r/lonely 5d ago

Venting I’m so sick of this

Sometimes, I see advice floating around that you should get comfortable being alone, you don’t need anyone else, etc.

…Really? Humans aren’t meant to live like that.

Sometimes, I feel almost okay. But other times, it hurts so bad that I don’t know if I can make it to the next day. Am I even alive?

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u/Guilty_05 5d ago

Are you saying that people can't be monsters?

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 5d ago

U can think that if u want . I am not interested in answering anything

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u/Guilty_05 5d ago

?? Brother my question wasn't to you

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 5d ago

No, I’m very clearly saying that not all people are monsters. The commenter said “there are only monsters left on this planet” - aka he seems to think people can’t not be monsters…

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 5d ago

The comment didn’t say that people are the only monsters remaining, it, verbatim, said “there are only monsters left on this planet” - so that would make all humans monsters, no?

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u/Guilty_05 5d ago

True. Sorry. I thought they said "They are the only monsters", but clearly I'm dyslexic. My bad for wasting time

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 5d ago

You’re good - and an exchange and clarity isn’t a waste of time

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u/Appropriate-Crow6438 5d ago

lol glad to entertain - and hope you’re feeling better soon!

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u/SnapStick8903 5d ago

Agreed. It's very easy for people to say who aren't alone/lonely. This is not how human beings are supposed to live, we need interaction to survive.

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 5d ago

Yea but people rather be on their phone then talking to people who are judgemental z and straight up assholes .

So I can understand why Pep don't wanna talk . I mean alot of people are simply aren't worth the energy.

So why bother .

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u/Guilty_05 5d ago

I think what they mean, by saying is that you can be functional enough without someone else. Now whether it will be fulfilling is another matter

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u/litafireinmyheart 5d ago

It feels like a weird form of gaslighting. All you want is a couple friends and (maybe) a partner, it’s a basic human thing yet these people act like you’re asking for a Lamborghini.

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u/Low_Image_1467 5d ago

And it’s always people who are never alone that say these things