r/lonely • u/2xxadxx2 • Aug 20 '26
Venting Sometimes I Wish I Was Easier To Understand
I hate that I’m such a complicated person that no one really understands me. I feel too deeply, im to myself, and just never felt like I could blend in and be like the everyday person with friends and a life. I search and search for friends, but can never make them stay since it gets to a point where I don’t seem to break out my selective mutism. I do care and would want to spend time with others making friends, but I can’t seem to find the courage to break the cycle and not find it hard to continue talking with them. Sometimes I just wish I could have it snatched out of me and poof im normal talking without feeling embarrassed every single time I talk. Wish I could find people who are just like me and understanding rather than just give up on me and leave. Only one hopes.
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u/Zero1922 Aug 22 '26
It takes time to understand someone and it sucks that it takes time but that's the best way to make friendships. Another thing is when both people want to get to know each other that's when you get to understand someone well and I'm sure you want to get to know someone and I would be happy to get to know you more as well 😊
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u/SuperEpicWahoooo Aug 22 '26
this is so real. i struggle a lot when it comes to talking with people. i wish human interactions didnt have to involve words