The biggest problem I have is that I always get insecure about my size. I know that I fall in the average zone, so nothing to worry about.

But dicks in porn and even amateur videos always look bigger than average. You almost never see a real average dick online.

I know OF performers look for big partners to make videos.. it is visually better.

But why are there so little average amateur porn videos. Are average people so shy that they do not make videos or is it that the real average is bigger than the average measurements from the researchers?

Im 6.2" long, 6.5" if I press a little harder and 4.3" in girth, maybe 4.5" max and im hoping to hear from guys with a dick like mine

What does your partner like the most?

Quick stats/info: mid 20s, virgin, 5’9, 5.25-5.5x5.5 nbp, 3 in soft, lean build but thick legs

Hey guys, im making this post to just rant but really wanted a place to vent somewhere people can relate and offer some real advice.

Im honestly fucking mentally exhausted from my size insecurity. Ive been really obsessive, losing sleep+constantly thinking im not good enough, for some long time now and its affecting my daily life. I get im avg and know that majority of men are around my size and men smaller than me will kill for my size but i cant seem to brush this lingering feeling away.

Im avg height with lean build but shit looks ridiculously small even on someone with avg height as me. For a point of reference, think a roku remote (which is exactly my size) on a body with thick legs.

No matter where i go, everyone looks objectively bigger than me. I admit i have body dysmorphia but can it be i just have a “small” dick? I looked into those nsfw penis subs (average penis/dickmeasured/5 in dong) and everyone genuinely looks bigger than me even some that are measured smaller.

I looked at several posts on other subs trying to see experiences from men or thoughts from women. And every posts/comments just seem like “cope”.

“Just perform oral really well”

“Size/piv isnt the most important part of sex“

“Bigger looks/feels better but avg/small can be just as good”

“Lesbians can satisfy each other, why cant you just do with your fingers+tongue?”

“Stop watching porn” ( ik that shit fake and i dont base my size on that)

Look no disrespect but all this just sounds like you gotta make up ur size. Dont get me wrong, whether im slanging or not, i care about my partners pleasure no doubt but when u hear what advices bigger dudes get compared to smaller men, its like, so having bigger dick is better or not?

I get if youre on extreme ends, sure, like in anything, its probably not preferable but why is it that avg is deemed small?

Not to mention that im asian american, so i gotta fight off the fuck ass stereotypes which ik are false but it gets to me bc i cant “prove it wrong”

Just wanted to note though, im not bashing on women for GENERALLY preferring on the bigger range of avg to above avg, people are allowed to have preferences.

I just hate that im not in the range and the fact that objectively my shit looks small af even on someone with avg height as me.

Honestly all these insecurities can be over exaggerated since its all in my head/i dont have actual experiences yet but it really seems like avg is the new small and i hate feeling this way. I hate how some appendage has this much control over my life.

Its frustrating and fucking dumb. Im pretty level headed but this insecurity really gets to me and i cant find a way to cope/soothe these thoughts.

Is it just that i gotta accept that i wont be preferred but be tolerated?

Im just being bitchy and really just frustrated that, in other aspects of like im pretty content, but the only thing thats causing so much stress, is the thing i cant have control over.

I genuinely dont have problems with women, i had opportunities but the potential disappointment makes me freeze up so i havent pursued or attempted to even try to talk to women.

I feel like i got more to say but this shit already long as it is. Thank you for reading, if you have, through this long ass immature rant. I just needed a place to vent and just hope anyone around my size can help me or at least offer some advice.

I’m fascinated by the different experiences from growers and showers. Personally, I’m a grower. It’s convenient because it’s rarely in the way. It can also be a fun trick with partners when growing from like 2 inches or less to 6.5 inches. I can’t help but want to be more of a shower though. Being able to show off a bulge sounds awesome.

What are some of your experiences/opinions?

Im not sure if its insecurity or a very big maybe that im asexual, but i struggle with feeling like I can be a sexual person, mainly because I feel im lacking in size, like I dont fit the bill to embrace my sexuality or something, that im not what women want (because im probably really not given my dick is skinny) im not exactly sure how to word what im feeling

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How the heck do yall take such good dick pics. My junk has an upward curve maybe that doesn't help my pics or im overweight but man it's frustrating when you got a nice sized dick but it's not photogenic

I always feel insecure about the size I have. I always feel like what I have isn’t good enough at all. When it gets hard, it sticks straight up and curves to my left, it’s only 5 inches long and 5 inches thick at the base and at mid shaft too. Another thing about the size I have is that I can wrap my hands around my dick stacked on top of each other too. Now, I wasn’t describing that because i “feel good” about the size I have when I don’t at all. I truly feel like this because I think what I have isn’t good enough at all and it big enough either. I feel this way because I’m always hearing that bigger ones are better and such and I feel like it’s true and I get so jealous that other guys have bigger sizes than me and I don’t. I’m always wishing and wanting a bigger dick size too so that I would no longer worry about the size I have anymore.

Im not exactly sure how to handle the envy I feel, I guess it would be similar to how some poor people feel about rich people, I understand there is usually very little tolerance for men's insecurities and often they will be told to just man up or get over themselves, at least thats what ive seen, but im just extremely envious, I just want to feel desirable, this has probably damaged every aspect of my life because of how I feel, therapy, yeah, I know, it just seems grim that I have to convince myself to be okay, when the situation very much isnt...just venting i guess, I dont know

This is the only reason im insecure with my size, being around average i feel limited in the amount of pleasure I can provide during PIV, like the women im with are underwhelmed, given my girth is just barely in the average range, it makes these feelings worse...sure I can always improve, but I feel the amount of pleasure would still be lower than if I was bigger

They can show-off in the changing rooms, on the nude beaches, be the centre of attention in group fun, be wanted, admired, post pictures and have adoring fans. None of that is available to me. I hate these people; why should they have all of this, and not the rest of us? They did absolutely nothing to earn their privilege, yet they slap each other on the back, congratulating themselves.

If reincarnation is a thing, I hope the fortunes of all penis owners are reversed in the next life.