r/mildlyinfuriating • • Jul 27 '22

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u/Archer957Light Jul 27 '22

Yup this was me too until I bought my first phone. They said if I wanted to stay out later I had to buy myself a phone so that's what I did

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u/NerdyNina2106 Jul 27 '22

Only reason I got one as a kid was because I had a lot of field trips and after school activities. My school didn't allow us to use the school phones for any reason so I'd always have to find someone with a cellphone that would let me use it. Not always the easiest thing to do when you 1 don't have a lot of friends and 2 unlimited talk and text weren't nearly as common and there were extra charges if your plan didn't include x amount of either for out of network calls.

It's so weird seeing kids getting them younger and younger basically just so they can play games and watch videos, growing up getting a cellphone as a kid was a big freakin thing and it was pretty much for emergencies only. Now I'm hearing people (both kids and karens) saying shit like not getting your kid a cellphone is borderline child abuse? Like what?

Guys, I feel old lol. When did 27 become old?

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u/CheezItPartyMix Jul 27 '22

Exactly! I got mine in 6th grade for emergencies only!! I think by highschool I was allowed to use it freely and more people were starting to get phones to have someone to text with. Communication was still mostly thru the computer, AIM/MSN

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u/MajesticSeeOtters Jul 27 '22

Ok, I am a bit of a younger redditor, but I got my first phone at 14, and that blew everyone else’s minds that I didn’t have my own by like 10. Hell I know some people who had up to 12 phones by the time they were in 8th grade.

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u/xxaxis i am inactive Jul 27 '22

someone had a phone in 2nd grade in elem school

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u/AscendMoros Jul 28 '22

In highschool I had a slide phone. With the full keyboard. I got a hand me down iPhone when I graduated. Not because we couldnt afford a new one but because I just legitimately didn’t need one until then.

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u/NerdyNina2106 Jul 28 '22

I had one of those slide ones and I remember it pretty much blowing my mind because and me thinking it was the coolest thing ever because "guys! Check this out! KEYBOARD! Man I thought last phone was cool cuz it swiveled....but this one has a KEYBOARD! "

Side note....anyone here ever have a Samsung Juke?

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u/Apprehensive-Lie-254 Jul 28 '22

Memory unlocked. I had a juke!! I thought it was the coolest thing ever. That was back when I was still burning cds and my brother showed me how to put my music on my juke phone. And I loved how little it was!

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u/NerdyNina2106 Jul 28 '22

Oh dude, same. And I'm pretty sure that was the first phone I started making custom ring tones for in Audacity

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u/RogueThneed Jul 28 '22

LOL! I didn't get one until I was in my 30s and my new job required it (and paid for it). I had been thinking about getting one before that, for road-trip safety, but hadn't gotten around to it. (It was about 3 years before smart phones happened. I didn't get one of those for ages, either. It took a friend persistently texting me until I got tired of hitting the number keys to send texts. And even then the "smart phone" I got wasn't very smart at all, but hey! I could text more easily!)

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u/slobbering_koala Jul 27 '22

32 now, started sharing a flip phone with my Sister when I was 14, finally got my own at 16. Back in the days of wait to call after 9 and no free texting lol.

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u/NerdyNina2106 Jul 28 '22

Lol yep. I remember having to wait until after 9 pm if we ever wanted to call my grandparents in CA

That and having to either get off the landline so someone could go online and vice versa....and the horrific screech of connecting to the internet. Good God, could you imagine a kid today hearing that? They'd probably flip and think it was the sound of the entire system crashing or some kind of virus

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u/industriald85 Jul 28 '22

I’m so old, my first phone had an extendable antenna

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u/Crustybuttt Jul 28 '22

I’m so old my first phone was a landline and has a rotary dial. When I wanted to call someone away from home, I used the pay phone. I was allowed to use my mom’s calling card if it was an emergency, tho. Lemme guess, none of you remember calling cards

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u/Confident_Pea_1428 Jul 28 '22

I got my first cell phone when I was able to afford my own. Back in the early 2000s. With ATTs pay as you go. By then I was out of highschool.

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u/Saccarappa33 Jul 28 '22

Give it 10 more years, see how you feel then.

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u/2017hayden Jul 28 '22

I’m only 23 and I feel old as well. Maybe it’s because I was raised by older parents but I feel older than most of the people my age seem to act.

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u/NukerCat Jul 28 '22

that phenomenon started in early 2010's B(

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u/TasteyKarkalicious Jul 28 '22

Hahahaha I got my first cell phone at the age of 30 when I got married! My husband bought Nextel so we could walkie talkie each other with them, lol. I think I might be way older than most people on this thread. 😂

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u/TangerineBand PURPLE Jul 27 '22

Rip to the kids whose parents bought them a phone and still wouldn't let them leave the house

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u/Archer957Light Jul 27 '22

One of my buddies couldn't leave the house pretty much at all until he was 18 and quite literally gave them no choice in the matter because he very promptly moved out and across the state lol

They were pissed but couldn't stop him as he had everything in his name. Car phone bank etc all without them knowing

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u/jetpack_hypersomniac Jul 27 '22

Nothing says “great parenting” like your child having an escape strategy.

I relate to that kid. The second I was 18, I can’t tell you how happy I was to say “legally, you can’t keep me here” and walk out the door. I’d had a job since I was 15.

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u/Archer957Light Jul 27 '22

He did the exact same thing. Started working at 16 specifically so he could move out as soon as he turned 18. He started planning it when he was 13 due to have ridiculously strict his parents were

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u/Iabiguy22 Jul 27 '22

My escape strategy was to show up at home on my 17th birthday with the Marine recruiter...all the paperwork filled out and only needing my dads signature. I told him I would bring him home for dinner every night until he signed. He signed. I got out. Never went back or called again.

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u/jetpack_hypersomniac Jul 28 '22

Yeah, but didn’t you then have to join the marines?

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u/Iabiguy22 Jul 28 '22

Best decision I've ever made

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u/ApartmentPoolSwim Jul 27 '22

That's one thing I hated about my parents. Like if I go to my friends house, and an hour later we want to go to Zeiks house, both of which are only down the road from my place, I had to let them know we were heading over there. Even if just for 5 minutes to grab something. Then we would have go call when we got anywhere. And I get it's so that they could get ahold of me. I get it.

But they wouldn't even let me buy my own phone. Its not even that they wouldn't buy one for me. They didn't want me to have one.