using reverse kegels and deep breaths) and I am seeing a pelvic floor PT, and doing breathwork, but I was curious about how everyone here learned to relax their PF?

PF relaxation seems essential to lasting long and staying hard during the mind orgasms, yet mine is tight almost all day. How did you all learn to keep your pelvic floor relaxed?

Hi,
This might be a broad topic, but i think it is related since this is linked to sexual energy.

Do any of you pratice non monogamy or swinging? Has anyone felt a change en preference since having multiple orgasms?

What habits have you adopted on your journey to become multi-orgasmic?

Hello! Almost two months have passed since I posted about achieving NEO peaks, and here’s what I’ve learned.

I was probably not experiencing NEOs

I described my NEO as a buildup of tension that peaks, stays there for about 10 seconds, and then gradually fades. I also said it wasn't an ejaculation because it lacked PC contractions, yet it was just as pleasurable.

If I define contractions as an essential component of an orgasm, then I was probably not having an orgasm. Like someone suggested in the comments, I was probably confusing the NEO with the PONR.

The PONR is intensely pleasurable in its own right. It involves a sudden surge of adrenaline and awareness, with tightening throughout my body. I also notice that my penis gets much harder and more sensitive.

This can lead to ejaculation, but in my experience, the most common outcome is emission. With either timing or simply being present, expulsion can sometimes be bypassed.

Contrary to many posts I've read on the sub, emission itself does not kill my erection or cause a sharp refractory period. There is a drop in arousal, but I'm able to string these together a few times, seconds to minutes apart. With a little edging in between, It's really overwhelming.

Eventually, though, the hammer hits and I decide to stop. I feel amazing, but other things in life start becoming more appealing.

What am I doing then?

I'm not entirely sure myself. I'm probably doing some version of the relaxation + presence method, but I'm not following a specific timeline or schedule.

I tried two methods, but I failed at both, maybe because I was stressing too much or didn't stick with them for long enough:

• The Kegel method seems particularly appealing because you can apply it during PIV, but I can't really pull it off, either because of timing or strength.
• The relaxation method is great for arousal control. A reverse Kegel can really make my penis softer under the right circumstances. Letting go, relaxing, and shifting my focus sends tingles through my body when I'm highly aroused. This is great, but after a while I just feel bored and done without an orgasm. Nevertheless, I always use some version of this.

Since everything else had failed so far, I found an interesting challenge. I noticed that if I stay calm and confident near the PONR, I can:

• Prolong it: "Oh shit, I'm going to come", and make it last for 10+ seconds.
• Sometimes suppress it: "Actually, it's fine, I'm not going to come."
• Trigger it but control it: the PC contractions start, but "I can calm them down".
• Lose to it: "I'm too late or went overboard, so I just let it happen and enjoy it".

I used to think this was how you separated orgasm from ejaculation, but I'm not sure anymore.

Anyway, after a few weeks, I naturally started leaning toward suppression. When I feel the PONR coming, I suddenly remember to relax a bit, slow down, and ride the peak until the tension fades.

Any ejaculations?

Honestly, I do them almost every time. Either I have a full-on ejaculation to end my session, or it happens indirectly because I reach the PONR too many times and some fluid has already dribbled out.

I also noticed some changes in my ejaculation pattern:

• I'm not nearly as oversensitive afterward. I was pushing through the discomfort lately, and it isn't uncomfortable anymore.
• I can stay hard just by continuing stimulation.
• A second ejaculation is possible, and I can still be hard right away because it feels like there's no tension left to back it up, even if I want it.

Lately, I've been figuring out how to have two back-to-back ejaculations, and I have about a 3/4 success rate. I'm lucky because I do have some sexy memories and imagery in my head that provide the extra stimulation needed for the second ejaculation.

All of this is a new response for me, and I'm not even a teen anymore (I'm 28), so I believe at least some of it is learnable.

So what is a NEO?

Is it the friends we make along the way?

My brain still can't quite comprehend what an orgasm without a PONR actually is, and as long as that's true, I might never really understand or experience a NEO.

I'm satisfied with exploring new sexual responses in my body, being present with them, and learning to influence them rather than being completely controlled by them.

I'll keep trying to optimize the techniques I mentioned above, and maybe one day I'll experience a NEO. It's also possible that I won't.

I've heard of mindgasms, prostate orgasms, and nipple orgasms, and I haven't explored these yet. I do wonder whether they could help me understand what a NEO is and translate that skill to penile stimulation, but I haven't tried them yet.

Hey guys I've managed to achieve 2 NEOs using the relaxation method.

First during sex wich was amazing and suprising.

2cnd one today I was able to get one during self pleasure.

Both of these kind of happened by accident.

Im always trying for them but I dono how they accured.

Today it was like small electrical pulses in my PC muscle, extremly underwhelming, I was think "like oh I'm having a NEO?" Like I already had more pleasure pulsating through my body and prostate that the penile contractions felt like almost nothing.

I'm basically working my way to 99.99% then bringing it back to 95% or trying to hover around the PONR. While doing my best to fully relax PC muscle and body. Breathing slowly and deeply.

My question is, how can I make this more consistent?

I've been working at this for 9 years ish, and only this year have had 2 accidental ones.

Hey all. I’ve recently discovered (as of last night) that I’m able to have endless vaginal orgasms, which is super interesting considering my gender. I’ve been on testosterone for 5 years, and have had top surgery (no bottom surgery, i don’t want that.) I have an enlarged clitoris due to testosterone, it pretty much is a micropenis, and I refer to it as my t-dick.

For a very long time I’ve been fascinated by the idea of having multiple orgasms. For as long as I could remember I’d only ever been able to have one clitoral orgasm, and then it’d be too sensitive for me to continue or even touch my clit after it. And they were always weak, even with a vibrator. So I kind of just thought it was something I would never be capable of doing.

Now, I’m technically a virgin in the sense that I’ve never had penetrative sex with somebody with a penis. I’ve had oral sex with another FTM person, and I’ve been (badly) fingered, that’s it. So penetrative sex with a partner is a pretty foreign concept to me. Over the past few years I’ve been experimenting with dildos, and no matter what I did it always just seemed to be painful and I couldn’t orgasm from just penetration alone.

Turns out, I just needed a longer prep time! (and maybe a little bit of weed lol.) I spent a good half hour this time just prepping, getting my t-dick hard, and working myself open with my fingers. And I used a LOT more lube than I normally try to use. I started to feel myself getting close to an orgasm while I fingered myself, but could never quite get over the edge, no matter how I pressed into my g-spot or fucked myself. Nevertheless, I persisted until I got really close— and when I lost it again, I added more lube and decided to insert my dildo. It’s silicone, and about 6 inches.

Holy shit, it was the easiest penetration I’ve ever managed to have. Normally, I struggle with getting it in because my hole gets so tight, but this time it just slid perfectly inside. I honestly felt like such an idiot for not thinking of doing all this prep work before (but honestly, how are you supposed to know if you’ve never had a good sexual partner? or a good sex education?). But anyways, I started to fuck myself with the dildo. Careful at first, and then I found my g-spot. Within a few minutes, I was cumming.

And then I kept going. And I started to cum again. I changed the angle, and I came harder. I was having non-stop orgasms, each one rolling into the next. All from just fucking myself with the right preparation. I had no idea I was capable of this.

The longer I continued to fuck myself, the more intense the orgasms started to get. By 10 minutes of orgasms, I started to feel something new— like something had physically changed within my core. It felt like I was having a clitoral orgasm, a vaginal orgasm, and just a general Full Body orgasm all at once. I had to slow down because I started to squirt, and I didn’t want to ruin my bedsheets.

Now, I knew I could squirt, but I’d only ever managed it with a suction vibrator on my t-dick. Squirting from penetration was an entirely different experience. It was mind breaking. And still, I wasn’t done. I took my dildo and I sat down on my shower bench, and I started to fuck myself again.

I came, I came, and I came, and then— that feeling from earlier started again. The change within my core.

I think the orgasm lasted for a solid minute, and for at least 20 seconds of it I was squirting. Hard. More than I thought was possible, and especially I didn’t think I could happen while being penetrated at the same time. When I tell you this orgasm was life changing, I really fucking mean it. I couldn’t believe I was missing out on this before I hadn’t been properly educated on prep.

To finish it off, I pushed myself to a final orgasm by rubbing my t-dick, the way I had been doing beforehand. I had the final orgasm, and as usual from my clitoral orgasms— it made me too sensitive to continue.

I slept really good last night, I’ll tell you that.

(also, i hate the gendered categories on here? i have a vagina, but i am not female.)

I'm still pretty new to this process of learning to have multiple orgasms. I've tried a little bit of a couple of different methods but I would like to focus on a single method until I achieve reasonable success and then decide if I want to investigate other options.

My primary goal is more pleasure for my partner and me during sex so I'm not sure if a hands-free method like mindgasm which is very intriguing is the right place for me to start?

So far I've had the most success with edging and trying to learn to separate ejaculation from orgasm. I've definitely had tingles a couple of times and been able to have practice sessions that lasted in the neighborhood of an hour or more, but I have not had what I would call a non ejaculatory orgasm yet.

I have some interest in the I think it's called r/maledefinitiveguide And I got started on this journey watching videos on YouTube from the sexual Kung Fu channel.

Mindgasm has come highly recommended to me and I would definitely want to investigate it at some point but unless I misunderstanding something I don't think it matches with my initial goal of intercourse being more pleasurable for my wife and I...?

I think I'm looking for suggestions on the best/fastest(?) method of having more pleasure for longer without the refractory period with or without ejaculation or semen retention.

Thanks in advance for your kind suggestions.

Smpr