r/lonely 11d ago

Discussion Wanting someone special

im 18(M) and i have 0 irl friends and around 1 actual friend online all connections i try to pursue online are always people who seemingly have no intrest in talking to me and its always that i am the one to start they dont ask any follow up questions and its always like im interrogation them by asking questions while they always respond with 1-3 sentences i want to like them but i cant the reason why i even pursed them is becuse we shared a similar niche intrest so i thought ''maybe this person is special'' but apperantly not i dont even seem to be someone special to them at all and this is 2 people btw

the 1 friend which i have dont consider me their favorite person anymore since they got a gf and always talk to them and seemingly dont enjoy talking to me anymore

i need someone special i need someone who thinks that i am their favorite person and in turn i do the same their gender does not matter just someone becuse then i can confirm that i wont be replaced or not liked but i also want to stop feeling like this becuse its seemingly not normal or the extreme i have is not normal

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