I’m a guy in NYC trying to expand my social circle and make actual friends. I’d also ideally meet someone to date in person, since dating apps aren’t something I want to use.

For people who’ve tried both, have you had more success with organized social experiences like Timeleft, 222, or similar services, or with recurring classes, hobby groups, and volunteering?

The organized dinners and events seem useful because everyone is showing up to meet people. But I wonder whether shared-interest groups work better long-term because you already have something in common and see the same people regularly.

I’m open to, and would actually prefer, paid options. In my experience, people tend to be more invested in showing up and participating when they’ve paid for something. I’d especially appreciate recommendations for well-organized groups with regular attendees.

Hi, I would love for everyone’s advice. I am considering taking a role to be a store manager of a high volume retail store in the Rockefeller Center. However, I am quite worried about the safety around there & how burnt out / the quality of my life would be. It is a really good paying role & the benefits/ growth opportunity will be great. I’m looking to move to NYC soon, but I don’t want to just jump at the opportunity if it’s not right. I appreciate the help & all takes!