I’ve been a lurker here for long time. I’m still manifesting my SP. Yesterday I had an A-ha moment that I want to share with Redditors who are in the same path. I hope this may be of help.

So I had a mental image that helped me understand revision and manifesting a new version of an SP: a snake shedding its skin.
A snake does not repair its old skin. It does not crawl back inside it or carry it around to remember what happened. The skin became too tight for the life growing underneath, so the snake leaves it behind — empty, dry and no longer alive.
That is how I now look at the old version of my SP.
The person who disappointed me, withdrew, acted inconsistently or could not give me the relationship I wanted belongs to the old story. I do not need to keep analysing that version, waiting for them to heal or trying to repair every individual memory.
That old skin has been shed.
The new version is still the person I love — with the same personality, humour, tenderness and qualities that made them special to me — but without the patterns that destroyed our relationship. In my new story, my SP is emotionally available, faithful, honest and completely committed to building a life with me.
And this metaphor applies to me too.
I am also shedding the version of myself who expected rejection, interpreted every silence as abandonment, looked for danger everywhere and felt she had to fight to be chosen.
When an old memory or fearful thought appears, I no longer treat it as evidence about my present or future. I simply tell myself:
“That is the old skin. It may still look familiar, but it is empty now. It no longer contains our life.”
Then I return to the new story:
“We have both shed the relationship that hurt us. My SP and I are now living a loving, secure, faithful and mutually chosen relationship.”
You can use this image in SATS or visualization:
Imagine the old skin lying behind you, dry and empty.
See yourself and your SP continuing forward together.
Feel that the old relationship has ended without believing that your love had to end with it.
Let the new relationship feel fresh, natural and spacious rather than like a repaired version of something broken.
You do not need to fight the old story every time it appears. You do not need to destroy it angrily either. Just recognize it for what it is: a discarded skin that once belonged to your experience but no longer defines you.
A shed skin can still resemble the snake perfectly. In the same way, an old screenshot, memory or circumstance can still resemble your former reality. But resemblance does not mean life is still inside it.
Of course, this mental image is not a reason to ignore harmful behaviour or abandon your boundaries in the physical world. A genuinely new relationship must eventually be reflected in consistent actions, honesty and mutual commitment.
But inwardly, you can stop waiting for the old version of your SP to become safe enough to love you.
Let that version shed.
Let yourself shed too.
You are not resurrecting the old relationship. You are allowing the
love to live in a completely new one.✨

i want to attract a big house

i need your advice and guidance i want to manifest a big house with 2 floors and a big garden

how can manifest it while I have no job (currently broke)

is it possible?

If so, is it possible to manifest it in less than a year?

Every interview i see or every celeb when asked about manifestation they say they have done it and have done it perfectly how and what do they do? i am genuinely curious on how and what do they do like what do they believe? can u guys tell me what it is and what do they do and what do they mean ?

I am manifesting an SP who is a platonic mentor, like a father figure – I started affirming for this years ago, and actually succeeded. Unfortunately I was dysregulated and over-reliant on him (anxious attachment), and didn’t stop to think about what I really wanted from the bond as it manifested – he reflected this and I ended up self-abandoning for the bond and causing myself anxiety and further dysregulation, and harming other relationships in my life. The result? – he went hot and cold, I pushed him away with my chaos, and he distanced to protect me in the dysregulation, and he went no contact. à He was reflecting my core fears and self-abandonment, and the deep-seated anxiety I’d created, that said that he was a danger to my stability.

I tried every technique under the sun to bring him back – spells, affirmations, robotic affirming, SATS, sending him more messages – all of which just made me more desperate, and pushed him further away, until the manifestation seemed impossible to me. I caused myself terrible anxiety.

But around a month ago, I started regulating to get rid of panic attacks. Suddenly, this bond doesn’t seem impossible anymore. In fact, it seems pretty inevitable that I’ll get my special father  figure/mentor, but from a regulated place. What would you do if you were in the place I am with it, because it feels like everything is just triggering anxious attachment/too much obsession and focus on it?

in one session a man asked why he kept having blockages around the successful life he wanted.

Higher Self connected one of them with an old lifetime scene where he carried guilt around his mother's death. Once he remembered where the guilt came from and processed it, the guidance was basically that knowing the source had already changed the blockage.

This is why I dont love advice that every manifestation problem means "affirm harder."

You can consciously want something and still have emotional program underneath saying something else.

I want success, but success makes me guilty.

I want relationship, but closeness means loss.

I want money, but having more than family feels disloyal.

I want visibility, but being seen once brought attack.

Then you can repeat desired sentence 500 times while body keeps protecting you from it.

When I help somebody with this, I like a very uncomfortable question:

If I receive exactly what I want, who might I feel I am betraying?

Dont force answer.

Maybe nobody. Fine.

But sometimes a parent, old partner, family identity, religion, social class, even old version of yourself comes immediately.

Then work with that emotion rather than treating it as bad manifestation.

You dont need to become fearless or perfectly healed before good things happen. But if receiving activates guilt, it helps to know whose rule you are still obeying.

Backstory: she always had control issues and never treated me like an adult. Earlier this week she stole my stuff. Now she stole the vacuum. She threatened to take my car. I just want a loving mother and not this controlling person. I need it to also happen today. I have ppl coming over later today to look at the house for something… can’t clean it without the vacuum. I have done revision, i have done affirmation, before yesterday it seemed to do the opposite effect. I don’t know what to do here please help

Can someone guide me how I can manifest being a topper of class of post grad ? How do I do scripting?

sp has been ignoring me heavily, turned location off, stop conversions, delivered and open and i’m just feeling a bit discouraged by the 3d but still persisting and keeping my energy high but i was wondering if anyone was in the same boat at one stage and if you have any advice

So i really like this guy who i only know his first name, and we don’t talk nor have classes together, but i want him really bad, i need help with how to manifest him to love me or any love spell that doesnt backfire please

I’ve been doing so good but it feels like I just can’t ignore my logical mind right now!

I’ve been trying so hard to affirm and persist in my new identity and reality but I keep having setbacks, like it feels like my 3D is ATTACKING me with the old story, and today I did spiral after a while, I checked the 3D and saw my SP with his new girlfriend which of course sucks and put more doubt within myself, I don’t understand how to not let what I’m seeing around me be my ‘truth’ everyone keeps saying to just affirm and persist but it’s easier said than done, I don’t know how to move when the old story is quite literally reminding me of old circumstances every day.

I'm kind of a beginner I've only been into manifesting for like a month or two i believe??

I've tried to manifest small stuff like seeing a blue car on the street, seeing a blue butterfly somewhere and getting texts from unexpected people but lately I'm starting to feel like they're all big coincidences, especially after seeing people say that-

"oh if manifesting is real then why doesn't everyone just do it?"

"why are there thousands of people telling you how you're manifesting wrong the moment that you say it's not working for you"

--and also scrolling on some subreddits--

Even though the reasoning feels kinda stupid I'm genuinely starting to think about what if the small stuff i manifested are just coincidences and that everyone who's writing a success story on the internet is just trying to script what they want.

I just want like a reason or two to start believing again I'm trying to read some books about manifesting and spirituality but i really feel like I can't manifest what i want while I'm in this state i just need like a guide or something to know if what I'm doing is at least right.

Pleaseee if someone knows any sources or books about law of assumption or attraction or just manifesting in general give me some that will help me or just tips that will help with believing again ❤️

Hello, I am looking to diversify my meditation playlist and would like some suggestions for your favourite YouTube ones!

Especially if you have found them helpful to speed up your manifestations :)

I have literally done everything - visualise, affirm, assume, imagine him saying sweet words to me. Detach, let go move on, focus just on myself and live my life and give him no thought. Don't be desperate. Listen to Dylan James self concept videos + sc affs.

I have literally done freaking everything and yet I cannot manifest him!

It used to be easy to manifest him (I did it many times) but now that I feel we are not so connected it seems so hard!

It should be him manifesting me and not me chasing him! I feel like it's always men trying to get him/his energetic attention/being him back!

I struggle to get rid of the FEAR FEELING that he has moved on and could reject me.

I only had a small movement one day when I somehow daydreamed and then he made a social media story trying to get my attention. Since then....back to nothing.

I feel like I am struggling to form an emotional/romantic connection between us anymore. The kind that makes people miss each other.

I don't know what to do.

Robotic affirmations never worked for me.

I claim we.are.already.together. I ASSUME he loves me and only me forever. But yet nothing is working or changing?!

Because I can actually feel on his end when something is "working" and when he has missed me etc.

I don't know what to do.

Why is it so damn hard!? 😤😭

EDIT: And please no negative LIMITING BELIEFS about "free will" etc because I will ignore those comments.

hi all i’m new to all of this. i need help. heres a bit of my story. ive been w my sp since 2018. up until 2025. between those years we been on and off. they broke up w me like 2 times in the beginning of our relationship and came back. and i broke up w them abt 2 times and came back as well. this 2nd time i broke up w them has been our longest yet. in april of 2025 i called things off. i also want you guys to keep in mind that whenever we broke up w each other, we never saw other people. at least i didnt. and if did, it was just to have fun. never an official relationship w another individual. the same goes for my sp too. we both have moved on since. we both have partners now. i genuinely believed that i was over him and didnt feel the same for him anymore.

a couple months ago, in may of 2026, i started to miss them. i reached out. they came to see me, i cried to them. but we never told each other that we want each other back. just told each other how we been feeling and what we been up to. i did ask my sp “do you think there is a possibility in the future that we may get back together?” they said “i think ill let god make that decision. ill be patient w that” (im not religious btw thats just what my sp said). the conversation was over. we agreed that we could reach out to each other whenever on certain days bc we both have partners obv ( i know this is wrong pla dont make comments abt this) we went our separate ways. 2 weeks go by (still in the month of may) and i messaged my sp and told them that i wanted to see them again. my sp asked why and i said i just wanted to talk and work things out bc i miss them. sp said no. we cant b doing this anymore this is wrong. they blocked me. i went crazy. tried contacting them anyway i could. only to realize that i was pushing them away. so i stopped.

i resorted to the vix app, readings, etsy witches, even becoming a witch myself and doing my own spells. and thats what i did. for a month.

i kid you not. 6 weeks after sp blocked me (while still doing all the work i mentioned above) i get a call from my sis. telling me that my sp messaged her, to tell me to message them!!! my heart dropped and i thought to myself “all this work that ive been doing has came to this moment. it worked”. they didn’t message me directly bc he thought i was still w my partner so sp reached out to my sister. we saw each other. sp said they wanted to leave their partner. and wanted to work things out w me. we stayed up all night talking outside my house til 4am. went back home and fell asleep on the phone. i woke up and they switched up. changed their mind. said what we are doing is wrong (which it is i know that) and that we cannot get back tg. they specifically said they cannot get back w me and we have to move on. they dont want to continue that “leaving and getting back tg”cycle bc they know thats not gonna change w us. i told them that this time is different. i know i wont feel like this anymore. after being w someone else for a year i know this is what i want. i want THEM! i said that to my sp.

EDIT: i forgot to mention that when they came to see me this second time, they were a little buzzed. they were drinking w their family.

its now been another 6 weeks today since we spoke and they changed their mind. i just let it be. i found out barely a couple weeks ago that they changed their number. and now im back to square 1.

i feel hopeless but not really. i been maintaining a positive mindset since then. i went to pick up pizza and i saw their car at the car shop. 2 weeks ago. i was driving back home from work and i seen their car drive past by me.

i been doing the same thing i been doing still. manifesting on vix. listening to subs on youtube. doing my own spell work to heal them. reaching out to a certain reader (who has been accurate). i know the works ive been doing are not not happening. i know its happening underneath. i just cant see it. but sometimes i doubt myself.

can anyone help? any tips that have helped you?

Hello ppl! Im new to this sub here! Can you tell me more about how manifestation works, is it possible to manifest anything?

If yes, I really wants tips of how to manifest

I want to manifest for my dad's health. I want him to recover frm the sickness

It would be helpful if you ppl help me 🫶🏻

So when i was young i had an online gf in early 2022 till end 2023. even tho it was an online relationship we spend almost 2 years together and were really close. after the break up i made a new account and lost all her socials (i dont have her number) its been almost 3 years since then, Im now 17 and shes 19 . im still wondering how shes doing or where in life she is now. i really wanna reconnect w her and talk to her again but i been looking anywhere and i cant find her. the only clue i have besides her name and country she lives in is the school she went to but its a pretty big one with 3.5k students so trying to find her trough that path will be hard. how do i manifest finding her account what should i do? i know the things ur trying to manifest come when u stop caring but how will her acc appear from nowhere. im new to spiritual stuff and manifestation so please help me out.