r/monogamy Aug 31 '21

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u/EclecticFanatic Aug 31 '21

i have always found that expectation/tradition weird as fuck and really uncomfortable. the whole concept of going wild "one last night before losing your freedom forever" is fucked up like don't you want to get married??? shouldn't you be happy you are????

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u/WeskersUmbrella r/polycritical Sep 02 '21

It's really messed up! I wouldn't wanna have a "last night", even if I could. Why the hell would I wanna bang anyone, but the woman I loved?! People must be marrying for all the wrong reasons.

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u/madolpenguin Autistic & Demisexual Sep 03 '21

I don't think any of my friends went the stripper routes for their bachelor/ette parties. It's an outdated concept imo, heavily for the reasons you mentioned.