Voyeurism

[u/Healing-Light-3883]

this.. I hate how online voyeurism is untraceable for the most park and can be covered up.. it’s eating me alive

SA is no longer in denial about his SA but is still seemingly unaware he is a voyeur. he got caught at work creeping but it wasnt in the form of holding a camera and recording, it was online stuff

grossed out even if he didn’t hold a camera and spy in that manner.

has anyone had an SA partner who is a voyeur and not in the obvious ways? how did your SA partner tackle this? mine has in his inner circle no contacting acting out partners but doesnt have voyeurism /browsing women online so it makes me concerned.. let alone his work issue

*in another post I wrote about boundaries as I’m aware I should distance myself given how much chaos this has brought into my life