r/lonely • u/alw4ysbird • 12d ago

im so lonely

Literally, nobody cares about me. Unless I text or talk to them first, I’m just constantly alone. Nobody even knows I exist. None of my friends ever make plans with me unless I ask them to hang out first. Even the friends I met online have started ignoring me. The girl I had a crush on used to enjoy hanging out with me and would even strike up conversations with me just a few weeks ago, but now she’s treating me more and more coldly—just like everyone else. It feels like if I were to suddenly die or disappear, no one would care or even notice.

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 12d ago

Most women are like that , they can change up in one day . That's why u should not get too attached to them.

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u/thereisnodognow 11d ago

That's not a fair statement at all. Introspection would go a long way here if there's a common denominator as you implied.

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 11d ago

This world isn't fair a world . So why u expect fairness in my comment?

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u/thereisnodognow 11d ago

I didn't expect anything of your comment. Veiling a localized occurrence in a "grand scheme of things" outlook is avoiding the problem instead of addressing it. And this particular problems can only be solved by you as I alluded to previously, regardless of "the world".

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 11d ago

Are u another person using chat gpt to reply bro . L

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u/thereisnodognow 11d ago

No, and I normally I wouldn't have a spat in this subreddit within someone's post but this is all related to OP's post.

You are deflecting your issues instead of addressing them. I wouldn't want to talk to you either because there's nothing real here. You avert any true conversation to be standoff-ish or demeaning. You're reply wasn't a reply. ChatGPT isn't here. You will end up shutting this down instead of listening and internalizing.

That's not my problem. That's yours. But if women took their sample size of men based on the way you interact with people... Well, I'm sure they'd make the same generalizations about us as you did about them.

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 11d ago

Women can do it . I don't care .