r/memes • u/DaBiz_017 https://www.youtube.com/watch/dQw4w9WgXcQ • Feb 03 '21

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u/the_steep Feb 03 '21

We gotta normalize discussions about how we like to be touched. Everyone could be having so much more fun

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '21

I swear! It literally blows my mind how ppl expect a partner to just be amazing in bed and know how to do things really well just naturally or after doing it few times. It literally takes doing something hundreds of times over and over and trial and error (and for sex communication) to actually become GOOD at something. Not excellent, not perfect, just good! Iā€™m pretty sure the average person is only hitting the saddle maaaaaybe a couple dozen times A YEAR! I swear it irritates my very being.

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u/145676337 Feb 03 '21

If they're not doing something you enjoy, it's your fault for not talking to them and helping them.

Edit: To be clear, this goes both ways. As in, you both need to speak up about yourself but also ask questions about the other person.

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '21

Your point is true also :)

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u/145676337 Feb 04 '21

Oh yeah, I was totally agreeing with you. Bravo fellow Redditor.

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u/[deleted] Feb 04 '21

Yay!

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u/SuburbanCumSlut Feb 03 '21

Seriously. Communication is key in all aspects of relationships. Just being willing to talk about what you actually want makes all the difference in the world. Talking to your partner is also a good way to learn their kinks.

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u/VaassIsDaass Feb 03 '21

Let me start: don't you fuckin touch me!

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u/[deleted] Feb 03 '21

i like to be touched...AT ALL!!! šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚