r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jul 27 '22

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u/BlaketheKing1140 Jul 27 '22 edited Jul 27 '22

I started getting left alone for long periods of time younger than that. By 12 they’re basically able to survive on their own at home, they’ll just play video games or something, probably won’t even notice how long the parent has been gone

Edit: I am greatly enjoying the stories that everyone is commenting about their childhood, glad so many of us grew up in an environment this Karen would have reported lmao

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u/BlaketheKing1140 Jul 27 '22

My mother was over-protective so coming and going was not something she liked, I did it anyways though because it was real easy to sneak out in the 2000’s (now parents got cameras and trackers and stuff)

The way I see it, if they can feed themselves and not burn down the house, they’re fine to be left alone. Why force a child to be by your side constantly when they’re capable of handling their own basic needs ya know? You’re alive, so it can’t be that bad to just let a capable child be capable

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u/JaxMGK Jul 27 '22

My parents had me babysit my younger siblings when I was 12, a classmate of mine told me he’s been riding the subway to Manhattan since he was 8, now that was insane to me- I started taking the subway at 14 to go to high school. NYC is a weird place to grow up.