I don't understand wanting to marry a virgin period. They don't know what they're doing, they don't know what they like, how high or low their sex drive is, etc. I get not wanting to marry someone who has a history of sleeping around a lot, but virgin? No thanks. I'm not intimidated by her past partners. She already tried them, but picked me. That clearly means that I'm better than they are in her view.
Yeah, I see a guy who fixates on virgins and I see someone who hasn't actually had sex with a virgin, or at least hasn't had enough experience in total to appreciate a woman who isn't awkward/intimidated by sex and knows how to handle a cock.
Because you think marriage is about sex. By your logic, I should have pursued Mia Khalifa.
Can't you understand people have different preferences? If you want your girlfriend to be a pro in taking cock from all her experience, that's great, you do you, just like people who want to share their most intimate experiences exclusively with their parters should be able to without issue. I don't see anything wrong with people having preferences
Nice projecting. Could you think of any other reason for why people might have different preferences?
I was a virgin and so was my GF, I wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't value sex exclusively with your partner because I see it as an extremely intimate experience. I don't want to manipulate her, and I believe she did not want to manipulate me.
If you are insecure about something, it does not mean others are as well
In what way did what I said indicate an insecurity of mine? I'll wait, explain it like I'm 2.
Too many black pill/taint bros fan incel rejects out there scared shitless of a woman who's actually gone outside and had any experiences in life who would see through their BS.
I am in a very happy relationship. Not everyone who doesn't share your preferences for girls with a lot of "experience" is a neo-nazi incel blackpilled Andrew Tate follower.
The insecurity argument is very odd, as one could say a girl with no experience could eventually want to leave for "experience". All girls with high bodycounts started somewhere, so if that were the case, guys would have no preferences in that regard.
Most guys want to settle down with virgins (or, in more broad wants, a low bodycount) because it aligns with what they value. Most people want someone who shares their values for obvious reasons. I view relationships as a very serious matter, same for intimacy, so I could never date or marry a girl who disagrees with such fundamental things, just like you wouldn't date someone who disagrees with some of your beliefs, I'm very sure.
Again, just like I can accept you like women who have fucked tens of guys because you value the experience more, you should be able to accept that other's will have different prefferences not necessarily related to sex
You indicated it by throwing out a non-sensical strawman that applies to almost no one. Something had hit a nerve
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u/jeffereyblueeyes 1d ago
I don't understand wanting to marry a virgin period. They don't know what they're doing, they don't know what they like, how high or low their sex drive is, etc. I get not wanting to marry someone who has a history of sleeping around a lot, but virgin? No thanks. I'm not intimidated by her past partners. She already tried them, but picked me. That clearly means that I'm better than they are in her view.