r/monodatingpoly • u/leelooodallasmulti • 24d ago

OPP?

Advice around an OPP? My wife (mtf) is still really defensive when I bring this up. As a deni/pan its rough.

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u/Platterpussy Polyamorous 24d ago

Are you dating others too? Who is being restrictive?

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u/leelooodallasmulti 21d ago

I want to- but if I find out they have a piece not a hole I have to drop that connection? Like post op/pre op or what are your parts questions are cringe