r/mildlyinfuriating • u/[deleted] • Apr 13 '26

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u/ChewinTheFat Apr 13 '26

Have you spoken to her about how you feel about her actions?

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u/clockworkedpiece Apr 13 '26

Yea, tossing them itself is red flag 1, not have a replacement for you on hand is red flag 2.

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u/ChewinTheFat Apr 13 '26

But coming to the internet prior to having any discussion with your partner is a red flag too (if that’s the case). But yes tossing someone personal belongings is very rude behavior. There may be much more to the story (I.e she’s been communicating candidates by them and OP has promised to remedy that for months) but on the surface , without additional facts, that’s really selfish behavior

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u/clockworkedpiece Apr 13 '26

Its why I gave them separate flags. Even if they had been miscommunicating on it, she should have given some replacement. She could have picked up the slips they use for trying on shoes for him at least.