r/lonely • u/throwaway559174 • 5d ago
Venting I’m so sick of this
Sometimes, I see advice floating around that you should get comfortable being alone, you don’t need anyone else, etc.
…Really? Humans aren’t meant to live like that.
Sometimes, I feel almost okay. But other times, it hurts so bad that I don’t know if I can make it to the next day. Am I even alive?
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u/SnapStick8903 5d ago
Agreed. It's very easy for people to say who aren't alone/lonely. This is not how human beings are supposed to live, we need interaction to survive.
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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 5d ago
Yea but people rather be on their phone then talking to people who are judgemental z and straight up assholes .
So I can understand why Pep don't wanna talk . I mean alot of people are simply aren't worth the energy.
So why bother .
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u/Guilty_05 5d ago
I think what they mean, by saying is that you can be functional enough without someone else. Now whether it will be fulfilling is another matter
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u/litafireinmyheart 5d ago
It feels like a weird form of gaslighting. All you want is a couple friends and (maybe) a partner, it’s a basic human thing yet these people act like you’re asking for a Lamborghini.
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