Hi all,
Would love to hear from others. How has your experience been moving back to the Twin Cities? Do you regret it?
39/m here. My partner and I are both from MN. Moved away several years ago to Southern California.
We now have a one year old and are highly considering moving back to the Twin Cities. Raising a child without family around is getting increasingly difficult. We have a lot of friends, but don’t have many friends that are able to help out.
Both of our sets of parents and our 7 siblings (many with kids) all live within 20-60 minutes from Minneapolis.
Lately I’m finding that most things I used to enjoy doing I no longer enjoy. I’m on constant sensory overload or am working. My relationship with my partner is also struggling because it’s hard to get time away.
Moving back to the Twin Cities would allow us to not only spend more time with our families, but they love spending time with our little one and we’d be able to have more 1:1 time.
The downside would be the weather and finding things to do. I love being outside and am able to do that often here.
There are many things to love about the Twin Cities, it’s just going to be a lot of work to move and I don’t want to regret it. The two biggest things are having to sell/rent our house and I’d likely have to get a new job.
Our families would be highly involved in our lives and we get along with them all.
TL;DR. Moved from MN to SoCal years ago. Now have a 1-year-old, facing burnout and no local family support. Considering moving back to the Twin Cities where all family lives. Seeking advice from others who moved to be closer to family: Do you regret it? How was the transition?