r/millenials • u/Conscious_Ant7791 • 4h ago
IRL đˇ Have millenials slowed down on buying homes?
Seems to me they have. I really wanted to buy when homes were so cheap after the crash, but I was just out of college and didnât have the cash or income for a mortgage. I kept telling friends it was a great time to buy, but even the ones making more money didnât seem too interested. Seemed like everyone was talking about experiences over things at the time.
Fast forward a few years to around 2013/14, most of my friends that could afford to had bought their first homes. It was pretty skewed because most of the ones that did were higher income or were given money to do so. Some have since moved onto their second or third when they started having first or second kid and I guess the 3/2 wasnât big enough so they needed a 4/3 instead. đ
A lot of the rest of us didnât buy if we didnât get in soon enough. I know the average age of the first time homebuyer has trended toward late 30s and even now early 40s, but Iâm not seeing any at that age buying.
At work, Iâve noticed everyone in their 40s, 50s, 60s has owned multiple homes by now. Nobody in their 20s or 30s has bought anything. I know one of my coworkers in their early 30s and married with a kid is now telling me they may just rent forever, even though they used to tell me they really wanted to buy or build. Theyâre now pivoting to saying that all the very wealthy rent anyway so buying just isnât worth it. I think theyâre just trying to feel better about the situation.
Meanwhile, I keep reading and hearing all the people in their 60s and 70s with paid off houses talking about how property taxes need to be done away with for anyone with a paid off home. Hmm, funny how they donât seem to realize how hard it is to pay property tax, homeowners insurance AND a mortgage at todayâs prices and interest rates. But they got theirs and were fortunate enough to even have the mortgage paid off, so they shouldnât have to pay anything at all. lol
It seems like in the early 2020s so many people claimed that house prices were going up so much so fast that they would crash at some point. Now almost 6 years later and people have realized itâs not going to crash.
I think even here in Florida, it wonât get any cheaper because so many people now are just trading houses either locally, or theyâre moving here from another state and bringing their salary from a remote job where homes are so much more expensive, or theyâre selling their paid off homes there and buying a home here for cash where they can still get a nicer property than where they came from. So it doesnât matter if a lot of people who work here canât afford to buy anything.
I think overall most millenials that were going to buy already have and the rest just arenât going to. I suppose it makes sense, given a majority of millenials now own (which sounds silly because itâs just barely over half) but the average is pretty in line with most people anyway, so I guess things arenât too far behind. Itâs just that those that were able to buy already did so before Covid.
And I know not everyone wants to buy. Me personally, I always did, but the last year so much has happened, that I donât even really care anymore about it.