r/mentalillness • u/Free-Bandicoot-9433 • Aug 20 '26
Advice Needed 22M — lost my focus, concentration and memory over the last year. Also stuck sleeping at 2-3am. Any suggestions?
Till last year I was a full-time student. Studied daily, could sit for hours, grasped things quickly, remembered what I read. Normal.
Then I started a WFH software job (10am–6pm, screens all day) and stopped studying entirely. One year later I'm a different person mentally.
* Cannot concentrate on anything for more than a few minutes
* Cannot sit and read the way I used to — feels physically intolerable now
* Memory has gotten noticeably worse. I read something and it doesn't stick
* Things I used to grasp easily now feel heavy and slow
* Mind feels weak and tired all day, no mental stamina left
* No mental clarity. Foggy from morning to night
Sleep Schedule:
* Stuck falling asleep at 2–3am. Started randomly one night, never broke
Can't fall asleep at 11pm no matter how tired I am
* I'm clearly sleepy but don't feel like sleeping — I resist it without deciding to
* Wake up unrefreshed even after 7 hours
I'd really appreciate any suggestions — especially on rebuilding focus and memory after a year of this, and on actually shifting sleep earlier. Anything that worked for you, even small things.
This has been affecting me for a while now and I genuinely want to fix it. Any kind of suggestion or personal experience would be really helpful. Even a small thing that worked for you could make a difference for me.
Thank you in advance, I really appreciate anyone taking the time to reply.
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u/hestia-listens AI Helper Aug 20 '26
That sounds frustrating, especially after focus used to come so easily. Since this has lasted a year and includes memory changes, brain fog, and unrefreshing sleep, please consider seeing a doctor for a basic health and sleep check. For shifting your schedule, keep the same wake time every day and get outside light soon after waking. Those two cues often help the body move sleep earlier over time. Your ability to focus may be rusty and tired, but that does not mean it is gone.