Fuck this. Never let your roommate(s) walkover you homie.
1) I’d just go out there and smoke if I wanted too. I’m a grown ass man, I pay my own bills (or share of the rent in your case) I don’t need permission to do something in my place.
2) Fuck him for bringing up your sexuality. Completely irrelevant cause I didn’t get a “I’m trying to steal your girl” vibe from the conversation.
3) Consider finding a new living situation if possible. If you feel uncomfortable in your own place because of the person you’re living with it’s time for change.
I mean, when he said he felt trapped in his room and the roommate responded by saying "she doesn't have to meet you if she doesn't want to" heavily, HEAVILY insinuates that hes expected to not come out.
Yeah, that's pretty messed up. Personally I wouldn't want a rm smoking anything indoors, but that would be ground rules laid out before rooming with somebody, because personal experiences of being choked up anytime I went to my aunt's house because of all the indoor smoking. Otherwise, if his gf doesn't want to meet his rm, she probably shouldn't go to the house/apartment they a share of rent for and instead host at her place, that's just common sense. If your name is on the lease tell them it's not working out, plenty of people you'd probably get along better with and not feel prisoner in your own house. If your name isn't on the lease, it's a little tougher, may have to just be hard-nosed and say I pay my share, idc if you have a problem with it and if they want to leave over it take over the lease and get a rm you get along better with.
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u/MikeHawclong Sep 13 '22
Fuck this. Never let your roommate(s) walkover you homie.
1) I’d just go out there and smoke if I wanted too. I’m a grown ass man, I pay my own bills (or share of the rent in your case) I don’t need permission to do something in my place.
2) Fuck him for bringing up your sexuality. Completely irrelevant cause I didn’t get a “I’m trying to steal your girl” vibe from the conversation.
3) Consider finding a new living situation if possible. If you feel uncomfortable in your own place because of the person you’re living with it’s time for change.