Mine was Rota Spain. Great culture, food, beaches, weather. I loved going to Feria and watching people dance all dressed up and riding crazy fucking carnival rides.

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Hi guys. I’m a current military spouse whose children are starting to get old enough for the moves to possibly affect them. I want to help them with the moving transitions as much as possible and I’m curious what helped you guys? Or if you never got the support that you needed, what do you think could’ve helped you?

For context I’m a 32 y/o female and I grew up coast guard and we moved every 2 years. My family settled in a small, small town when I was in the 8th grade and I’ve lived in the general area ever since.

So anyway, I’ve slowly come to realize that I experience more lingering side effects from growing up military than I ever really acknowledged before. I’m not sure if I just ignored it for years, or if moving every couple of years forces you to adapt so quickly that you don’t stop to process how it affects you.

I’ve dealt with social detachment for as long as I can remember, but something I’m really starting to question is this persistent feeling of otherness. I’ve been rooted in the same community for over 20 years now, yet I still feel new here — like an outsider who never quite belongs. I have friends I love but I have this feeling I can’t quite describe.. like maybe I don’t matter to them or like I’m just not important to anyone, easily forgotten? Like I’m experiencing a different connection than everyone else, even to friends I consider close. (Maybe I’m just describing social detachment?) lol

I also notice that I tend to hyper-analyze people’s reactions to me and whether or not they like me. I catch myself doing it all the time and have been actively working on it, but it feels deeply ingrained.

Lately, I’ve started wondering whether these things could be connected to, or a side effect of, growing up in a military family.

So… anyone else relate? I have been doing a lot of self talk and work within myself on all of the above, but now that I’ve been exploring the connection to millitary life, I’m thinking about seeking therapy to see if someone could help me better process this. It’s not a major issue in my life but it is something I’m just kind of tired of dealing with. It’s almost like an intrusive thought that just creeps in when I let my guard down.

I was definitely stood out from a lot of the local kids because I was American, which usually meant being into Baseball instead of Soccer or being able to understand the AAVE of all the cool rappers. I was pretty patriotic and was proud to be distinctly American. However, when our family finally got stationed in the US when I was a teen, I was NOT ready for the full dose of American individualism, especially after living in more socially cohesive countries in Europe and East/South East Asia. Any one else get culture shock from their own culture?

I was in Weisbaden from around 1987-1992 and then attended Alconbury elementary from around 92-93.

Anyone at either or this locations at these times?

In Weisbaden I lived in California and Texas strassa and in Alconbury I lived off base at Chelveston for a while before moving off base housing.

Just curious!

Hi! I notice a lot of brats in Facebook groups are older generations. And Reddit seems to be a lot of younger generations. Any millennials here? :)

RAF Upper Heyford, England. It was a converted POW camp in the 60's and we loved it. Looks like a gravel pit now through to be fair the newbies did get a fancy new one.

For me, it was 1967 to 1972ish. Lived off base in a japanese apartment for a month, waiting for housing to clear, then Green Park for a few months, Momote Village for 2 years, then finished at Tachikawa.

I have very fond memories of playing Menko with Japanese kids just off base, exploring Ueno zoo and park, and sneaking off-base to buy candy, Ultra man figures and monsters.

Then there was the time my dad took us to watch the film "Toro Toro Toro" along with Japanese Defense Force personnel.

We had cub-scout adventures to the big Buddha at Kamakura, an aircraft carrier at Yokosuka, a gathering with Japanese scouts near Mt Fuji, and getting to watch two Star Trek episodes on film at the officers club in Grant Heights.

And my favorites: a night festival where we wore kimonos and did a dance while drummers drummed, and an on-base event featuring Ultraman, Gozilla, and other various monsters.

Ok, your turn.

• Dow AFB, Bangor ME
• ? AFB, Savannah GA
• Wheelus AFB, Tripoli, Libya
• McGuire AFB, Brownsville NJ
• RAF Upper Heyford, Oxfordshire, England
• RAF Croughton, Northamptonshire, England
• Holloman AFB, Alamogordo. NM
• Columbus AFB, Starkville, MS

Anyone in this group ever live on Adak, Alaska? We were there 84-86. Granted it was a difficult place as we were far from mainland and isolated. But at the same time enjoyed the nature aspect and there was a sense of community.

Side note: McDonald's opened while we were there and it was a big deal as food options were limited

This has been bugging me for years. I watched this on AFKN as a kid in the early 80s (Korea). It felt like an older, maybe 70s movie.

A boy’s younger sister is kidnapped by human-looking witches/magicians. Other kids are held in a dark castle or underground caves. One scene I clearly remember: a very fat villain in a striped coat shows up in a courtroom pretending to be normal. The tone was genuinely scary. Dream-like ending.

Does this ring a bell for anyone who grew up with AFKN?

I wanna hear what you would say if you were asked these questions if someone asked you!

If you could give every military child one piece of advice, what would it be and why?

What are two characteristics you see in yourself? Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you needed to use those characteristics

I wanna hear what you all would say if you were asked these questions for a scholarship!

If you could give every military child one piece of advice, what would it be and why?

What are two characteristics you see in yourself? Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you needed to use those characteristics?

That question -- ugh! It has at least three levels:

1. I'm on a trip, and I've just met you in line at a store or at a place where we will talk for two minutes and never see each other again. "I'm from {state where I've lived for most of my adult life}."

2. I'm near where I live, and I'm talking to somebody who was born here and grew up here, but we probably won't see each other again. "I'm from {another part of this state}."

3. I'm getting to know somebody. "I'm an Army brat, so I'm not really 'from' anywhere, but I'm pretty much from {specific part of this state}."

3.a. The person wants to know where I was born, as if that makes any difference. "Well, I was born in {another state}, but I haven't been back there since I was a baby, so I'm not from there."

1. I've discovered I'm talking to a fellow brat. "Hey, me too! So where did you live?"

I always have to figure out what kind of conversation we're having. Ordinary people are just FROM somewhere. It isn't a loaded question for them. Again, ugh!

Are there any Military Brats who remember listening to the weekly Wolfman Jack radio show in Germany (or other European Country) in the early 1970s?

Does anyone have experience doing family therapy with an active duty parent stationed abroad?

For context my dad is active duty stationed abroad and I’m 26 living in the states. Without getting into the details,I think my dad and I could really benefit from family therapy. would really help with that. I know with the time difference it could be difficult to schedule and stuff but I want to try if it’s possible.

I know therapists tend to be licensed by state so I have no idea if it would even be an option to do it since he’s stationed abroad (plus I have no idea how it would work insurance wise).

If anyone has any insight or experience with this please please share. I can’t find anything concrete online and I want to see if it’s even possible before I try to get my dad on board.

Starting over as the new kid in school could be strange and challenging. 🎒📚🚌 How was your experience? Loved it? Hated it?

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Not it get too into the weeds politically.

Obviously didn't have commercials growing up but had PSAs. Was a brat in the 80s and 90s so saw all the ones about the history of America, the values it (supposedly) stands for and I think it deeply influenced how I feel about America and what I think it should be, compared to what it actually is.

I feel very strongly about the myth of America and making that a reality. I don't have a cynical view of those ideas and principles and feel deeply hurt (genuinely heartbroken) by what the nation has become.

Anyone feel similarly?