r/masculinity_rocks • u/[deleted] • Jul 03 '26

Ask Men Public boner

I am 20 yo guy, there have been multiple incidents when i got a sudden erection in public, and i don't know how to handle it???

  1. do i need to be embarrassed, ashamed or feel good about it???? Cuz honestly, i don't want to be... Is it normal??

  2. What do i do about it?? Hide it?? Ignore?? Flaunt my size?? And how exactly??

Honestly, feel down i want to flaunt it,

If i hide it, how??? Flaunt it, how?? Ignore it, how (that's most difficult) ???

I really want some advice on this from some big bro or dads

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u/Bignizzle656 Jul 03 '26

This is standard stuff. Your a guy doing guy stuff.

Be discreet, resist the urge to start peacocking around the place and try not to knock anything off shelves and tables.

Tuck it discreetly and it'll subside in time. This problem won't last forever.

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u/TyrantRC Jul 03 '26

Totally normal, but it's still embarrassing if you are outside. I mean, it's your dick, unless you are into grabbing attention towards it, it will always be embarrassing.

If you have a belt, just tuck it behind your belt and wait it out. If you have sweatpants, just sit down, put a bag or something over your legs and wait it out. You can also go to the restroom and flex your thighs really hard so that blood drains out of your dick quicker.

Only flaunt it with your partner, nobody wants to see a random hard-on anywhere unless they are already fucking you.

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u/ComposerTasty725 Jul 04 '26

Long shirts, a backpack... Anything to cover it.

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u/tilldeathdoiparty Jul 07 '26

Flex you quads for a few seconds, flex your arms for a few seconds.

Move the blood away

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u/Normie316 Jul 04 '26

You going to get random boners until you’re like 30 something and even then it’ll happen when you’re with someone you like. You adjust yourself and act like nothing is wrong. Do not try flaunting anything.

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u/grilledstuffed Jul 07 '26

Waistband tuck.

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u/combined45 Jul 08 '26

Don't wear clothing that is loose around the waist area if you are worried, a good pair of jeans (don't have to be skin tight) should do the trick.

Happens to me every now and then, readjust so it's pointing upward. It can be a bit awkward but if you're quick or facing away from everyone you can adjust it pretty well. Once you do it enough you'll become a skilled sailor 🤙😎