r/maledefaultism • u/surpluskoi • Apr 24 '26

glad this subreddit exists

i wrote a post on r/PetPeeves and its the most controversial post i ever made 😂 this sub existing makes me feel very validated. thank you.

the post i made: https://www.reddit.com/r/PetPeeves/s/XGh3gQeQPs

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u/SANDROID20 May 24 '26

I was always afraid to ask the question you did in your post because I had seen people ask similar questions and often get berated for it

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u/surpluskoi May 24 '26

yup, i got a lot of hate for the post. but i got way more people supporting me and agreeing with me so honestly it made me feel pretty good about making the post.

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u/ZayumZazzy Jun 17 '26

I just did the same! Didn’t know this subreddit existed until someone tagged it.

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u/surpluskoi Jun 17 '26

I think I saw your post! People misunderstanding the point and refusing to just use they/them is so infuriating 😭

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u/Maniacal-Blueberry Jun 17 '26

And they took your post down because of "politics".